After A While

After a while you learn the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company
doesn't mean security.
Adn you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and
presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up
and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not
the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today because
tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you
get too much.
So plant your garden and decorate your own soul, instead
of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.