It is the nicest work ever assumed by men
and women to deal with youthful minds. The greatest care should
be taken in the education of youth to so vary the manner of instruction
as to call forth the high and noble powers of the mind. Parents
and schoolteachers are certainly disqualified to properly educate
children if they have not first learned the lesson of self-control,
patience, forbearance, gentleness, and love. What an important
position for parents, guardians, and teachers! There are very
few who realize the most essential wants of the mind and how
to direct the developing intellect, the growing thoughts and
feelings of youth.
There is a time for training children and
a time for educating youth, and it is essential that in school
both of these be combined in a great degree. Children may be
trained for the service of sin or for the service of righteousness.
The early education of youth shapes their characters both in
their secular and in their religious life. Solomon says: "Train
up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will
not depart from it." This language is positive. The training
which Solomon enjoins is to direct, educate, and develop. In
order for parents and teachers to do this work, they must themselves
understand "the way" the child should go. This embraces
more than merely having a knowledge of books. It takes in everything
that is good, virtuous, righteous, and holy. It comprehends the practice of temperance, godliness,
brotherly kindness, and love to God and to one another. In order
to attain this object, the physical, mental, moral, and religious
education of children must have attention.
The education of children, at home or at
school, should not be like the training of dumb animals; for
children have an intelligent will, which should be directed to
control all their powers. Dumb animals need to be trained, for
they have not reason and intellect. But the human mind must be
taught self-control. It must be educated to rule the human being,
while animals are controlled by a master and are trained to be
submissive to him. The master is mind, judgment, and will for
his beast. A child may be so trained as to have, like the beast,
no will of his own. Even his individuality may be merged in the
one who superintends his training; his will, to all intents and
purposes, is subject to the will of the teacher.
Children who are thus educated will ever
be deficient in moral energy and individual responsibility. They
have not been taught to move from reason and principle; their
wills have been controlled by another, and the mind has not been
called out, that it might expand and strengthen by exercise.
They have not been directed and disciplined with respect to their
peculiar constitutions and capabilities of mind, to put forth
their strongest powers when required. Teachers should not stop
here, but should give special attention to the cultivation of
the weaker faculties, that all the powers may be brought into
exercise, and carried forward from one degree of strength to
another, that the mind may attain due proportions.
There are many families of children who
appear to be well trained while under the training discipline;
but when the system which has held them to set rules is broken
up, they seem to be incapable of thinking, acting, or deciding
for themselves. These children have been so long under iron rule,
not allowed to think and act for themselves in those things in
which it was highly proper that they should, that they have no
confidence in themselves to move out upon their own
judgment, having an opinion of their own.
And when they go out from their parents to act for themselves,
they are easily led by others' judgment in the wrong direction.
They have not stability of character. They have not been thrown
upon their own judgment as fast and as far as practicable, and
therefore their minds have not been properly developed and strengthened.
They have so long been absolutely controlled by their parents
that they rely wholly upon them; their parents are mind and judgment
for them.
On the other hand, the young should not
be left to think and act independently of the judgment of their
parents and teachers. Children should be taught to respect experienced
judgment and to be guided by their parents and teachers. They
should be so educated that their minds will be united with the
minds of their parents and teachers, and so instructed that they
can see the propriety of heeding their counsel. Then when they
go forth from the guiding hand of their parents and teachers,
their characters will not be like the reed trembling in the wind.
The severe training of youth, without properly
directing them to think and act for themselves as their own capacity
and turn of mind will allow, that by this means they may have
growth of thought, feelings of self-respect, and confidence in
their own ability to perform, will ever produce a class who are
weak in mental and moral power. And when they stand in the world
to act for themselves they will reveal the fact that they were
trained like the animals, and not educated. Their wills, instead
of being guided, were forced into subjection by the harsh discipline
of parents and teachers.
Those parents and teachers who boast of
having complete control of the minds and wills of the children
under their care would cease their boastings could they trace
out the future lives of the children who are thus brought into
subjection by force or through fear. These are almost wholly
unprepared to share in the stern responsibilities of life. When
these youth are no longer under their parents and teachers,
and are compelled to think and act for themselves,
they are almost sure to take a wrong course and yield to the
power of temptation. They do not make this life a success, and
the same deficiencies are seen in their religious life. Could
the instructors of children and youth have the future result
of their mistaken discipline mapped out before them, they would
change their plan of education. That class of teachers who are
gratified that they have almost complete control of the wills
of their scholars are not the most successful teachers, although
the appearance for the time being may be flattering.
God never designed that one human mind
should be under the complete control of another. And those who
make efforts to have the individuality of their pupils merged
in themselves, and to be mind, will, and conscience for them,
assume fearful responsibilities. These scholars may, upon certain
occasions, appear like well-drilled soldiers. But when the restraint
is removed, there will be seen a want of independent action from
firm principle existing in them. Those who make it their object
to so educate their pupils that they may see and feel that the
power lies in themselves to make men and women of firm principle,
qualified for any position in life, are the most useful and permanently
successful teachers. Their work may not show to the very best
advantage to careless observers, and their labors may not be
valued as highly as are those of the teacher who holds the minds
and wills of his scholars by absolute authority; but the future
lives of the pupils will show the fruits of the better plan of
education.
There is danger of both parents and teachers
commanding and dictating too much, while they fail to come sufficiently
into social relation with their children or scholars. They often
hold themselves too much reserved, and exercise their authority
in a cold, unsympathizing manner which cannot win the hearts
of their children and pupils. If they would gather the children
close to them, and show that they love them, and would manifest
an interest in all their efforts and even in their sports, sometimes
even being a child among children, they would
make the children very happy and would gain their love and win
their confidence. And the children would sooner respect and love
the authority of their parents and teachers.
The habits and principles of a teacher
should be considered of even greater importance than his literary
qualifications. If he is a sincere Christian he will feel the
necessity of having an equal interest in the physical, mental,
moral, and spiritual education of his scholars. In order to exert
the right influence, he should have perfect control over himself,
and his own heart should be richly imbued with love for his pupils,
which will be seen in his looks, words, and acts. He should have
firmness of character, and then he can mold the minds of his
pupils as well as instruct them in the sciences. The early education
of youth generally shapes their characters for life. Those who
deal with the young should be very careful to call out the qualities
of the mind, that they may better know how to direct its powers
so that they may be exercised to the very best account.