Desiderata

Written by

Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste

And remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,

Be on good terms with all persons

Speak your truth quietly and clearly;

and listen to others,

Even the dull and ignorant;

they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,

they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,

you may become bitter;

for always there will be greater and lesser

persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans

Keep interested in your own career,

however humble;

it is a real possession in the changing

fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs;

for the world is full of trickery.

But let not this blind you to what virtue there is;

many persons strive for high ideals;

and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.

Especially do not feign affection.

Neither be cynical about love;

For in the face of all aridity and disenchantment

it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,

gracefully surrendering the things of youth

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you

in sudden misfortune

but do not distress yourself with imaginings.

Many fears are born of fatigue and lonliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,

be gentle with yourself

You are a child of the universe,

no less than the trees and the stars;

you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,

no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should

Therefore be at peace with God,

whatever you conceive Him to be.

And whatever your labors and aspirations,

in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams,

it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

This poem was given to me shortly after
Christophers death, by his mother.
It still amazes me that in all her grief she
had the presence of mind to see that I was
on the verge of being totally lost,
and loving me enough to try to help.

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