 The Arrest
Part 1-Before the Arrest The Explanation
Part 4-My Side of The Story The Outcome
Part 6-Outcome of the Case
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Part 4 - My Side of the Story Sorting Out the Facts
I really wish that people would hear my side of the story before automatically assuming I did it. I have a hard time believing things when I hear them now because I know what it's like to be assumed to be some sick human being. Anyways...there was never actually a trial due to the circumstances (SEE PART 6) but here is a breakdown of all of the facts and theories I've come up with.
I'm gonna start off by just describing myself. If you know me, you know I have a huge guilty conscience when I do something wrong. Even if it's something like not flushing the toilet or something, it just eats at me. That prevents me from lying about things and something as serious as this would have eaten me alive if I had done it. I would have confessed right away. But I didn't do it...for 2 reasons. #1-I'm not a physically violent person. I don't hit people...ESPECIALLY NOT WOMEN. I respect women and care about just about every one I meet. I despise any man who physically hurts a woman...that's just who I am. I don't even hit guys...I think I've only ever been in fights with 2 guys, my stepbrother and my cousin. They weren't even serious and they were when I was like 10 yrs old. #2-I don't threaten people. She says i threatened to kill her or something...never happened. Ever since people started threatening me so they could look like big shots when my ex broke up with me, I hate threats.
I've asked myself this question over and over for well over a year now and I still don't know the answer. I can only think of two things. Maybe she was protecting someone else?
Ex-Boyfriend-This is a guy who she was seeing for a few months and by funny coincidence, broke up with him almost the exact same time as I was arrested. I also found a card from one of her friends which was to her, saying that "...he had better stop treating her like crap." My first thought was that maybe he was beating her but why wouldn't she just say it was him then? Well, the only thing I can come up with is that he was a friend of one of her friend's boyfriend. And that friend was the person who she had mysteriously been staying with around the time of my arrest despite the fact that they had grown apart over the couple of years prior to that.
Other Friends or Friend's Father-Who knows? Somebody she worked with or who she went to school with could have been beating her. Or maybe even a father or brother of one of her friends. I don't know.
Another possibility is that she was just jealous of me. My whole life, I had been a good person and maybe now, with the new people she was hanging out with, she couldn't stand it. And when I was depressed, my mother always was worried about me so maybe she was jealous of that. So she gets a couple of bruises and says that I did it in order to make me look bad and automatically she becomes the good person who is an innocent victim. She finally gets the attention that she has wanted.
My father works from 10 PM to 7 AM and my mother works 7 AM to 4 PM. So basically, there was always someone home, which would make it pretty hard for me to attack her like she claims. I think my mom was working some nights at that time though too but don't you think that the first thing someone who is supposedly getting beaten by her brother would do is tell her parents? Things just don't add up as you'll see.
OK, there were two main bruises that were pointed out, and for all I know, the only ones she had. The one on her eye and the one on her leg. The funny thing is that when I was staying over at my gram's house, my parents were saying how my sister was still coming home with bruises. She also had a mark around her neck like someone was trying to choke her or something. Her excuse for these is that she was wrestling with someone or something.
Another funny thing...I was watching the movie "FEAR", which starred Reese Witherspoon and I think Mark Wahlberg. Anyways, it's about a girl who falls for a guy who turns out to be a psycho if you don't know what I'm talking about. But here's the thing...in the movie, Reese gets hit in the face by her b/f, gets a bruised eye, and she tells her parents it was from volleyball...SOUND FAMILIAR?? Another thing was when the b/f stood and pounded on his own chest and gave himself bruises and then blamed it on the girls dad so she would hate her dad...hmmm...alot of interesting things. It wouldn't be as weird but my sister actually owns the movie so that makes me wonder.
OK, so she came home that one day with a bruise on her eye and she was wearing sunglasses. I was the one to notice it with my father sitting right there. So why would I point out a bruise that I supposedly gave her? She told me that she was hit by someone in volleyball and she even told me his name! I had worked with him at Ponderosa so I knew who he was. And then she continued to say it was a volleyball related incident when the detective was there. If I had been hurting her, why didn't she just say so then? And the bruise was on the right eye, which wuld have made me a left hander...I don't do anything with my left hand. But she later said I had backhanded her after my mother pointed out that little left-right detail to her.
The bruise on her leg was what I saw when I went into the police station because they had taken photos. But this is the incident where things really get fishy. Right around that same time, she had fallen down my back steps so maybe she got it from there. This is what happened on the day she claimed it happened. On the day when DYPHUS came to close the case or whatever, I was to go and meet Korin at 4. The lady couldn't make it until 4 so I called Korin and told her I would be a little late. I didn't really know where she lived and I get lost very easily so I wasn't sure when I would get to her house. Anyways, the lady came and everything and left around 4:30. My sister had a band concert or something so she wanted to use my car but I told her I needed it. There was no argument because it was my car and I had to nothing to argue about. Anyhow, I asked everyone if they knew where the street was that I was going to. They didn't so I left for Korin's and actually found it rather easily. I got there within 5 minutes or so after I left. My parents were going to dinner so they left a little after me and then my sister left with my mom's car. REMEMBER, my parents were still home when I left. I was with Korin from 4:35 or 4:40 until about 8 or 9 that night when my parents were already home, making it impossible for me to have done anything...but this is how she describes it:
She said that after my parents left for dinner, I beat her on the leg with a broomstick and then left to see Korin. I'm wondering if she said that in her statement too because that would have really made her look like a fool. Why? Because when I told my mom how it really happened and my parents left AFTER me, she remembered and told my sister. So, she changes her story and now says that I left, then my parents left, and then I came back and beat hear before leaving to see Korin. The reason she gives for me "beating" her? She says I was upset over gas or something...LoL. If you know me, I let my gas get down to the E before worrying about it and it still had about 1/4 of a tank left that day...I only had to go like 2 miles to see Korin so why would I be upset about the gas? And after such an ordeal, wouldn't I have been a little upset when I got to Korin's? It takes me a while to cool off when I am mad but I wasn't then. And why would I wait so long for my parents to leave, come back, and then go and try to find a place that I had no clue how to find all in 5 minutes?!?!?! The weapon thing is pretty silly too because I wouldn't even know where to find a broomstick in my house.
Anyways, a few questions. If I had beaten her, wouldn't she have been pretty upset? I mean, to still go to that concert after being supposedly beaten with a stick?? She had my mom's car, which has a phone in it so why wouldn't she have called someone?? And I'm sure people at the concert would have noticed that she was upset or something. The fact is that she constantly changed her story and mine stayed the same...she was caught in a lie and kept coming up with more. Read Part 5 to see a few of the reasons why my sister is unable to be trusted or believed.
Conclusion
There are many conclusions that I have come to. Number one is that my sister is one sick human being. I don't know what happened to make her like this but she needs some serious psychological help. I'm wondering if she realizes that she lied, which I'm sure she did, or if maybe in her mind, these things did happen. Maybe she took some drugs or something that caused her to have some kind of hallucinations...I don't know.
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My Character/Reputation