________________________________________________________________________ | w w w |\ | || || | || |\ | o_,_7 _|| . _o_7 _|| 4_|_|| o_w_, |\ | ( : / (_) / ( . |\ | |\ | || || | || |T | | || | |\ | . _, _8 |_D_|| . _,_,_,_D_|| 4_|| q ]_o_7_o _|_c 4_|_|| _|,_p q |\ | (_): / (_): . : / (_S (_S / |\ | |\ | In the Name of Allah, the Compassionate, the All-Merciful |\ | Greeting of Allah be upon Muhammad and the pure members of his House |\ |_______________________________________________________________________|\ Salamun `Alaykum The following question as kindly answered by Mulla Bashir Rahim. NOTE: As per Mulla Bashir's request, we shall arrange to post the profound Khutba of Imam Hussein (a.s) which has been referred to in the response below. Fee Amaanillah, Akil Karim Moderator - 'Aalim Network ---------- Forwarded message ---------- QUESTION: I am wondering about the limitations of "enjoining the good and forbidding the evil." I understand we should help other Muslims by reminding them when they have done something wrong, and encourage them to do good. But how should one deal with Muslims who respond angrily or unappreciatively to your attempts? Even if you try to admonish in a kind way, sometimes it will still cut a raw nerve in some people to hear what you tell them. Should you then stop in order to keep peace in the relationship, or should you continue to "enjoin and forbid" as issues come up? Some examples of these issues might be: reminding a Muslima of her duty to wear hijab, reminding a friend who is about to cheat someone in a business deal that this is unIslamic, chastising a Muslim who has broken a promise to another Muslim, etc. Please answer according to rulings of Ayat. Khameini. ANSWER: Thank you for asking a question concerning one of the most important tenets of Islam. Please forgive me for the delay which has been due to circumstances beyond my control. While your concern is confined to the difficulties encountered in discharging the obligation of amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir, I trust you will bear with me if I first discuss the importance of these requirements because I feel that their importance need to be fully understood by the ummah. The Holy Qur'an enjoins us again and again to do amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir. In suratul aale-Imran [III] Ayah 110 Allah says: "You are the best community raised up for mankind. You enjoin right conduct and forbid evil (you do amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir) and you believe in Allah." Please also see the ayah III:104, IX:71 and XXXI:17. At the same time Islam safeguards an individual's right to privacy in the strongest possible terms. In suratul Hujaraat [XLIX] Ayah 12 Allah says: "O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion, for indeed suspicion (in some cases) is a sin. And spy not, nor backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother?" Amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir inevitably involve encroachment upon some one's right to privacy. Where the exercise by an individual of his right to privacy is likely to adversely effect the right of another individual or a group or the ummah or the mankind, that right of privacy is forfeited and the ummah has the duty to counsel that individual. A few ahaadeeth on the subject are worth noting: The Holy Prophet (SAWAW). has said :The world is like a ship and mankind its passengers. The welfare of all depends upon the safe conduct of each. If anyone is found making a hole on the side of a ship, he must be stopped. The Holy 5th Imam (AS) "Amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir are the most important obligations because upon them depend the performance of all other obligations. If amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir are done the earth will become a safe place, enemies will be subdued and all other affairs discharged satisfactorily" The Holy Prophet (SAWAW) "He who does amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anilmunkir is the vicegerent on the earth of Allah, His Prophet and His Book." Addressing the Muslim scholars in Mecca after he had left Madinah on his way to Kerbala, Imam Hussain (A.S.) remonstrated with them because of their failure to do amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir. This is a very long hadith and is reported in Al-Tawhid Vol.VII, No.4 p.41. It also explains Imams's stand against Yezid. I request the administration to arrange to post the Hadith. Now let us revert to your specific concerns. The fuqaha are all agreed on an individual's duties with regard to amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir and the difficulties one often confronts. I am assured that Ayatullah Khameni's views coincide with those of Ayatullah Ruhullah Khumaini and marhum Ayatullah Khui, upon whom I have mostly relied. Amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir are wajib-e-Kifaai. If one person does it, it is saqit on the others. If no one does it all are equally accountable, regardless of their financial or social status, provided the following requirements are met: (a) he himself is aware of what is good and what is bad from the Islamic point of view; (b) he believes that the person to whom he wishes to do amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir will listen and follow the advice. If he is satisfied that the person will not under any circumstances listen to the advice, it is then not wajib upon him to do amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir to that person; (c) he is satisfied that by his undertaking to do amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir no personal or financial suffering will be caused to a third party. Ways of doing amr-bil-ma'roof and nahya 'anil munkir: (a) By tongue. By talking to the person and persuading him, using the politest posible language to start off with. (b) By conduct. If talking produces no result, a gradual withdrawal of friendship and companionship should be resorted to. (c) The next stage should be to report the matter to 'alam-e-shar'a (the mujtahid whose muqallid you are or his duly appointed "wakil" authorised to decide jurisprudential matters). I trust the above is helpful. If you need any further information or clarification, I shall be happy to assist. May Allah in His infinite mercy forgive us our sins. References: Tafseer-e-Namoonah Vol.III pages 48 and 49. Ayatullah Khumaini's Tawzeehul Masaail (Urdu Version) mas'ala 2800, p.437; Ayatullah Gul Paigani's Tawzeehul Masaail (Urdu Version) mas'alas 2858 -2869); Ayatullah Khui's Tawzeehul Masaail (Gujerati Version) pp. 350-7 With salaams and du'aas from an humble servant of Ahlul Bayt and their followers, and with a request to be remembered by you in your prayers, Bashir Rahim