About seven years ago, all I thought about was partying all weekend with my friends, instead of staying home with my son, Zac. Gabe started babysitting for Zac and instantly took Zachary under his wing and became the male role model in his life. Gabe was a small child himself at the time but it was like he knew what Zac needed, and took on the responsibility. Gabe wasn't just a cousin to my son, he was a big brother and best friend. As the years past by, Gabe and Zac became closer and closer, nearly inseparable at times. He made sure Zac did all the guy stuff. He taught Zac how to play football and basketball and had the so called, father-son talks. Gabe would come over and pick Zac and his friends up and take them all out to the house and play football for hours at a time. Even when Zac was little, Gabe would dress him up in his football equipment, which was three times bigger than Zac, but he was in his glory. Other times they'd stay up all night playing Nintendo or Play Station or football in the hallway of the house. Turning Jer and Vic's house upside down. Then sooner or later Gabe would bring Zac home. All he would talk about was Gabe this and Gabe that. And of course Michigan, Michigan, Michigan. Those boys would sit and watch a Michigan game and all I could do is pray to God that Michigan would win. If they lost a game, those boys would be crying, and screaming and carrying on. I couldn't believe it or understand it. Then again, what is Mom supposed to know? As Gabe became older I was afraid he may lose interest in hanging out with a boy seven years younger than he was, but it didn't happen. Gabriel would still spend time with Zac and keep Zac in line. Gabe was the most positive influence in Zachary's life. He took an interest in my son that no one else ever has. He truly loved Zac and gave Zac the love and attention he needed. I love and appreciate Gabriel and will be forever grateful for what he has done for my son. I thank Vicki and Jerry for bringing this child into our lives and allowing my son into your lives. You as Gabe's parents are the one's who made Gabe who he was, a wonderful, kind, loving and respectful young man. A young man who took on responsibilities that weren't expected of him. Your family made my son comfortable, safe and secure and he feels he gained another set of parents and two additional brothers from all your families kindness. I can never thank you enough or express my appreciation enough. Gabriel will be forever in my thoughts and will be missed beyond my comprehension. I too loved your son as if he were my own.

Last updated March 21, 1999