Orgasm denial torture suggestions by a Mistress
I suggest binding your slave securely, teasing him relentlessly, and remembering to gratify yourself plentifully along the way. If you are bursting, yourself, (at least if you are like me,) it will be pretty hard to convince yourself that getting down to business isn't the best choice. But making your slave watch you orgasm is one of the best ways to tease him. Furthermore, using him creatively to gain your own climax while denying him his own is an art form. A delicious one, at that. In addition to the mere pleasure of watching your slave writhe and the sense of accomplishment at being able to fight the urge to completely jump him, being skilled at orgasm control has many other benefits. Once you have set the precedent that you can and will deny him an orgasm, a world of new punishment opportunities arise. This kind of power over a slave increases the validity of your control in general and adds extra emphasis to any command you give. Save your breath when your slave is misbehaving. You now have a three-word threat to beat all threats: no orgasm tonight. And did I mention the obvious? If your slave is anything like mine, the longer you withhold that orgasm, the more obedient and submissive he will get, and the better it will finally be in the end - if you ever do decide to give in. Another technique of orgasm control is that of bringing a submissive to the brink of climax over and over again. This can be done over a period of hours (or days...WOW!) and can be excruciatingly exciting. Coupled with BDSM play - alternating "to the brink" sex play and BDSM play - this is a great way to produce explosive orgasms.