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A Helping Hand In A Time Of Need
by Pat Fowler

My husband and I were living approximately six hours away from a town that we had grown up in, got married in, had our family, and where his folks still live. For one reason or another we were driving an old and very well used bucket of bolts that ran on hope and good wishes more than for any sound mechanical reasons.

It was a very sad time for us as we had just lost a cherished family member, my father in law, on December 22 and had buried him on Boxing Day.

For several months, while Dad was ill in hospital, my husband and I made the six hour drive every weekend to spend time with him and prayed that our old car would hold up.

However, when we received a phone call on Dec. 22, 1994, that Dad was passing, our car broke down on the way to his bed side. We had just filled up with gas in a little town and as we tried to start the car again, it just refused to go. We couldn't find any service stations open who had staff on to fix whatever was wrong so we just sat there. Periodically, just so we'd feel we were doing something constructive, my husband tried the starter but did not really expect it to turn over . After about two hours of this, as my husband tried the starter one more time before we headed for a motel, it decided to start. We never paused long enough to wonder why, we just pointed it in the right direction and pushed the pedal to the floor.

When we arrived at the hospital where my father in law lay, it was after visiting hours but security let us enter because we had been previously cleared as emergency visitors. We literally ran down the hallways and flew up the stairs to the appropriate floor and headed towards my father in laws private room.

Because it was so late, I decided to check in at the nurses station first to let them know we were there. They informed us not to proceed any further as my father in law had passed away about two hours previously. We had missed him by the same amount of time as our car had remained inoperable in that little town in the middle of nowhere.

We spent the Christmas season, seventeen people packed into a small bungalow, consoling each other, making funeral arrangements and attending the funeral and trying to straighten out my mother in laws legal affairs for her.

On the day before New Years we had to head back home. Our feeling of great loss remained more complex than usual since we were robbed of showing Dad the ultimate support by being with him when he passed away. I can't remember feeling so profoundly sad as we were that day, leaving my mother in law, while she was still feeling disorientated and so very alone.

It was turning dusk as we approached the little town where our car had previously broke down. Ten miles out of the place the fool car did it again...it just faded away and stopped. It was 40 below that day as we sat in a stupor, on a lonely highway, just outside of nowhere, Alberta. It was too cold to walk to town and we didn't have a CB or portable telephone with us. While car after car whizzed by us there was nothing we could do but sit there, while the car got colder and colder. We had forgotten to pack survival gear in our hurry to get to my father in laws side. As it is, we just about forgot all the Christmas gifts and had to go back to get them. As we sat there shivering, we heard a car horn just outside the car.

A young couple driving a car about as aged as ours stopped to help us. As the two men looked under the hood, the young woman invited my son and I into their car to warm up. We exchanged names, and pondered what was wrong with our car. My husband stayed with the car, while my son and I rode with the young couple into town to fetch a tow truck to haul the car into a service station for repair if there was still one open.

I knew the owners of one of the service stations in town as they were related to my brother's wife. When we learned that their station was still open, from the tow truck driver, we had the car towed to their station.

We said our thank you's and good byes to the young couple as the tow truck driver hooked up our vehicle and rode back to town in the tow truck.

At the service station we were told by the owners that they didn't have a mechanic on that day. Even though the owner was a mechanic himself they had a New Years Party to go to, and couldn't help us. As we stood outside trying to figure out plan B with the tow truck driver, the young couple drove past the service station, and stopped when they noticed us standing outside. When they heard about our dilemma the young man went into the service station and made a few phone calls. When he came out he had a big grin on his face as he told us that Canadian Tire's service department was just shutting down but agreed to remain open to fix our car. He invited us all into his car and drove us over to Canadian Tire, following behind the tow truck hauling our car. After a short conversation with the manager of the place the young man got our car settled into a bay and prepared to leave. Once again we said good bye to the young couple, and thanked them with all our hearts for their help. They wouldn't take any payment for their service saying they were just happy to help, they wouldn't even let us buy them supper.

