Nicki
World Wide Registry [ Main page.]
I am an adoptee who has found her biological mother three years ago. We have a wonderful relationship and I am a much better person, as is she, for ending the long period of unknowingness.Thank you very much for the avenue you have presented adoptees and their biological relatives. Your work is greatly appreciated.
- My concerns are as follows: I believe it is in the best intrest of the adoptee to at least have the right to a medical background of both biological parents as well as some kind of consent form indicating whether or not either of the parents wish to be found. Because my history was not available to me, I went misdiagnosted with a serious genetic condition which has left me unable to have children of my own. If I had my medical history available to me, even before meeting my biological mother, I could have received early treatment and would have no reason to correspond with you today.
- My biological family and I have discussed the issue and have decided that we would like to help change the confidentiality laws in New York State because of my medical situation. I feel, as do they, that genetic medical histories of anonymous parents are absolutely essential to an adoptees health and well-being.
- Has this subject been taken on before either in other states or at the federal level?
- Do you have any suggestions in how we can go about making a stand for our cause without breaching the subject of confidentiality?
- I would appreciate your information and comments in regards to this matter. Email me armsbn@rpi.edu .