Who is God? God is the Creator of
Heaven and earth and all things. What is man? Man is a mere creature
composed of body and soul and made in the image and likeness of God.
As has been said, man is
different from animal because he has an immortal soul endowed with
intellect and free will. Man, on his own, cannot produce a human being. It
takes God to infuse the intelligent and free-willed soul into each body He
has created. This teaches us that God alone causes human life - we merely
cooperate with Him. He oversees the conception of each and every one of us
individually, and one-by-one. This is unlike animals which He allows to
populate "automatically," so to speak. God's plans are made for
all eternity, and He has set His Natural Law as His plan of procreation.
Therefore, how foolish it is for man to think he conceives, just because
God allows man's nature to cooperate with His plan. None of us
would be here if God did not decide on an individual basis to let each of
us exist. He hovers over our conceptions personally, creating us Himself
on the spot, body and soul simultaneously, and wanting each of us in the
world for His purpose-for He hopes we will want Him too.
Cardinal Newman wrote: "He
is Almighty and might have done all things Himself, but it has been His
Will to bring about His purposes by the beings He created" (A
Neuman Treasury, pg, 356). This tells us we are not born to
tell God when, how and why, but to serve Him as His instrument, to be used
by Him in His way - even though we may feel that this cross gets
heavy and we are persecuted by the modernists of our day.
St. John tells us in the Gospel,
"But to as many as received Him, He gave the power of becoming sons
of God, to those who believe in His name; who were born not of blood, nor
of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God" (John
1:13). There can be no doubt that each conception of a man is
truly God's domain. The awesome thought is that God allows us to share in
His momentous action of creating us - and not the other way around. How
could man possibly choose the time to conceive, when only God knows the
future and a man's full potential by the power of His grace? How many
parents in their later years, come to realize why this or that one of
their children was born at a certain time during their married life, or in
a certain spot amid their sequence of children? Who knows which child may
help them in their old age - or which may become the religious or saint?
Who can calculate the loss when God's certain procreative plan for a
family is tampered with or denied? (The story is famous of a woman who
told of having confessed to the Venerable Padre Pio that she had an
abortion. Not thinking she was contrite enough, he angrily admonished her
for the murder, and revealed that the child was to have been a pope.)
I have a friend who had four
girls and was in the sixth month of her fifth pregnancy when her husband
was killed. The child was a boy, and when a visitor remarked to the mother
how sad it was that the husband was not there she replied, "He is
right here in my son." What would that mother have wrought by the
foolishness of family planning? She would have rejected one of God's
greatest blessings in her life. What right has the finite mind of man to
make decisions that affect human history and all eternity? Consider as
well that there are many large families into which, for years, only boys
were born. Finally, at the end, came a girl. Would those parents ever have
known the joy of a baby girl at last, if family planning had been in
progress and their string of children cut off, so to speak, "in the
midst?" And the same can be said of those all-girl families, ending
finally in a boy. All of us must remember that we made serious vows at
Baptism. As a result and ever since, we have walked about daily under
those solemn promises we made to always choose God's Will and renounce the
devil and all his works and pomps - of which birth control is one of the
cleverest, and NFP the cleverest of that!
Children are the direct
inheritance of God, to live for all eternity. Therefore, man
should have no fear of God's inheritance. How blest can life be if God so
designs to increase our inheritance! Who knows the damage wrought by NFP,
as much as by any other form of birth control? Are we to doubt God's
judgment about what is most advantageous for us? How can a woman possibly
look God straight in the face and tell Him her heart is open to His
beautiful inheritance of the gift of life, when she is taking her
temperature and observing and counseling her husband to make sure life
will not ensue? When man tries to interfere with God's power, man suffers
all the ills we see today such as St. Paul describes in his Epistle
to the Romans. And Dr. Hemingway from Warrnambool, Australia,
gives us this broadening bit of information when he views contraception as
a worse moral crime than murder:
Because murder leaves the soul
intact, the victim can always be compensated, in eternity for the
loss of his natural life. For this reason, while abortion, murder, etc.,
are very serious matters they remain as finite crime. Their
effects are limited to earthly life and the evil associated with
them can be undone - if God so wills - in eternity. The same does not
apply to contraceptive intercourse. The child denied
existence by a contraceptive act is robbed of his immortal soul. He
cannot possibly enjoy the bliss of Heaven and not even God can
compensate him for his loss. For this reason, the effects of contraceptive
intercourse can never be removed and contraception is a crime
against life of infinite magnitude.
