The Art of Sensuality

I find it amazing that most people don't know the Art of Sensuality. It seems that most of us spend our time worrying about the conflicts of daily life and take for granted the good things around us.

Take for example a loving significant other... Both are going about their daily chores and both have their own worries. As they find time to be intimate, it usually is preformed in a rushed automatic state.

How many of you actually take the time to indulge in your partner? How many of you can actually detail the body of the one we love?

Touch, a lost sense, taken for granted by most humans. Stop and think what a wonderful gift this is. Thus without it, we would have never been able to surpass our expectantcy of what sensualness really is.

Tonight I want you to take the time to start your learning in the Art of Sensuality.

First you must set the mood. Maybe some aromatic or therapeudic candles. Some soft music, preferably acustic. Try starting with a hot shower, the two of you. Wash eachother hair, and feel the texture of the strands. Caress each others bodies in a slow arousing manner. When done, why not towel dry one another, with all the tenderness and love that each of us is capable of sharing.

Now dance your way to the bed, lie next to and facing eachother, close your eyes, and take in the music, listen for its magical effects, let the setting transport you to the most tranquil place in your mind...

Once you feel relax ( please no falling asleep, not yet) take turns in lightly caressing, touching, exploring the other's body. This technique should be preformed slowly and ritmically. Can you notice things that maybe you had overlooked (overfelt in this case) before? Maybe a tiny scar, or a hidden mole? Take turns in exploring. Relax yourselves and fall into a state of suspension and total surrender.

Try this first step at least once a week, make time in your busy schedule to enjoy true happiness. Money is not everything. Slow the pace and learn to enjoy and love your significant other with the touch of your fingertips!