I've found, over the years, as I retreated into my "world"
which I felt I must live in, with a husband who was ill, a
son to raise, and a job which kept me pretty much tied to the computer, that I was indeed "blessed" with many friends.
Friends who were there at the touch of "icq", email, in
seconds, minutes, etc. Friends who knew when I was in
trouble, when I didn't even tell them anything -- they
just "knew". I've been blessed in making friends, through tearing down, or letting down "walls" which I had built up -- because I felt that I had to -- in order to "survive" this
thing I call "fate".
My friends, much to my betterment as a person, and to my
delight, have "taught" me that this must not be so -- I do
not have to live within this self-imposed "prison"..... I can
and am learning to be -- "free". It is a frightening journey that I begin -- however, with friends such as I have been fortunate to meet -- I feel I can make that journey -- and if I stumble and fall along the way -- I shall have "many" hands reaching out to give me a "boost".
If through knowing me, one person has ever been "helped" or
aided as much as I have been helped and aided, then I
count myself indeed fortunate -- for this means that I
have also learned the art of "giving" of myself --
unconditionally -- just "giving"..... and that is, to me,
what friendship is about.
So, to all my friends who have given so much of
themselves, to me, and to so many others,
I dedicate these pages to all of "you".
My friends.
Friends -- I used to, many years ago, think I was not blessed with many. I was very, very wrong.
You entered my life in a casual way,
And saw at a glance what I needed;
There were others who passed me or met me each day,
But never a one of them heeded.
Perhaps you were thinking of other folks more,
Or chance simply seemed to decree it;
I know there were many such chances before,
But others -- well, they didn't see it.
You said just the thing that I wished you would say,
And you made me believe that you meant it;
I held up my head in the old gallant way,
And resolved you should never repent it.
There are times when encouragement means such a lot,
And a word is enough to convey it;
There were others who could have, as easy as not --
But, just the same, they didn't say it.
There may have been someone who could have done more
To help me along, though I doubt it;
What I needed was cheering, and always before
They had let me plod onward without it.
You helped to refashion the dream of my heart,
And made me turn eagerly to it;
There were others who might have (I question that part) --
But, after all, they didn't do it!
by Grace Stricker Dawson
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