Contraception blocks the very
entrance to life and denies God the love of a new son. Furthermore,
contraception prolongs His denial to all eternity, so it is hard,
indeed, to imagine any greater evil that man can do. It is hard, also,
to imagine any action more pleasing to Satan, the enemy of souls.
Again, God has made man free,
with the choice to work with Him or not. The teaching of the Catholic
Faith regarding children, which Catholic couples accept on their wedding
day, is a Divine Law allowing no tolerance for birth control-for the
primary purpose of marriage is children.
Our Blessed Mother also had the
freedom to choose, and because of her openness to God she called down many
sorrows and sufferings on herself. But did not the blessings God poured
out to her and all mankind because of this "yes" affect man's
world for the best, both here as well as in eternity? And so it is with
all who subject themselves to God's Will. When we teach our young people
to limit their families-their inheritance from God-we are also teaching
them to limit God's blessings of knowledge and understanding in their own
lives. This, in turn, renders them incapable of imparting this knowledge
and understanding to their children. In a word, this anti-life spirit
undermines the couple's faith-and any teaching that destroys faith can
only come from Satan as it accomplishes his work, not God's.
As has been said, Pope Pius XII
was the first Pope to actually condone the Rhythm method as the devil
incited society to exert pressure for a "Catholic" birth
control. This drove the wedge of the contraceptive mentality deeper into
the issue of NFP, so as to force the door wide open to its acceptance. A
lack of knowledge regarding biology may have been part of this
destruction; or maybe the problem was in too much wisdomless
knowledge. But the underlying thrust is that the Hierarchy should not have
had to know this biology in the first place, as God had already laid down
His Rules (the Natural Law)! Man refused God's way although the
responsibility o the Hierarchy was to reinforce God's way, and not
listen to the cries of the rebellious who looked to science to placate
them. But the devil used the blinded Hierarchy and the recent NFP-prone
Popes. They were seduced by the distorted words of the advocates of NFP,
perhaps somewhat on purpose-perhaps having other, evil intentions in mind.
It is of no small interest to know that the Rockefeller Foundation helped
fund the commission researching NFP for the Vatican! What could possibly
be the intent here in trying to reduce the number of new souls-and new
Catholics in particular?
Regarding some of the harmful
side-effects of NFP, at least one eminent Catholic spoke out. John R.
Cavanaugh, MD. a member of the faculty of the School of Sacred Theology of
the Catholic University of American and editor of the Bulletin of the
Guild of Catholic Psychiatrists of America, was a member of the
Pope's commission which studied the Rhythm method. His conclusions were
published in the August 1966 edition of Marriage Magazine:
I write as a clinician, as one
who deals with the individual person and not with abstract principles,
as a scientist interested in people and basing my opinion in large part
on the results of this study. I must conclude that the use of Rhythm is
productive of serious psychological harm. I recognize that I disagree
with the opinions of some of the philosophers. Further, Vatican Council
II has stated that the conjugal love of the husband and wife is an
important aspect of marriage. I feel it is an extremely important one.
Rhythm is, therefore, harmful to the psychological relationship of the
husband and wife because:
1) It deprives a woman of the
conjugal act during the time of her greatest desire, during the post-ovulatory
and mid-cycle peaks of desire.
2) This deprivation causes
severe frustration in many couples.
3) If Rhythm is used, as it is
now recommend for safe use, it allows intercourse on relatively few days
a month in most cases. This leads frustration.
4) Disagreement over its use
and quarrels over its failures cause marital discord.
5) Such marital disharmony with
its attending symptoms may cause psychic damage to the offspring.
6) The reputation for high
use-failure in Rhythm causes a high degree of anxiety in even
well-motivated couples.
The above comments apply to the
psychological aspects of the use of Rhythm. They are not meant to imply
that Rhythm may not be biologically effective in the control of
conception.
Dr. Rock, inventor of the Pill,
said that Rhythm is unnatural and therefore should be abolished. (Of
course, he would want his Pill used instead.)
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