~ KIND WORDS ~
Kind words can be short and easy to speak,
Mother Teresa
but their
echoes are truly endless.
How many times are we gifted with newcomers to our meetings? They are so easy to see as they huddle in the back of the room, usually as close to the exit as possible. The large or oversized coat is a good giveaway, especially in July. Their eyes also show the fear and anxiety which we all felt. Sure, we made it, and so can they.
I remember the elder who first said those magical words to me, those two simple words, "Welcome home." The warmth and safety those words held were immense. I felt that my body was huge, and I was embarrassed in a room full of people who looked very similar to me, but my eyes could not see that. They were filled with tears because of those two words. Welcome home. Whoever that person was, I have two words for you, "Thank you, whereever this finds you."
What do you do to make a newcomer feel welcome to your meeting? Let us not forget that all important first hug. I remember mine; do you? It felt good, I'll bet. So, welcome the newcomer and let them know they are home.
One day at a time...
I will do my part
to welcome the newcomer into our fellowship.~ Danny ~
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