Parents

Parents today do not realize how important their roles are. To do virtually anything you must hold a liscence or degree of some sort, but anybody can have a child. You don't have to have any skills at all. And this is not right. Kids today are being hurt physically, sexually, and more often, emotionally.

People have children, and they have no idea how to handle a child. They so often do what their parents did. And we all know that that is not always the wise thing. This is the 90's. You'd think that people would be smarter. But it seems, we just get more infantile in our ways of thinking.

People want to be good parents for the most part. But they do not know how, and they are often too afraid to ask, or they ask the wrong people. Does this not say something about our society? Think about it for a moment. If u see your neighbor going to a family councelor, he/she is automatically thought of as a bad parent or spouse. Why? This person is taking the time to improve his family. These people, should be commended, not looked upon as bad parents or spouse's.

The next time u are going to make a joke or comment on someone else, you might want to think about what you are doing as a child, spouse, or parent. Just because you don't hit someone and physically abusing them, it does not mean you are a good parent. Keep this in mind.

Remember that you can never turn back time. That once a moment is gone, it can never be relived. You may not have time to tell someone you love that you love them tomarrow, so do it now. If you are actually reading this, then that means you have lots of free time. Give someone you love a hug and tell them what they mean to you. Because it may be too late tomarrow. Just because you feel something towards a person, they may not know it. Do not assume they do, because that assumption is many times wrong.

*smile* may your life be filled with happiness and all of your hopes and dreams come true!

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