The term bondage is often associated with a particular sexual activity. This assumption is often correct, but is not always. Bondage can be a non-sexual activity as well. The problem with the term bondage is that people are raised to believe that it is a sexual practice. There are people who do not use bondage sexually, but they still enjoy it. Non-sexual bondage, or plutonic bondage, is a viable activity.

I personally take bondage to be a sexual activity. For me I enjoy a wide variety of activities. Being tied up or tying someone up is enjoyable to me. I take pleasure in this activity for a variety of reasons. For me I enjoy being in total control of some one as they lay their tied up. I also enjoy the sensation of being helpless while some one else is playing with my body.

The other thing that people often get confused is with S&M. Sadism and machoism is not alway a part of bondage. Yes, the two do often times go together, but they are not so interwoven that they can not be seperated. Bondage is not necessarily painful. It may look painful, but it is not as painful as pictures make it look. Sure, certain styles of bondage do cause some pain, but not all types of bondge.

As both a master, top, and slave, bottom, I can easily write about both sides of this activity. To start with I am supplying a checklist for you to fill out. This checklist can be printed out so that you can show it to your master/slave.

New addition folks...I've added on a section to these pages concerned with cock and ball torture. Please feel free to read the discription of this activity. I would be grateful for any replys as to what you think of this particular activity. Just remember, I ask that you read all the things on these pages with an open mind, don't assume anything till after ead my arguments.

I'm working on adding a section dedicated to self-bondage right now. For the time beig I've uploaded a small collection of pics of self bondage for people to glance at.

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