One day an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in front of the group of high-powered overachievers, he said, "Okay, time for a quiz." Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouthed Mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar. When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, "Is the jar full?"
So, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question: What are the 'big rocks' in my life? Then, put those in your jar first.
PUT YOUR FAMILY FIRST!
Everyone in the class said, "Yes."
Then he said, "Really?" He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket
of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar, causing pieces
of gravel to work themselves down into the space between the Big rocks.
Then he asked the group once more, "Is the jar full?"
By this time the class was on to him. "Probably not," one of them answered.
"Good!" he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of
sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all the
spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the
question, "Is the jar full?"
"No!" the class shouted.
Once again he said, "Good!" Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to
pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he looked at the
class and asked, "What is the point of this illustration?"
One eager student raised his hand and said, "The point is, no matter how
full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more
things in!"
"No," the speaker replied, "That's not the point. The truth this
illustration teaches us is: If you don't put the big rocks in first, you'll
never get them in at all."