Brevard Al-Anon

The Al-Anon Family Groups are a fellowship of relatives and friends of alcoholics who share their experience, strength and hope in order to solve their common problems. We believe alcoholism is a family illness, and that changed attitudes can aid recovery.

Al-Anon is not allied with any sect, denomination, political entity, organization or institution; does not engage in any controversy, neither endorces nor opposes any cause. There are no dues for membership. Al-Anon is self-supporting through its own voluntary contributions.

Al-Anon has but one purpose: to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the Twelve Steps, by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics, and by giving understanding and encouragement to the alcoholic.

One: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol....that our lives had become unmanageable.

Two: Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

Three: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

Four: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

Five: Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

Six: Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

Seven: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

Eight: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

Nine: Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

Ten: Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.

Eleven: Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

Twelve: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

One: Our common welfare should come first; personal progress for the greatest number depends upon unity.

Two: For our group purpose there is but one authority.....a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern.

Three: The relatives of alcoholics when gathered together for mutual aid, may call themselves an Al-Anon Family Group provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation. The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend.

Four: Each group should be autonomous, except in matter affecting another group or Al-Anon or AA as a whole.

Five: Each Al-Anon Family Group has but one purpose: to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the Twelve Steps of AA ourselves, by encouraging and under- standing our alcoholic relatives, and by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics.

Six: Our Al-Anon Family Groups ought never endorse, finance or lend our name to any outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary spiritual aim. Although a separate entity, we should always cooperate with Alcoholics Anonymous.

Seven: Every group ought to be fully self-supporting declining outside contributions.

Eight: Al-Anon 12 Step work should remain forever non- professional, but our service centers may employ special workers.

Nine: Our groups, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.

Ten: The Al-Anon Family Groups have no opinion on outside issues; hence our name ought never be drawn into public controversy.

Eleven: Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, TV and films. We need guard with special care the anonymity of all AA members.

Twelve: Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles above personalities.

1. Do you worry about how much someone else drinks?

2. Do you have money problems because of someone else's drinking?

3. Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else's drinking?

4. Do you feel that if the drinker loved you, he or she would stop drinking to please you?

5. Do you think that the drinker's behavior is caused by his or her companions?

6. Are routines frequently upset or meals delayed because of the drinker?

7. Do you make threats, such as, "If you don't stop drinking, I'll leave you"?

8. When you kiss the drinker hello, do secretly try to smell his or her breath?

9. Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will set off a drinking bout?

10. Have you been hurt or embarrassed by a drinker's behavior?

11. Does it seem as if every holiday is spoiled because of drinking?

12. Have you considered calling the police for help in fear of abuse?

13. Do you find yourself searching for hidden liquor?

14. Do you often ride in a car with a driver who has been drinking?

15. Have you refused social invitations out of fear or anxiety?

16. Do you sometimes feel like a failure when you think of the lengths you have gone to control the drinker?

17. Do you think that if the drinker stopped drinking, your other problems would be solved?

18. Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare the drinker?

19. Do you feel angry, confused and depressed most of the time?

20. Do you feel there is no one who understands your problems?

If you have ansered yes to three or more of these questions, Al-Anon or Alateen may help. You can contact Al-Anon or Alateen by your local telephone directory or by writing to:

FLORIDA ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS

THE BREVARD INTERGROUP, Inc.

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