If you are being ignored in the chat rooms, or even if only bored, you might try this to enliven your life. Pick a room (the one you are in will do just fine). Read the tag lines of those that are chatting in the room. Also read what they are posting. Look for things that are funny, or are odd, or are out of the ordinary, or that you can turn into something to laugh at. Then send a PM (Private Message) to that person! MOST of the time they will PM back and zingo bingo you are no longer IGNORED and BORED!
Have fun with your PMing total strangers! Just remember, the second you meet them, they are NOT strangers anymore!