The Conservatory
Noble & Sidhe Manners
"Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose."
~Fanny Brice
Noble Etiquette
Ah yes, You have come to learn about the proper etiquette that a Noble or
any Sidhe should comport themselves with. Well, as to that there are several
levels on which each member or the nobility should be familiar with:
- First off, there's etiquette for leading a group, be it as a duke or owner of
a freehold presiding over the supper table. One should never lose their calm and
cool head, no matter what the situation. Be kind and benign to everyone,
especially those who others may look down upon. (This will also win you a little
personal affection) Be careful not to be condescending, and make sure you
remain approachable. Make eye contact with as many of the people in the room
as possible, for this makes you seem more personable, and will keep people's
attention.
- Next, there's manners for when a guest in another freehold. Be
exceedingly kind to the host/ hostess, and bringing a gift as a token of thanks is
in line here. Let the host/ hostess lead the conversation unless you are asked to
do so. Be wary of making yourself at home, don't consume too much. Be very
polite and courteous to all household members, including servants. You do want
to be invited back, don't you?
- Then, there's etiquette when you're traveling- for the driver of your
transportation if it's hired, and the keeper of the inn. Like as when a guest, be
exceedingly polite towards all household members. Pay in full on time, if not in
advance. Don't be too picky. Be glad you're getting service. Don't expect credit
just because of who you are. Because many commoners dislike nobility, be
humble around them. Give them a good impression of the Nobles.
- When around a noble of higher rank, give them the respect they deserve.
Don't lower yourself, though, to running around behind them begging for favors.
Defer to their judgment at all times, unless it runs a physical risk to themselves
or directly to you. A small gift (preferably one of Glamour) would be a nice token.
- If you should be invited to a party, ball or some other type of gala event
with other nobles, comport yourself with dignity. Be respectful of those with
higher rank and kind to those of lower. Don't do anything you may later regret,
for your betters are watching you. If being presented to the King or someone of
extreme high rank, be the epitome of respect. Finally, if liquor is being served,
watch your intake! (Unless it is Samhain- no one will remember then anyway.). You never know what you will do if
intoxicated.
- And lastly, when you are attending a public event (jousting match, opera
ect.), be polite to all around you. Smile at the commoners, and be kind to
vendors ect. (tips earn big points for you) You can expect respect from
commoners, but don't walk all over them because of it. An arrogant noble is
never liked. Keep that in mind.
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