In our institutions, where many are laboring
together, the influence of association is very great. It is natural
to seek companionship. Everyone will find companions or make
them. And just in proportion to the strength of the friendship,
will be the amount of influence which friends will exert over
one another for good or for evil. All will have associates, and
will influence and be influenced in their turn.
The link is a mysterious one which binds
human hearts together, so that the feelings, tastes, and principles
of two individuals are closely blended. One catches the spirit,
and copies the ways and acts, of the other. As wax retains the
figure of the seal, so the mind retains the impression produced
by intercourse and association. The influence may be unconscious,
yet it is no less powerful.
If the youth could be persuaded to associate
with the pure, the thoughtful, and the amiable, the effect would
be most salutary. If choice is made of companions who fear the
Lord, the influence will lead to truth, to duty, and to holiness.
A truly Christian life is a power for good. But, on the other
hand, those who associate with men and women of questionable
morals, of bad principles and practices, will soon be walking
in the same path. The tendencies of the natural heart are downward.
He who associates with the skeptic will soon become skeptical;
he who chooses the companionship of the vile will most assuredly
become vile. To walk in the counsel of the ungodly is the first
step toward standing in the way of sinners and sitting in the
seat of the scornful.
Let all who would form a right character
choose associates who are of a serious, thoughtful turn of mind
and who are religiously inclined. Those who have counted the
cost and wish to build for eternity must put good material into
their building. If they accept of rotten timbers, if they are
content with deficiencies of character, the building is doomed
to ruin. Let all take heed how they build. The storm of temptation
will sweep over the building, and unless it is firmly and faithfully
constructed it will not stand the test.
A good name is more precious than gold.
There is an inclination with the youth to associate with those
who are inferior in mind and morals. What real happiness can
a young person expect from a voluntary connection with persons
who have a low standard of thoughts, feelings, and deportment?
Some are debased in taste and depraved in habits, and all who
choose such companions will follow their example. We are living
in times of peril that should cause the hearts of all to fear.
We see the minds of many wandering through the mazes of skepticism.
The causes of this are ignorance, pride, and a defective character.
Humility is a hard lesson for fallen man to learn. There is something
in the human heart which rises in opposition to revealed truth
on subjects connected with God and sinners, the transgression
of the divine law, and pardon through Christ.
My brethren and sisters, old and young,
when you have an hour of leisure, open the Bible and store the
mind with its precious truths. When engaged in labor, guard the
mind, keep it stayed upon God, talk less, and meditate more.
Remember: "Every idle word that men shall speak, they shall
give account thereof in the day of judgment." Let your words
be select; this will close a door against the adversary of souls.
Let your day be entered upon with prayer; work as in God's sight.
His angels are ever by your side, making a record of your words,
your deportment, and the manner in which your work is done. If
you turn from good counsel and choose to associate with those
who you have reason to suspect are not religiously
inclined, although they profess to be Christians, you will soon
become like them. You place yourself in the way of temptation,
on Satan's battleground, and will, unless constantly guarded,
be overcome by his devices. There are persons who have for some
time made a profession of religion, who are, to all intents and
purposes, without God and without a sensitive conscience. They
are vain and trifling; their conversation is of a low order.
Courtship and marriage occupy the mind to the exclusion of higher
and nobler thoughts.
The associations chosen by the workers
are determining their destiny for this world and the next. Some
who were once conscientious and faithful have sadly changed,
they have disconnected from God, and Satan has allured them to
his side. They are now irreligious and irreverent, and they have
an influence upon others who are easily molded. Evil associations
are deteriorating character; principle is being undermined. "He
that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of
fools shall be destroyed."
The young are in danger; but they are blind
to discern the tendencies and result of the course they are pursuing.
Many of them are engaged in flirtation. They seem to be infatuated.
There is nothing noble, dignified, or sacred in these attachments;
as they are prompted by Satan, the influence is such as to please
him. Warnings to these persons fall unheeded. They are headstrong,
self-willed, defiant. They think the warning, counsel, or reproof
does not apply to them. Their course gives them no concern. They
are continually separating themselves from the light and love
of God. They lose all discernment of sacred and eternal things,
and while they may keep up a dry form of Christian duties they
have no heart in these religious exercises. All too late these
deceived souls will learn that "strait is the gate, and
narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be
that find it."
Words and actions and motives are recorded;
but how little do these light, superficial heads and hard hearts
realize that an angel of God stands writing down the manner in
which their precious moments are
employed. God will bring to light every word and every action.
He is in every place. His messengers, although unseen, are visitors
in the workroom and in the sleeping apartment. The hidden works
of darkness will be brought to light. The thoughts, the intents
and purposes of the heart, will stand revealed. All things are
naked and open to the eyes of Him with whom we have to do.
The workers should take Jesus with them
in every department of their labor. Whatever is done should be
done with an exactness and thoroughness that will bear inspection.
The heart should be in the work. Faithfulness is as essential
in life's common duties as in those involving greater responsibility.
Some may receive the idea that their work is not ennobling; but
this is just as they choose to make it. They alone are capable
of degrading or elevating their employment. We wish that every
drone might be compelled to toil for his daily bread, for work
is a blessing, not a curse. Diligent labor will keep us from
many of the snares of Satan, who "finds some mischief still
for idle hands to do."
None of us should be ashamed of work, however
small and servile it may appear. Labor is ennobling. All who
toil with head or hands are workingmen or workingwomen. And all
are doing their duty and honoring their religion as much while
working at the washtub or washing the dishes as they are in going
to meeting. While the hands are engaged in the most common labor,
the mind may be elevated and ennobled by pure and holy thoughts.
When any of the workers manifest a lack of respect for religious
things, they should be separated from the work. Let none feel
that the institution is dependent upon them.
Those who have long been employed in our
institutions should now be responsible workers, reliable in every
place, as faithful to duty as the compass to the pole. Had they
rightly improved their opportunities, they might now have symmetrical
characters and a deep, living experience in religious things.
But some of these workers have separated from God.
Religion is laid aside. It is not an inwrought
principle, carefully cherished wherever they go, into whatever
society they are thrown, proving as an anchor to the soul. I
wish all the workers carefully to consider that success in this
life and success in gaining the future life depend largely upon
faithfulness in little things. Those who long for higher responsibilities
should manifest faithfulness in performing the duties just where
God has placed them.
The perfection of God's work is as clearly
seen in the tiniest insect as in the king of birds. The soul
of the little child that believes in Christ is as precious in
His sight as are the angels about His throne. "Be ye therefore
perfect," even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
"As God is perfect in His sphere, so man may be perfect
in his sphere. Whatever the hand finds to do should be done with
thoroughness and dispatch. Faithfulness and integrity in little
things, the performance of little duties and little deeds of
kindness, will cheer and gladden the pathway of life; and when
our work on earth is ended, every one of the little duties performed
with fidelity will be treasured as a precious gem before God.