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I have a boy friend who i would like to marry going to prison for a long time. i could use help comments and/or information. O.K. here is a bit of my story: I meet David in 1995. We have been friend since then. He became my boy friend and I lived with him for a while. During the time we were together I realized that I could spend the rest of my life with this man. I have had a lot of relationships, but I’ve always never wanted to get married. But some thing, everything about him was right. To this day I still feel the same. Yes we had our problems and went through some hard times. We had drug problems that started to pull us apart. I started seeing it and was so hurt inside so I told him we needed to be friends for a while. Still I wanted to be around him and be close to him I love him and have for a long time. So we still stayed really close but I did move out. The last time I saw him we stayed up all night by a campfire talking. He was so high and I got a bit high. We held each other I can see those moments so clearly... A short time latter a friend saw me between classes on campus, she said did you hear about David? NO what, I say? She says wait until her break she had to tell me outside. So I wait, I think god he has been busted for drugs, he is hurt and in a hospital. I was thinking of all these bad things that could have happened, I was worried. So she gets a break and walks out on to the deck with a newspaper in her hand. I say what? She puts the front page down unfolded on the table in front of me. The headline says sometime about murder, I quickly scan through the story. I see the name of the person killed, I know him, then I see the names of those arrested, David’s name is there. I am stunned. This is a nightmare. No I read it wrong I read it over and over again. I can’t believe what I am reading. That was almost 2 years ago. To this day it has been hard but I do believe it now. What has happened is with me each moment of my life. I still live my life and on the outside hold together but inside I am dying, I don’t know how to deal. He will go to prison with in two months. He is getting 20 years. I love him. I do not want anyone else. I have not strayed in two years. I have gone on with my schooling and my child (who is not his). But I have not gone on with my life. My heart is his. We stay in contact as much as I can. Visits are hard for me. We sit with that glass between us with our hands pressed to the glass wishing so much just to touch each other’s hands. It is so hard not to cry but I want to be strong for him. And in a way for myself. Yet I have no one to talk to I am afraid that people will look down on me for loving him. Our relationship was never based on sex. We are friends and lovers. I miss his hugs and holding hands the most. I am wanting to marry him. I am afraid because I know nothing about prison but I am willing to deal with anything for him. IF ANYONE CAN SHARE ANY KNOWLEDGE AND/OR INFORMATION I WOULD BE SO GRATEFUL> I KNOW I HAVE A LONG ROAD AHEAD OF ME BUT I AM WILLING TO TAKE IT.........thank you for you time. jtanner@cmc.net

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I visited your site. I 'm a Norwegian correction officer. I have an unofficial homepage of the prison where I 've been working for 10 years. http://home.sol.no/~trond23/eulvsneso.htm This is the URL to Bergen central prison division Osterøy in Norway.

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In about three months I will be sent to a Federal Prison of my choice. I would like to attend one that treats the immates respectfully and gives me the opportunity to advance in education. I am not very experienced in Prisons, How do I choose the best P ison? I need Help? I am very scared that I will pick the wrong one and end up Living 10 years in HELL! Please help me. Thanx

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Lenny - 09/20/98 22:51:26
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