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Joseph b/d 1903 twin |
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born: March 16, 1886 |
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You will find Bertie named Birtie J. Chapman in most documents, but here she will be Bertie Jay, why.....? , that's what she told me. I don't have any better documentation that I can use as proof. Since I can't 'prove' it, I, for one don't argue about it. " A rose by any other name........!" |
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Bertie was borned the last child of Joseph Chapman and his second wife Margaret Strong. Her mother died at or soon after her birth and her father died when she was 8 years old. There is a mystery between the time her mother died in Texas and her father's death in Illinois. When and did, Joseph move himself and his children north ? Bertie's grandmother's obituary states that she and their grandfather went to Illinois to retrieve the children and took them to raise in Oklahoma. There has also been the suggestion of a step mother, but I have not found any thing to back this up. |
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She married, Bob Herion, the young widowed husband of her first cousin, Allie Duncan, at the age of 16. She and Bob had 13 children, 3 of the births being twins. Of these 13, they raised 7 to adulthood. Her many miscarriages and infant deaths, may have been the result of living in oil camps during the early days of Oklahoma's oil booms. These rough and rowdy towns were hard on the wives and children of the men who worked them. |
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If any one ever loved me unconditionaly, she did. She doted, not only me, but my many cousins, putting up with our antics, fighting and hurts with a loving since of humor. One of my fondest memories is of the time she gave into our pleas of tasting her snuff. To us it looked like sweetened cocoa and even though she tried to disuade us, we insisted and she obliged. Giving each of us a healty ' dip' she laughed, until tears ran, at the show we put on, spitting, shoving and pushing our way to the water faucet, hoping to wash that awful stuff and it's taste from our mouths. You can believe this one never asked to share a 'dip' again. |
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I miss my Grandma, even after 33 years, she always made my world safe and secure. |
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