True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous
passion. On the contrary, it is calm and deep in its nature.
It looks beyond mere externals and is attracted by qualities
alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real
and abiding. God tests and proves us by the common occurrences
of life. It is the little things which reveal the chapters of
the heart. It is the little attentions, the numerous small incidents
and simple courtesies of life, that make up the sum of life's
happiness; and it is the neglect of kindly, encouraging, affectionate
words, and the little courtesies of life, which helps compose
the sum of life's wretchedness. It will be found at last that
the denial of self for the good and happiness of those around
us constitutes a large share of the life record in heaven. And
the fact will also be revealed that the care of self, irrespective
of the good and happiness of others,
is not beneath the notice of our heavenly Father.
Brother B, the Lord is working for you,
and will bless and strengthen you in the course of right. You
understand the theory of truth, and should be obtaining all the
knowledge you can of God's will and work, that you may be prepared
to fill a more responsible position if He, seeing you can glorify
His name best in so doing, should require it of you. But you
have yet an experience to gain. You are too impulsive, too easily
affected by circumstances. God is willing to strengthen, stablish,
settle you, if you will earnestly and humbly seek wisdom of Him
who is unerring, and who has promised that you shall not seek
in vain.
In teaching the truth to others, you are
in danger of talking too strong, in a manner not in keeping with
your short experience. You take in things at a glance, and can
see the bearing of subjects readily. All are not organized as
you are, and cannot do this. You will not be prepared to patiently,
calmly wait for those to weigh evidence who cannot see as readily
as you do. You will be in danger of urging others too much to
see at once as you see and feel all that zeal and necessity of
action that you feel. If your expectations are not realized,
you will be in danger of becoming discouraged and restless, and
wishing a change. You must shun a disposition to censure, to
bear down. Keep clear of everything that savors of a denunciatory
spirit. It is not pleasing to God for this spirit to be found
in any of His servants of long experience. It is proper for a
youth, if graced with humility and the inward adorning, to manifest
ardor and zeal; but when a rash zeal and a denunciatory spirit
are manifested by a youth who has but a few years of experience,
it is most unbecoming and positively disgusting. Nothing can
destroy his influence as soon as this. Mildness, gentleness,
forbearance, long-suffering, being
not easily provoked, bearing all things, hoping all things, enduring
all things--these are the fruit growing upon the precious tree
of love, which is of heavenly growth. This tree, if nourished,
will prove to be an evergreen. Its branches will not decay, its
leaves will not wither. It is immortal, eternal, watered continually
by the dews of heaven.
Love is power. Intellectual and moral strength
are involved in this principle, and cannot be separated from
it. The power of wealth has a tendency to corrupt and destroy;
the power of force is strong to do hurt; but the excellence and
value of pure love consist in its efficiency to do good, and
to do nothing else than good. Whatsoever is done out of pure
love, be it ever so little or contemptible in the sight of men,
is wholly fruitful; for God regards more with how much love one
worketh than the amount he doeth. Love is of God. The unconverted
heart cannot originate nor produce this plant of heavenly growth,
which lives and flourishes only where Christ reigns.
Love cannot live without action, and every
act increases, strengthens, and extends it. Love will gain the
victory when argument and authority are powerless. Love works
not for profit nor reward; yet God has ordained that great gain
shall be the certain result of every labor of love. It is diffusive
in its nature and quiet in its operation, yet strong and mighty
in its purpose to overcome great evils. It is melting and transforming
in its influence, and will take hold of the lives of the sinful
and affect their hearts when every other means has proved unsuccessful.
Wherever the power of intellect, of authority, or of force is
employed, and love is not manifestly present, the affections
and will of those whom we seek to reach assume a defensive, repelling
position, and their strength of resistance is increased. Jesus
was the Prince of Peace. He came into the world to bring resistance
and authority into subjection to Himself. Wisdom and strength
He could command, but the means
He employed with which to overcome evil were the wisdom and strength
of love. Suffer nothing to divide your interest from your present
work until God shall see fit to give you another piece of work
in the same field. Seek not for happiness, for it is never to
be found by seeking for it. Go about your duty. Let faithfulness
mark all your doings, and be clothed with humility.
"Whatsoever ye would that men should
do to you, do ye even so to them." Blessed results would
appear as the fruit of such a course. "With what measure
ye mete, it shall be measured to you again." Here are strong
motives which should constrain us to love one another with a
pure heart, fervently. Christ is our example. He went about doing
good. He lived to bless others. Love beautified and ennobled
all His actions. We are not commanded to do to ourselves what
we wish others to do unto us; we are to do unto others what we
wish them to do to us under like circumstances. The measure we
mete is always measured to us again. Pure love is simple in its
operations, and is distinct from any other principle of action.
The love of influence and the desire for the esteem of others
may produce a well-ordered life and frequently a blameless conversation.
Self-respect may lead us to avoid the appearance of evil. A selfish
heart may perform generous actions, acknowledge the present truth,
and express humility and affection in an outward manner, yet
the motives may be deceptive and impure; the actions that flow
from such a heart may be destitute of the savor of life and the
fruits of true holiness, being destitute of the principles of
pure love. Love should be cherished and cultivated, for its influence
is divine.