First, I would like to say that Nick and Mandy should be a shame
of theirselves. I
respected both of them until I read NE article. Nick's mother
described Nick as
lovely, sensetive, and smart boy in the book that she wrote
'The Heart and Soul of
Nick Carter'. Nick was always close to his parents and siblings,
specially B.J. and
Aaron. What has changed in his life that would make him careless,
and heartless?
Oh, I think that I know the answer, Mandy Williford. He met
her, and she changed
him all around. His grandparents are very ill, and wish that
they could spent last
days with his favorite grandson, specially on family occasion
such as Christmas,
the time when families should be together. Nick's mom said in
the book that he
grew up next to old, ill people, and that it made him very sensetive
and caring.
Again, that has changed because of his "lovely" girlfriend,
Mandy. He didn't see his
siblings for weeks, oh no actually months. And instead of bringing
joy and
happiness in their lives he makes them to cry during the family
holiday. Aaron was
looking out to his big brother, and you can see that very clearly
during Ottawa
concert. Why should Aaron be victim of "loving" and "caring"
Mandah? Oh, my god
Mandy have a little heart, he is just a little boy. I am sure
that he didn't do anything
to Mandy or Nick in order to deserve this. Nick's family was
always there to
support and protect Nick. His mom sacrificed everything for
him, and built him into
the big star. She paid for his lessens even when their family
barely could pay for
food, and electricity. She gave him the most of her time, and
love. She was the
one who gave him advices. She was there for him through bad
and good times.
She was there to encourage him to go on when he didn't see light.
She was his
first fan, and she believed in his talent when no one else did.
She was there when
he had nightmares. Even Nick said that when he had them, the
first person that he
would think of is his mom, and you know why - because she is
the person that he
can trust. His mom is smart, strong lady, and she has been through
a lot. She sees
who is Mandy. So, once again she gave advice to her boy, which
is that he
shouldn't be with Mandy because she isn't good for him. She
wasn't the only one to
say that, the other people who care about Nick said that, as
well. Now, Nick turns
against his family who was there for him all the time, right
from the begining.
However, Nick choose to be with someone who is abusive, manipulative,
and who
is against people that care for Nick, including fans. Nick made
his mother cry on
the Christmas night. He hurt his mom in the way that nobody
else did. He drove his
mom to the edge that she needed to contact tabloids because
that is the only way
she can contact him. And why? Because Mandy wants so. You know
how people
say - you are going to become like the person that you spent
most time with-. Nick
is becoming like Mandy. He is becoming heartless, and selfish
just like her. "I care
about my family" these were Nick's words. Today his words are
- I am moving out,
and doesn't want to spent any time with my family, or socialize
with them in any
way-. This is the way how Nick and Mandy behave. This is the
way how they pay
back to the people who care about them. In the music and entertainment,
if you
want to countinue your success, and be a good sample for other
people you
shouldn't behave this way. Mandy and Nick need to talk with
someone, and they
defently need help. This behaviour is unhealthy. If Mandy really
loves Nick then she
shouldn't let him to turn against his family, friends, and fans.
These are people that
care about Nick, and he needs them just as he needs Miss Mandy.
Dear Mandy
should know that her love toward Nick is hurting everyone around
them, and
specially Nick Carter.
Sorry for the very long post!
Christina, you should print this out, and give this to Mandy
and Nick when you meet
them next time. LOL
Lisa