I recently received a letter from a brother
whom I highly respect, making inquiries in regard to how meetings
should be conducted. He inquires if there should be many prayers
offered in succession, and then a relief of a few moments, and
quite a number of prayers again.
From the light I have had upon the subject
I have decided that God does not require us, as we assemble for
His worship, to make these seasons tedious and wearisome by remaining
bowed quite a length of time, listening to several long prayers.
Those in feeble health cannot endure this taxation without extreme
weariness and exhaustion. The body becomes weary by remaining
bowed down so long; and what is worse still, the mind becomes
so wearied by the continuous exercise of prayer that no spiritual
refreshment is realized, and the meeting is to them worse than
a loss. They have become wearied mentally and physically, and
they have obtained no spiritual strength.
Meetings for conference and prayer should
not be made tedious. If possible, all should be prompt to the
hour appointed; and if there are dilatory ones, who are half
an hour or even fifteen minutes behind the time, there should
be no waiting. If there are but two present, they can claim the
promise. The meeting should open
at the appointed hour if possible, be there few or many present.
Formality and cold stiffness should be laid aside, and all should
be prompt to duty. Upon common occasions there should not be
prayer of more than ten minutes' duration. After there has been
a change of position, and the exercise of singing or exhortation
has relieved the sameness, then, if any feel the burden of prayer,
let them pray.
All should feel it a Christian duty to
pray short. Tell the Lord just what you want, without going all
over the world. In private prayer all have the privilege of praying
as long as they desire and of being as explicit as they please.
They can pray for all their relatives and friends. The closet
is the place to tell all their private difficulties, and trials,
and temptations. A common meeting to worship God is not the place
to open the privacies of the heart.
What is the object of assembling together?
Is it to inform God, to instruct Him by telling Him all we know
in prayer? We meet together to edify one another by an interchange
of thoughts and feelings, to gather strength, and light, and
courage by becoming acquainted with one another's hopes and aspirations;
and by our earnest, heartfelt prayers, offered up in faith, we
receive refreshment and vigor from the Source of our strength.
These meetings should be most precious seasons and should be
made interesting to all who have any relish for religious things.
There are some, I fear, who do not take
their troubles to God in private prayer, but reserve them for
the prayer meeting, and there do up their praying for several
days. Such may be named conference and prayer meeting killers.
They emit no light; they edify no one. Their cold, frozen prayers
and long, backslidden testimonies cast a shadow. All are glad
when they get through, and it is almost impossible to throw off
the chill and darkness which their prayers and exhortations
bring into the meeting. From the light which
I have received, our meetings should be spiritual and social,
and not too long. Reserve, pride, vanity, and fear of man should
be left at home. Little differences and prejudices should not
be taken with us to these meetings. As in a united family, simplicity,
meekness, confidence, and love should exist in the hearts of
brethren and sisters who meet to be refreshed and invigorated
by bringing their lights together.
"Ye are the light of the world,"
says the heavenly Teacher. All have not the same experience in
their religious life. But those of diverse exercises come together
and with simplicity and humbleness of mind talk out their experience.
All who are pursuing the onward Christian course should have,
and will have, an experience that is living, that is new and
interesting. A living experience is made up of daily trials,
conflicts, and temptations, strong efforts and victories, and
great peace and joy gained through Jesus. A simple relation of
such experiences gives light, strength, and knowledge that will
aid others in their advancement in the divine life. The worship
of God should be both interesting and instructive to those who
have any love for divine and heavenly things.