I decided to thank them for *everything* they had done for us. I had already thanked them many times for the obvious help they had so kindly given to us, but I had left one important detail out because it was so personal. I briefly related to them what we had been through and expressed profound gratitude to them both for coming to our rescue, both physically and emotionally. They had not only saved us from freezing to death, arranged for our car to be fixed, but had restored our spirit as well. They gave us that beautiful Christmas spirit back that we had lost when Dad passed away.

They stopped in at the station an hour later to see that everything was running smoothly. We learned that the young man who helped us was the general manager of the Canadian Tire Store when we went to give the mechanics a tip for staying overtime on New Years Eve to help us. The mechanics told us that the young man had instructed them not to take a tip and that the company would reward them handsomely for their extra time.

Since then, we look at Christmas with renewed enthusiasm and joy. It is a special time when a child was born to give us all a place to go where there is no pain, and a time when our faith in mankind is restored by a random act of kindness from two very special people.

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Laura's Surprise
by Pat Fowler

In my daycare class, there is a very kind, four year old girl named Laura. She has a very kind heart and all the kids love to play with her. She is also a wonderful big sister and treats her little brother very gently. She is a thoughtful young lady and likes to make people happy, especially her friends.

One day she came to daycare wearing a very pretty necklace that her favorite Auntie had given to her. I admired it and asked her where she had bought the necklace so that I could go and purchase one for my niece, Angela for her birthday. She told me she wasn't sure but she would ask her mom that night and tell me tomorrow.

The very next day, Laura proudly walked up to me with her mom and together they told me the name of the store where her aunt worked and had purchased the necklace. I thanked her for being so prompt with the information and said I would try to get out to purchase one as soon as I could.

A few days passed, and each day Laura asked me if I had purchased the necklace yet. I was so busy setting up a learning program for the kids at the center that I hadn't had time to go to the store yet.

All the kids in the preschool room, know that I usually come to work at 8:00 am. A week after I had admired Laura's necklace, she insisted that her mom bring her to daycare early so she could arrive there at the same time as I do. Unfortunately my shift time had changed to 9:00 am that particular morning so I could substitute for the assistant manager at the end of the day, when the daycare was closing.

My cohort in the preschool room told me that Laura could barely control her excitement that morning as she waited that hour for me to come. When I did arrive, she literally dropped what she was playing with on the floor and ran to me. "Pat, Pat, I have a surprise for you." She handed me a tiny package, wrapped in paper she had colored herself.

She hopped on one foot and then the other as she patiently waited for me to open the parcel. In the package I found a necklace that looked very much like the one I had admired of hers. "Pat, here's a necklace you can give to your niece. My auntie gave it to me last night. Since I already have one almost like it, I asked her if it was alright if I gave this one to you for your niece."

As I read the note enclosed in the parcel, from her Aunt, I learned that since Laura had liked the first necklace so much, her aunt had decided to buy the last remaining necklace like it in the store and give that to Laura too. Upon receiving the second necklace, Laura decided, I was to have it to give to my niece, and that it was perfectly fine with her mom and her aunt. Apparently, Laura had been very concerned that all the necklaces would be gone by the time I finally got to the store to buy one. As I gave Laura a hug and thanked her, I asked her why she had been so concerned about me not finding a necklace like hers for my niece. She told me that she wanted someone to feel as happy as she did when her aunt had given her a pretty necklace and it wasn't even her birthday.

I was very touched with Laura's concern about my niece and her desire to make a little girl that she didn't even know, smile. I sent the necklace to my niece by courier as I didn't want to risk the precious cargo getting lost. I enclosed a letter explaining all that had gone on so that Angela could get this precious necklace.

I brought a picture of my niece to the daycare to give to Laura so she could see the person to whom she had been so kind. It wasn't very long before a thank you letter arrived at my place from Angela asking me to forward it on to Laura for her.

