I was just thrilled to be pregnant again. My daughter was 5 yo and I wanted
a boy so bad. I had the Norplant removed in October of 1995 and became
pregnant in December of 1995. Everything was going great. I had a six week
ultrasound to see actually how far along I was. By my calculations I was
right. We heard the heartbeat (and saw it). I had my 10 week check-up and
everything was fine. Went in for my 14 week check-up and they couldn't
find
a heartbeat. I was so scared. I was by myself (boyfriend at home with my
daughter). They had me go to the hospital for an emergency ultrasound.
On
the way there I heard a song that will be my son's song forever - Go Rest
High On That Mountain - Vince Gill.( now playing) I cried so hard. Wanting
so
bad for this to be a bad dream.
I got to the hospital and waited for about a half an hour to do the
ultrasound. That was horrible. I had it done and the technician didn't
say
anything. She wasn't allowed without the doctor being there. I couldn't
see
the monitor. So I didn't know what was going on. I was released. I waited
again I swear forever. Probably another half an hour or so. The doctor
came
and said I am sorry your baby has passed on. (I don't think I would want
that job). I cried and cried. Had to call my boyfriend. He rushed down
and
my best friend had just called before he left and met him down there and
took my daughter so I could deal with it.
They said he passed on at about 11 weeks. Nobody knows what exactly
happened to Dominick. We had him buried at a cemetery where a lot of our
relatives have been buried. His grandmother bought the plot. I am so
grateful to her. I was scheduled to be induced on March 23, 1996. That
was
horrible to go through the labor and have nothing to show for it. He was
born at 7:44 that night. Weighed 1.6 ounces and was 10 inches long.
We buried our son on March 26, 1996. That had to be one of the coldest
days that year. We buried him next to a mountain.
It took us a while but on Thursday, May 7, 1998, his headstone was put
on.
It took us awhile to save it up. But we did it. Now the world knows all
about Dominick Joseph Francis.