WHAT SHOULD WE BE PRAYING FOREvery day millions of Jews worldwide open their prayer books (sidurim) to pray. Some are experienced in praying (experienced "daveners") that are expert at the service they are attending to, others are beginners flipping back and forth between their native {English, French, Spanish etc.}and Hebrew, and yet others are sleep-talking like robots through the holy prayers ofthe day.
Looking beyond ones proficiency in the language, the prayer structure and the outstanding beauty of the prayers themselves, what exactly are people praying for? What should people be praying for?
Of course the answer is different for every person. Some are praying for health, others forhappiness, and still others for livelihood, success, serenity�.. There is no question that prayer is very personal.
BUT, if our sages coined and instituted with divine spirit a communal liturgy that has lasted since the times of the Talmud until today, and which is reflected in every traditional prayer book in the world, there MUST BE a national spirituality (kavannah) we can aim for as well. Our prayers can be launched into the same spiritual sphere in the heavens as those of our late forefathers and mothers.
Rabbi Ephraim Epstein suggests a few items that should be listed on our national spirituality agenda. If Jews worldwide would pierce the heavens in unity with the following in mind, I am confident that the prayers (tefillot) will be appreciated and attended to.
- Shalom = Peace: Domestic, Communal, in Israel, and worldwide.
- Wisdom - We (as individuals and as a nation) face complex daily and ongoing challenges that require genuine wisdom to deal with.
- Truth - To discover, understand and experience lives of truth.
As the Talmud remarks, "Kol Yisroel Arayvim Zeh Lazeh" - "we are all responsible for one another." We need to pray not only for ourselves, but also for each other. This is one reason why all the blessings in The Amidah are in plural ... Chanaynu, Bareych Aleynu, Refa'aynu, Bestow upon us, Bless us, Heal us....
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OUTMANEUVERING THE YEITZER HARARabbi Nachman of Breslov stressed the importance of personal prayers in addition to the mandatory daily prayers. He said that the yeitzer hara (the evil inclination) tries to obstruct prayers from reaching heaven, and it is therefore necessary to outmaneuver this yeitzer hara.
An analogy: If one is afraid that the highwaymen will rob him of his possessions, one can eliminate this danger by avoiding the well-traveled routes and blazing a new trail, because it is along the well-traveled roads that robbers lie in wait for their victims.
Similarly, the yeitzer hara attacks during the scheduled prayers. If one takes another path, a private path, the yeitzer hara does not suspect this, and one can safely get by.
That is why it is important ... in addition to the regular prayers ... to pray many times during the day, in whatever language one understand, and pour out one's innermost feelings to G-d. The yeitzer hara is thus caught off guard, and will not obstruct these prayers.
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AND FINALLY
Not exactly an official prayer, but if from the heart, it's probably just as good.Dear G-d ... so far today I've done all right. I haven't gossiped and I haven't lost my temper. I haven't been grumpy, nasty or selfish, haven't had a sinful thought, and I'm really glad of that. But in a few minutes, G-d, I'm going to be getting out of bed and from then on, I'm probably going to need a lot of help. Amen.
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