Laura expressed an interest in writing Angela back so I told her to get her parent's permission first, and together she and I would write Angela a letter. In it Laura told Angela about her little brother, the daycare, her friends, and all about her life in general and included a picture of herself. I hoped it was to be the beginning of a good friendship between two very special little girls.

I have met many children in the twenty plus years since I have been involved in child care, each one of them is special in their own way and I love them all. But somewhere deep inside, I have reserved an extra special place just for Laura and her aunt for the surprise act of kindness they showed towards me and my niece, just to make us smile.

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A Westerner in Montreal
by EGadZ

My good samaritan was an Air Canada Ticket Agent at the Check-In counter in Montreal Dorval International Airport. I met him when I as heading home after a month long business trip in Montreal. I had never met him before in my life.

I was overladden with luggage and had arrived late to the airport because of traffic problems. It was late winter with a lot of slush on the freeways. The rental car I had did not have any windshield washer fluid in it and as a result I had to drive to the airport on unfamiliar freeways, in rush hour traffic, with a windshield that I could barely see out of. Not even mentioning the fact that all the freeway signs telling me how to get to the airport were covered over with snow and couldn't be read anyway. Once at the airport I couldn't find the allocated parking for the rental car I was in. With all the roads being one-way this resulted in several drive arounds the airport. Once the car was taken care of, I had to run to the Check-In carrying all my luggage because I couldn't find a cart. Needless to say, by the time I got to the Check-In, I was not in the best of moods.

I had an economy ticket back home (i.e. the cheap seats). To my surprise, the Check-In agent upgraded my ticket to first class at no additional cost to me. He did this out of the goodness of his heart definitly not because of my mood. Perhaps he had pity on me being a non-french speaking westerner who looked like he was going to lose it at any moment.

Both my luggage and I got preferrential first class treatment for the whole flight home. I even got to use real china, silverware, and food for the inflight meal unlike the plastic forks, paper plates, and slightly edible derivitives in economy.

I would have still made it home, if he hadn't been kind to me but with my experience with economy (see below) I would have probably been growling or even barking when I got there.

I felt very appreciative and relieved that he changed my seat to first class as my two previous flights in the economy section were quite eventfull. One flight had a loud, obnoxious guy who wouldn't stop yelling at everybody. The stewardesses were so busy dealing with him that we didn't get our drinks served to us. On the other flight, someone had a heart attack and had to be on oxygen, so we couldn't smoke throughout the whole flight.

I'll never forget it. Just goes to show ya that not all Montrealers are anti-Western Canadian.

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Helpful Neighbours
by Pat Fowler
My husband and I were called out of town to the bedside of a sick family member, leaving my elderly mother, who was recovering from heart surgery, home alone. She offered her newer car to us to use for the trip, leaving her our older, unpredictable vehicles, at home for her to drive. True to Murphy's law, our vehicle left her stranded on the corner of one of our local streets. She stood outside, beside the wounded vehicle, at a loss as to what to do.

My neighbour from across the street drove past my mother standing befuddled beside the defunct car, and stopped to help her. Leanne took her home, while Scott stayed with the vehicle, to wait for the tow truck. The car was towed back to our house, where mom was fussing about getting it fixed as she knew my husband and I would need it come Monday morning to go to work. She asked Scott if he would help her make arrangements to get the car towed to the local service station, to get it repaired. Scott, who is an amateur mechanic and does much of his own mechanical work, offered to take a look at the car himself. Once he established what was wrong with it, he picked up the part, and fixed it himself. He refused to take any payment for his trouble saying it was a pleasure to help.

Monday morning, my husband and I had a working vehicle to drive to work in. Leanne and Scott's unselfish forfeiture of a Saturday afternoon just to help their neighbour in need restored our faith in human nature. Amidst what seems to be a "me" society there are still wonderful, giving people who do not hesitate to lend a helping hand.

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Me and Hayley
by Milian, Age 9 from Ontario Canada

I was running
and then I twisted my ankle
and Hayley helped me get up.

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