| Main :: April 1998 |
| Wed Apr 29 15:07 |
| I have a question, not exactly about bras but related. The summer is fast approaching and tanks are in season. I hate to wear a bra with my tank. Someone suggest tapping them. Is this possible? If so how do you do that? |
| Tanya - 38 c/d |
| Wed Apr 29 13:57 |
| To Mike : Well, I've bought underwear for women in the past and it's not as tricky as you might think. A good starting point is to have a look at the sort of stuff she wears already. This will give you a good idea of the things she likes. The golden rule here is that most women prefer something that is comfortable to wear rather than ultra sexy. So, assuming this is the first time you're buying womens' underwear, the safest thing you can do is to get something that is not too different from what she already has. Then, if she likes it you can always get something a bit more raunchy the next time. Have a good look around and don't buy the first thing you see. Also, I think most women prefer white or black so only go for fancy colours (like red or green) if you're absolutely certain she won't think it's tacky or tarty. Again, having a look at her underwear will help you out there. The wide straps are to make it more comfy to wear I think (it stops the straps digging into her shoulders). Remember, buying nice, well-fitting lingerie for a woman is one of the nicest things you can do for her (women NEVER have enough bras and knickers). It can be embarrassing at first but soon you'll wonder what all the fuss was about. Good luck ! |
| Lee |
| ljp@exel.co.uk |
| Wed Apr 29 13:07 |
| Hi I have a question. It is soon to be my girlfriends birthday. I am planning to surprise her with some sexy lingerie, but when I look at the Victoria’s Secret catalog I become culls. She wears a bra that I guess you could call full coverage, Platy, or Bali , the ones with the wide backs and straps. I am not sure why, or what kind I should get, I can’t ask as I would give my gift away. I want to get one that she’ll wear. She is 34C. Does the strap in the back make a difference? Some have one hook, while others have three. Any comments would be helpful. Mike |
| Mike |
| n67vm@aol.com |
| Wed Apr 29 05:03 |
| To Ron: For the most part, I wear clothes that tend to disguise my figure. The way the girls bounce all day in their bra is a private pleasure for me. Sometimes, though, my naughty streak takes over, especially on weekends. Then, I'll wear this purple bra I bought at Frederick's. It has half cups that really lift everything up, so a lot is bulging above the cups, and gets really jiggly. I wear this under a cream colored top that's made of a shiny, almost see-through material. I leave it unbuttoned quite low. When I'm in this mood, I love to go out in public and find out how many guys (a usually quite a few girls) take appreciative glances at my figure. At times like that, if I catch someone looking down my top, I usually inhale deeply to swell my chest out or shimmy my shoulders a little to give the girls some movement. I only go on these ``slut'' walks a couple times a year, but they're always special. Girls with small boobs -- or with big ones locked up in sports bras all the time -- don't know what they're missing. |
| Sara38DD - 38DD |
| sara38dd@hotmail.com |
| Tue Apr 28 14:00 |
| To Ron : I'm finding our conversation interesting as well. I' glad I happened on to this site ; I could not have imagined that so many men & women would consider themselves "brastrap fans." I'm a bit surprised with my interest, but I am so enjoying this. To answer a few of your questions, I do think a lot of guys pay attention to my bustline. Of course, not all men are attracted to a full bosom, but the ones that are are quite noticable at times. And many are more discreet and polite than are others. I can certainly be flattered , and I am quite often; I can also be angered, disgusted and appalled. Some comments I've heard, catcalls, and jokes directed at me have hurt alittle, (never have I really been embarrassed -- I appreciate my attributes too much to feel embarrassed). Yet, for the most part, I like my figure and the attention it brings. I've seen guys looking down my blouse since I was in jr. high. There are times when it has struck me as inappropriate, but most of the time I find it amusing in an innocent sort of way. I think a little bounce does attract some attention and I rather enjoy it -- there are times when I don't feel attractive or in the mood for a stare , but in the balance of things I like feeling as though men find me attractive. I do feel quite fortunate to be well-endowed and I take the irritating facts of life in stride while I immensely enjoy the look in a lover's eyes when I share myself with him. I' m proud of my breasts and what my bra does to accentuate them. I hope I've been of some help. |
| Debra D. - 36 D |
| none |
| http://none |
| Tue Apr 28 06:25 |
| Prior to the last couple of messages, it seems like there was an interesting conversation developing between a few larger-busted women. This message is for Debra D., Marsha, and Sara 38-DD. Have you noticed that guys pay a lot more attention to you because of your bigger bra size? If so, are you flattered by this, or does it make you uncomfortable? Do you ever notice guys trying to check out your bra, or sneak a peek down your shirt? If you have a little "bounce", do you notice that men stare more? Does this bug you? I'm interested in your thoughts on this. I have always been infatuated by big-busted women, and I think that you look very sexy in your bras. |
| Ron |
| Mon Apr 27 14:00 |
| I am very small, 32aa. and wear a very padded bra. It adds 2 cup sizes. Any other women in the same situation? |
| Sara |
| mscldk@aol.com |
| Fri Apr 24 13:04 |
| I love bras. Whether a woman has big boobs, small boobs, saggy boobs or whatever, a nice, quality bra that fits well will always make a woman look special. That's not to say, I think womens' bodies on their own are ugly. They're not. I love women, but the fact is women will always be far sexier in their underwear than out of it. I think most men (and women) will agree. |
| Lee Purchase |
| Thu Apr 23 17:09 |
| I hate wearing a bra, I have always been very embaressed about this. Due to my size I'am unable to get away with not wearing one but if I could I would. They are horrible things and men are lucky they do not have to go through having to wear one. I thinks its quite bad that there should be a site like this. |
| Margret Jones - 38D |
| Thu Apr 23 08:15 |
| To Marsha : Thanks for leaving a message. Personally, I like a little bounce. Not too much, of course, but I find that my Playtex gives me just enough to feel natural. If you like a bit more support, try the 18-Hour bra; it's a little firmer. I do like the Sky-Bali bra , although it also features stretch straps. Let me know what you think. |
| Debra D. - 36 D |
| none |
| http://none |
| Thu Apr 23 06:51 |
| I like a little bounce in my boobs, but I have a job where I'm not very active, so I can tolerate it. My favorite is the Victoria's Secret Second Skin Satin. It gives me enough support (In that size, it has non-stretch straps) while giving me that sensuous bounce feeling. I love it. I don't like soft cups much because I find that in the bigger sizes, they make too much bra just to keep the cups in place. With an underwire, the bra can be must less restricting and more comfortable. (I know, all the smaller women out there are saying ``Huh? Doesn't she have that backawards?'') |
| Sara - 38DD |
| sara38dd@hotmail.com |