At age 4 success is . . . not peeing in your pants. At age 12 success is . . .having friends. At age 16 success is . . .having a drivers license. At age 20 success is . . having sex. At age 35 success is . . having money. At age 50 success is . . .having money. At age 60 success is . . .having sex. At age 70 success is . . .having a drivers license. At age 75 success is . . .having friends. At age 80 success is . . .not peeing in your pants