Hi, my name is Alf Welcome to my home page

INTERESTS

People, human sexuality, education, gender equality, justice, spirituality and issues relating to invalidation or empowerment by self  and others and all forms of addiction. Computers and the internet, camping, chess, photography, enjoy movies and a range of music. (not necessarily in that order and not very sporty as you can see)

If you would like to contact me please accept this invitation to do so I am on MSN ICQ and YAHOO under the username urbalf or email urbalf@yahoo.com

PERSONAL

I was born in 1952 in Poland and have lived in NSW Australia since 1960. I married in 1977 and separated from my wife in 1999. I have 4 children. Attending the  divorce was one of the emptiest experiences of my life. I met a very special lady on the net in 1999 but regrettably we parted company seven years later. I believe in a God but I do not belong to any religion and feel that the way we treat others on a daily basis determines how sacred we become during our lifetime.

Behind the next button below is a little children's  story sent to me by a Canadian lady living in Japan in 1999. I found it touching and share it in the hope that you are as  touched by it as  I was.

THANKS

Thanks for being visitor

To my  friends and family living  locally and on the net who have been a source of support and encouragement especially during the not so happy times in the last decade. And to the folk I miss  so much - may we meet again soon.