SO, NOW when you see the word pride, you should automatically think it pertains to the gay sets overballyhooed parade. Pride is much too grand a word to be dragged down to that connotation. Let me see now; even the Sesame-set should be able to see the obvious when I ask "Which one of these things doesn't belong:" I've worked hard, raised a family and never asked for a dime. Of that I'm proud. I practised like mad to become a semi-pro harmonicist. Of that I'm proud. Born in Denmark, I'm now a Canadian citizen. Of that I'm proud. I delight in piercing my testicles, ears, nose, navel and tongue and parading naked in front of little children flaunting aforementioned body parts. Of that I'm proud. Can you see which one doesn't belong?
 Ingo Andersen
 (Why would anyone take little kids to the Pride Parade?)
 


 MR. RICHARDSON, I share your opinion (Letters, Sun, July 30) that the Lesbian and Gay Pride Day Parade can be somewhat bizarre. I have never understood the need for S/M demonstrations or the need to celebrate the day nude. However, as a gay male living in Toronto, I have seen many things I would consider outrageous both on and off Church St. and as long as it's not hurting me, who am I to judge? I do feel it is important though to have Lesbian and Gay Pride Day. Everyday is "straight day" when you're gay. Heterosexuals don't fear verbal or physical abuse because of their sexual orientation. So if we have one week a year where we can publicly show our pride outside of Church St. would you take that away from us?
 Steve Burnell
 Toronto
 (Many people would)
 


 SO THE Metro Police have their hands tied when it comes to bondage and nudity at the Gay Parade. To act might label our poor beleaguered police force as homophobic. You've just made it very clear that the homosexuals hold the city of Toronto at ransom for one day a year. My 13-year-old daughter was sickened and revolted by the five seconds that she saw of the parade on the 11 p.m. news. (I scrambled to change the channel.) As I was comforting her she went on to say that she was glad her parents were normal and safe.
 Brenda Walsh
 Peterboro
 (You can teach her not to fear people who are different)
 


 I AM appalled and depressed over the reactions to Rachel Giese's June 30 column. Am I the only heterosexual who found the column funny? Rachel's column was a wonderful example of brilliant satire. It made me laugh and it also made me think. The homophobic reactions of several readers who obviously do not understand satire or the point Rachel was trying to make, were disgusting and saddening. Don't those people have a sense of humor? I sincerely hope that the backlash that the Sun has received will not deter the paper from printing more of Ms. Giese's columns. She is a funny, intelligent and insightful writer.
 Michael Martin
 Oakville
 (You're not; they don't; it won't and she is)
 


 I FIND your editorial comment to Mark Richardson (Letters, July 16) totally inconsistent with your usual stance on freedom of speech (his July letter in reponse to Rachel Giese's column "Straight people are dangerous," Sun, June 30). The Sun regularly defends a person's right to make intelligent race-related observations without fear of being branded a racist. Can't a reader make a comment on gay and lesbian behavior without being deemed homophobic, as your comment "if the shoe fits" implies? The problem I have with Giese's column is that it advocates a world where the responsibility of propagating the species would fall into the hands of big business. If heterosexuality disappeared, children would have to be conceived in laboratories, with lesbian couples purchasing sperm from gay donors and gay couples paying to rent wombs from surrogate lesbian mothers. Yes, gay and lesbian couples are capable of providing a loving, nuturing environment to a growing child. In Giese's world, however, children would become nothing more than commodities to be bought and sold.
 David DeRocco
 St. Catharines
 (Where did Giese say children were commodities?)
 

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