"Me...Thinking"
Hello to those who's reading this...whoever
you might be... thanks for visiting this page of mine though it doesn't
really promise much. Just making use of the s0-called technology.. don't
get me wrong here...i love the technology!
Hmmm..to start the thing that i intended
to start which i think i would never start, geeezzzz..what am i saying...i'd
better start huh??? Hmmm..what should we talk about? LOVE?? LIFE?? NATURE??
MUSIC?? well..let's talk about LIFE first of all.
What is this thing called LIFE? There
has been so many definitions on what life really is but for me there is
no ONE EXACT DEFINITION on how you should describe it. Let me see..how
about..
"Life
is like a piece of sandwich.
Cut it into a triangle..cut it square
or just let it be..
Put some extra cheese, add some mayonaise,
salad, etc...
Eat it any way you want to..it's yours
to savour."
What i really want to say here is that
you are awarded with one of the greatest gift of all...LIFE itself! It's
up to you to decide how to live it..how to enjoy the gift..add spices to
your life!!! make the most out of it..some may appreciate it with great
gratitude..some may think of it as just something which is only there..don't
mess with it.. and you'll live a happy one..No matter what it is...bear
in mind that LIFE itself is YOU!!!..
Now let's talk about LOVE. This is one
subject which I really enjoy talking about coz there never seems to be
and end to what this thing called "love"
has to offer. There are so many things that I'd like to be made clear concerning
this topic but I guess that's impossible huh?
L
O V E
Love is that lovely
feeling you have inside you though I think
that some might agree that we usually don't know how to show our love.
There are so many kinds of love though,
Spiritual Love...
Brotherly Love
Love Among Friends
Appreciative Love...towards nature
Material Love
True Love..(now this is something..)
Culture Love..???
bla..bla..bla...the list just goes
on and on..
For
me, when you're in love, the whole world seems to be singing along with
you. Everything is beautiful...even
the ugliest of things is beautiful once your heart is filled with this
feeling. (did i exaggerate???? :D hope not...) How do you know when you're
in love? I bet most of you guys out there are experts on this one but for
me.. i think it's when you always think
of that person, cares
deeply for him/her, hope
the best for him/her, pray
for that person, is willing to sacrifice
for him/her, feels happy
whenever that person is around, even just hearing the voice makes your
heart leaps..
someone who inspires me... understands me... accepts me as i am.. makes
me feel great for being "ME", brings music to my life... haiyaa... hope
i didn't overdo it huh?
anyway.. everybody has their own ways
of showing it.. and wants different things from the other person..just
make sure that it's LOVE not LUSTFULL LOVE!!!
Some people love another because of looks...I
guess that's usually the main reason for the thing you called "Love At
First Sight"..it's not that i don't believe in it but hey...the statement
itself stated "First Sight!!!" so i might as well assume it as falling
in love with the physical appearance of that person. (I'm just stating
what I think here..don't criticize me now there..). Falling for someone
and cares deeply for him/her is something beautiful. Isn't it nice and
wonderful to have someone else to care for besides yourself? Love itself
means sharing..you share problems..share your happiness, share your troubles,
pain, joy, humour and you never give up on that person no matter what.
But love often face a lot of obstacles..a
third party might be a problem but I think the main problem here is the
willingness and the courage of the person himself to blurt it out. Telling
someone that you care for him/her takes a lot of guts and I don't blame
those who decide to just let it be...but look here.. when will you gain
the "i'll-tell-someday-courage"??? tomorrow??? the day after??? next week??
next year??? 5 years from now???..or NEVER???? You'll be the victim of
self-ignorant!!!
Most people are afraid of the thing known
as rejection...yeah...it hurts to be rejected but there's a bright side
of taking the risk. Not taking the risk means you'll spend the rest of
your life watching that someone be with somebody else, while you sulk and
feel sorry for yourself..Take the risk!! It won't kill you just to tell
that person how you really feel towards him/her..what happens after that???
nobody knows, it could be a happy one or it might hurt you..either way,
you should be proud of yourself for taking the risk. You might get hurt
but what is worst than not taking the risk and then regret it for the rest
of your life??? Regret is not a sweet thing.. neither does feeling hurt,
but it teaches you to be strong, brave and in future you'll know that when
you want something, just go out and give it a shot! Don't wait for others
to shove you from behind or force you to do it.. do it in your own will
and you'll probably like the result..
Guess that'll be it for now..time to go
to other sections of my page.. there's my lyrics archive for some of my
favourite songs , some facts on myself...pics
and other stuffs...happy surfing!
bluesmoke@mailcity.com
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