CAN means am able or to be able to.
EXAMPLE:
I can do that for you.
Can you do that for me?
MAY is used to ask politely to be premitted or allowed to do something.
EXAMPLE:
May I be excused?
You may sit there.
2. He's smart, he can / may do it himself.
3. When can / may I have my dessert?
4. I can / may tell you exactly what she said.
5. He can / may speak fluent Spanish.
7. I can / may be allowed to attend the concert.
8. It's bright, can / may I see it?
9. Can / May my friend stay for dinner?
11. I can / may see your point.
13. Can / May you help me with my shoes?
14. Mother, can / may go out and play?