Jesus, the heavenly Teacher, did not hold
Himself aloof from the children of men; but in order to benefit
them He came from heaven to earth, where they were, that the
purity and holiness of His life might shine upon the pathway
of all and light the way to heaven. The Redeemer of the world
sought to make His lessons of instruction plain and simple, that
all might comprehend them. He generally chose the open air for
His discourses. No walls could enclose the multitude which followed
Him; but He had special reasons for resorting to the groves and
the seaside to give His lessons of instruction. He could there
have a commanding view of the landscape and make use of objects
and scenes with which those in humble life
were familiar, to illustrate the important truths He made known
to them. With His lessons of instruction He associated the works
of God in nature. The birds which were caroling forth their songs
without a care, the flowers of the valley glowing in their beauty,
the lily that reposed in its purity upon the bosom of the lake,
the lofty trees, the cultivated land, the waving grain, the barren
soil, the tree that bore no fruit, the everlasting hills, the
bubbling stream, the setting sun, tinting and gilding the heavens--all
these He employed to impress His hearers with divine truth. He
connected the works of God's finger in the heavens and upon the
earth with the words of life He wished to impress upon their
minds, that, as they should look upon the wonderful works of
God in nature, His lessons might be fresh in their memories.
In all His efforts Christ sought to make
His teachings interesting. He knew that a tired, hungry throng
could not receive spiritual benefit, and He did not forget their
bodily needs. Upon one occasion He wrought a miracle to feed
five thousand who had gathered to listen to the words of life
which fell from His lips. Jesus regarded His surroundings when
giving His precious truth to the multitude. The scenery was such
as would attract the eye and awaken admiration in the breasts
of the lovers of the beautiful. He could extol the wisdom of
God in His creative works, and could bind up His sacred lessons
by directing their minds through nature up to nature's God.
Thus the landscape, the trees, the birds,
the flowers of the valley, the hills, the lake, and the beautiful
heavens were associated in their minds with sacred truths which
would make them hallowed in memory as they should look upon them
after Christ's ascension to heaven.
When Christ taught the people, He did not
devote the time to prayer. He did not enforce upon them, as did
the Pharisees, long, tedious ceremonies and prayers. He taught
His disciples how to pray: "And
when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for
they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners
of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto
you, They have their reward. But thou, when thou prayest, enter
into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy
Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret
shall reward thee openly. But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions,
as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for
their much speaking. Be not ye therefore like unto them: for
your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask
Him. After this manner therefore pray ye."
Christ impressed upon His disciples the
idea that their prayers should be short, expressing just what
they wanted, and no more. He gives the length and substance of
their prayers, expressing their desires for temporal and spiritual
blessings, and their gratitude for the same. How comprehensive
this sample prayer! It covers the actual need of all. One or
two minutes is long enough for any ordinary prayer. There may
be instances where prayer is in a special manner indited by the
Spirit of God, where supplication is made in the Spirit. The
yearning soul becomes agonized and groans after God. The spirit
wrestles as did Jacob and will not be at rest without special
manifestations of the power of God. This is as God would have
it.
But many offer prayer in a dry, sermonizing
manner. These pray to men, not to God. If they were praying to
God, and really understood what they were doing, they would be
alarmed at their audacity; for they deliver a discourse to the
Lord in the mode of prayer, as though the Creator of the universe
needed special information upon general questions in relation
to things transpiring in the world. All such prayers are as sounding
brass and a tinkling cymbal. They are made no account of in heaven.
Angels of God are wearied with them,
as well as mortals who are compelled to listen to them.
Jesus was often found in prayer. He resorted
to the lonely groves or to the mountains to make His requests
known to His Father. When the business and cares of the day were
ended, and the weary were seeking rest, Jesus devoted the time
to prayer. We would not discourage prayer, for there is far too
little praying and watching thereunto. And there is still less
praying with the Spirit and the understanding also. Fervent and
effectual prayer is always in place, and will never weary. Such
prayer interests and refreshes all who have a love for devotion.
Secret prayer is neglected, and this is
why many offer such long, tedious, backslidden prayers when they
assemble to worship God. They go over in their prayers a week
of neglected duties, and pray round and round, hoping to make
up for their neglect and pacify their condemned consciences,
which are scourging them. They hope to pray themselves into the
favor of God. But frequently these prayers result in bringing
other minds down to their own low level in spiritual darkness.
If Christians would take home the teachings of Christ in regard
to watching and praying, they would become more intelligent in
their worship of God.