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"When I was growing up, my initial dream was to become a fashion designer," says Josie Bissett. "Then I ended up playing one on Melrose Place. Now I'm really doing it—I'm designing a little girls clothing line. So, in a way, my dreams have come full circle."
     Designing clothes is only one of several recent ventures, including developing a toy line, publishing two books, and hosting the PBS special Teach More, Love More, that Bissett has explored since Melrose went off the air in 1999. But her primary focus these days is son Mason, 3, and daughter Maya, 1—as it has been since she and her husband, former Melrose castmate Rob Estes, started their family and she decided to retire (temporarily, she insists) from acting.
     "Josie is a great mother, and she's doing what she loves," says friend and fellow Melrose Place alum Heather Locklear. "And as far as I'm concerned, stay-at-home mothers are some of the hardest-working people in the world."
     Estes, who finds it amusing when he hears people say his wife has stopped working, agrees. "She's working harder than she ever did when she was acting," he says, chuckling. "If you combine motherhood with all the businesses she's involved with, that's a lot."
     Indeed, when Bissett, 32, traded Hollywood for home and hearth, she discovered an innate entrepeneurial streak, exemplified by her two books. The first, Little Bits of Wisdom, was a compilation of parenting tips inspired by the great child-rearing advice she gleaned not from experts but from everyday mothers and fathers. Her new book, Making Memories, which hits bookstores this month, suggests creative ways to cultivate family memories—from putting notes in children's lunch boxes to recording snippets of their voices and saving them on CDs.
     "It's full of ways we can make memories for our kids by choice, instead of just by chance, says Bissett. "For instance, I heard about how one family used to have popcorn parties under the stars, so last night I got a big sheet and put it on the grass, and we all sat out there with popcorn. It was a completely different experience from being inside with the television on and the phone ringing. It only took a few minutes, but it brought us closer together."

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     The desire to draw family closer spurred Bissett and Estes, 39, to recently shift their primary residence from Los Angeles to her native Seattle, where her parents, sister, brother and a throng of cousins live. Kobi Yamada, a childhood friend who is now president of Compendium Inc., the publisher of Bissett's books, says, "The lure of Seattle, aside from the fact that Josie has a lot of family and friends here, is that she feels it's a great place to raise her kids."
     Bissett plans to continue her varied business ventures, and with such a vast support system, is also "probably going to take an acting job soon. Like most women," she says, "I'm a good juggler, but I do want some control. That's why I'm doing things like the books and the toys—things that I can do on my own time. I feel like I can have it all. I can work and do things I'm passionate about—parenting and helping other parents—but I still get to be with my kids day to day. What could be better?" —Juan Morales


Making Memories should be retitled Forcing Your Kids to Do Things They Don't Really Wanna Do.


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