Position Requirements:

Must be 27 years old and older.
Children from prior relationships are welcome.
If he has children, he must accept the fact that I want to be a part of their lives as well and will incorporate them into my own family as if they were my own children.
If he wants another child, must be willing to wait at least one year from the time we make a real commitment with eachother.
Must be willing to take the lead as a man of my household, able and willing to make decisions pertinent to our family life as well as all other decisions that affect our relationship.
Must serve as a good example to my kids, showing virtue, good morals, honor and respect for God and the Law and human beings in general.
Must be strong yet kindhearted.
Must be able to make good unbiased decisions that are logical, reasonable and rationale.
Must be able to talk out a hectic situation instead of resorting to argumentativeness, yelling, screaming and verbal abusiveness.
Must be able to and willing to listen and let me have my say knowing that I will not disrespect him in front of others but pull him aside privately to discuss such matters.
Must be able to keep personal information confidential and not use such information as a tool against me.
Must not be secretive but open and honest and to the point.
Must not get all riled up just because I don't ask a million times a day where, when, how, and with whom knowing that I don't act in this matter because I have given full confidence he would not jeopardize our relationship.
Must be willing to respect my personal space and need for time alone and desire the same for self.
Must have a good family connection, be willing to develop a good family connection with my own family and expect the same from me. In fact, must hold the belief that family is important.
Must be ambitious and willing to work at success in every aspect of life and MUST require the same from me.
Must allow me to explore my tastes, desires and interests without trying to saddle me.
Must be willing to listen to, seek out and respect my opinions and consider them during the decision-making process, being confident that whatever decision he makes, whether or not I agree, will be respected fully.
Must value me as an equal and a capable assistance and not see me merely as a possession.
Must allow me to clean, cook and do mundane things by myself in my own peace and quiet.
Must not expect me to be all sentimental at all times but still not hinder me from showing affection.
Must allow me to both study and receive my spiritual food as well as teach spiritual concepts to my children.
Must be willing to take me aside in private to discuss a situation with me instead of discussing those things in front of other people.
Must allow me to be the person I am knowing and being confident that my intention is always to make him look good to everybody in my conduct, my beliefs and my attitude.
Must understand and allow me to express my natural tendencies to be genuinely concerned and helpful.
Must not put down my beliefs or feelings or ideas in any way but be willing to nurture them.
Must be willing to stand by my side in a situation I truly feel compassionate about even if he does not agree knowing and being confident that I would do the same.
Must be willing to make me look good to everybody in his conduct.
Must understand that I sometimes have very sensitive nerves and need peace and quiet and is willing to accommodate me.
Must understand that my commitment is to him alone and just because I am nice to another man is no indication whatsoever that I am interested in that person in any way whatsoever but is simply because I am generally a nice, helpful and concerned person.
Must not subject me to watching wrestling at all!
Must not require that I check in with him every single minute of the day but trust the fact that my heart belongs to him and I would never do anything to jeopardize that.
Must be willing to travel.
Must like camping.
Must not place so much importance on the remembrance and celebration of birthdays, anniversaries and holidays understanding that such things have no priority with me for truly everyday of life should be celebrated.
Must allow me to treat him like a King without taking advantage of the fact that he's being treated like a King so if I'm too tired to clean - just understand.
Must not openly in front of my children or anybody, for that matter, express his disagreement with something I have said or done but take me aside and discuss these things privately.
Must be willing to accept the fact that my role as a woman is to take care of the mundane and household details, including the raising of children and financial budgeting, and allow me to do those things understanding that my ability to do such things makes me feel proud of myself and very much like a woman.
Must not be afraid to ask me anything but be confident that I am not going to respect him any less for asking me even what he might perceive to be a stupid question and must not judge me on the same.
Must understand that the past is in the past and the present is a result of the lessons we've learned and the many mistakes we've made in the past and be willing to focus on the present and the future.
Must be willing to enter the relationship with a clean slate for both of us - not judging or basing his expectations on the relationships we've had in the past knowing that no two individuals and situations are alike.
Must not get on my case because of my bad habits but positively encourage me to change them and not condemn me for trying to help him change his.
Must be confident enough about himself that he doesn't perceive my desire to help him advance in any aspect of life as demoralizing to his manhood.
Must not have a need to be in constant conversation and be willing to just lay down with me and watch TV in silence.
Must understand that sometimes I just want to crawl in his arms for no real reason at all and disappear altogether and not question me continually when I do so but just gently and silently hold me.
Must not misunderstand anything I say and take it personally if I try to explain a concept, feeling or belief but actually listen to me actively for somewhere in that explanation is the true meaning - it just sometimes takes me some time to get to it in a way I feel would best describe it.
Must understand that I am career-oriented and be willing to encourage me to express that side of me knowing that I will always put my family first and would never get involved in something that would take that time away from me.
Must be able to assimilate to any given situation meaning I can feel confident about taking him to the hood or to a classy restaurant.
But, above all, must be loving and willing to fall in love and allow me to fall in love with him.
Must not feel bad about going to strip clubs or looking at other women in a respectable manner (meaning not trying to get with them but just commenting on how they look) and not be surprised if I look at another woman and point her out and comment on how good she looks. Women have the license to do those things.
Must understand the fact that I am confident in myself so I don't get jealous or envious.
Must be open-minded and nonjudgmental.
Must not give up so easily.
Must not be surprised if I ask for his guidance in a personal decision but willing to impart his knowledge.
Must not be afraid to disagree with me on anything.
Must not try to impose anything on me I don't want to do but accept and respect me for who I am.
Must be willing to work at our relationship knowing and understanding that all relationships have their ups and downs but a true commitment of love endures even those.
And, one last requirement before I forget, must be willing to have sex AT LEAST twice a day - once in the morning before even getting out of bed and once in the evening before going to bed.

To apply, please send resume complete with personal and professional references.