This site consists of the messages posted in response to Horizon Internet Technologies Brian Redford memorial bulletin board. To add to the on-line version of the memorial, see In Memory of Brian Redford
Posted by Horizon Internet Technologies, Inc. on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 6:25 p.m.
Brian Lane Redford, 38, Director of Operations of the Walnet Valley Association, Winfield, Kansas died the evening of Wednesday, November 12, 1997. Services will be held at 10:30am on Thursday, November 20, at the First United Methodist Church. Brian was a lifelong resident of Cowley County and has been involved with the Walnut Valley Festival since it's inception. Redford was employed as Grounds Director of the Festival for many years, and has been the Director of Operations for 5 years. Redford was formerly employed by Finn's Electric as a Master Electrician. He graduated from Winfield High School in 1977 and attended vocational school in Wichita. He was a member of the United Methodist Men, Fellowship Class, and the First United Methodist Church, serving on the Board of Trustees. He was also a volunteer with EMT services.
Survivors: wife, Gail; son, Kevin; daughter Kayla; of the home; parents Bob & Kendra Redford of Burden; on brother Bart of Russia; two sisters, Keira Ann of Ark City; and Krystal of Burden; Grandmother Barbara Shively of Burden; Step-grandfather Floyd Thomas of Winfield.
Posted by Linda Tilton on Friday, 21 November 1997, at 8:17 a.m.
Thank you so much for creating this page!!!! It has been heartening to see such an outpouring of love for Brian and the rest of his family. I do so appreciate you making this venue for us all to be together and share each others thoughts and hearts.
Posted by El and Mary Carr on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 7:05 p.m.
Our love and sympathy to all of Brian's family from The Carr's of The Cow'nty Line Mall in Cherryvale, Kansas. El and Mary
Posted by Don Shorock on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 7:52 p.m.
The music has always been great, but my real reason for going to Winfield each year is that it has been one big happy family. Now our family has suffered a tragic loss, but we're still a Walnut Valley family and we'll stick together through these bad times, too.
The unofficial pages - in mourning.
Posted by Jason Bertolacci on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 11:02 a.m.
Thanks Don, for the memories you have captured of the Walnut Valley Festival in your photographs. And thank you for permission to use those images used to make the banner on this site.
Jason Bertolacci
Posted by Linda Tilton on Friday, 21 November 1997, at 11:58 a.m.
Don, thank you so much for helping to set up this webpage. This site and your personal site have been such a blessing this week! Thank you for your information, updates, pictures posted and pictures yet to come. You have made a hard time much easier for A LOT of people! Thank you, thank you!!!!
Posted by Ron & Judy Irvin on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 8:34 p.m.
We remember first meeting Brian as a kid with braces on his teeth who grew up before the eyes of thousands of people in the "Walnut Valley Family". It is a sad day and he will be missed. Our prayers are with his family and friends.
Posted by Joni on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 9:36 p.m.
I guess, to me, this brings to mind the fact that we all will at some point say good bye to this world-yet will continue living in another. There are two choices as to where. One is hell, or eternal separation from God. The other is Heaven, or eternal life spent with the Lord, singing praises, and who knows what all wonderful things there are in store for those of us who believe. And the choice is a simple one. First of all, one must realize that everyone does wrong things sometimes. This is called sin, and it eventually leads to death. Next, one must realize that God knows this aboutour sin too-in fact He has always known that we would sin, and fall short of what He wants us to be. However, He loves us anyway. So, in order to make up for our sins, He sent His son, named Jesus Christ to earth (something many of us hear about during the upcoming Christmas season. Jesus Christ lived, and died for us. Then, He lived again-which means He conquered our sins, by dying for us. If we will accept this, and believe, we too can conquer death and go to Heaven. What a wonderful choice, and plan. If you have any questions, contact me through my email address listed above, or just take a look at a Bible-the King James Version, or Good News, or New International Version are some I would recommend. God Bless You all, and I pray you make the right decision, before our time on this earth is up as well.
Posted by Paul Kislanko on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 9:49 p.m.
What I felt when I heard the news of Brian's passing was much the same as when I heard that I had lost my younger brother. Winfield is like that. I will miss Brian's counsel and encouragement, and my prayers will be with the Redfords and the members of the Walnut Valley family who were more privileged than I by virtue of having known and loved him.
Posted by Frank and Judy Johnson on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 10:13 p.m.
I'm feel a very personal loss and Brian and I had talked several times about a particular project that we were discussing together. Brian was such a solid person to talk to and so into the festival. The loss cannot be calculated by any of us. Brian was a KEWL guy.
We have not idea of the feelings that the family is having but we do pray for their protection from the one who has given us life.
Frank and Judy Johnson
Posted by Cheryl Haimann on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 10:17 p.m.
Alleluia, The great storm is over. Lift up your wings and fly.
Rest in peace, Brian.
Posted by Alice Petty on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 10:33 p.m.
Amen!
Posted by Alice Petty on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 10:36 p.m.
My family has spent many Septembers at Winfield because of the wholesome family attmosphere. My heart goes out the the Redford family on their loss. God bless you all.
Posted by Russell & Sherry Brace on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 10:40 p.m.
It is with deep sadness that this message is sent. Our love and sympahty go out to the Redford family from the bottom of our hearts. Our prayers and thoughts are with you as we say goodbye to a very good friend.
Posted by Roy and Lillie Coffey on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 11:03 p.m.
Our sympathy is with the Redford family and the festival family at this difficult time.
We have known Brian well for several years. His friendship meant a great deal to us, and we will miss him. He was a truly nice man.
Posted by Tom Dorrell on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 11:08 p.m.
My heart is heavy with the new's of Brians passing. Winfield will not be the same with out him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends, Crew member and friend, Tom Dorrell and Mike Theis
Posted by Mary Dell on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 11:45 p.m.
Though I did not personally know Brian, I have spent 12 wonderful Septembers with his extended family, the Walnut Valley family, enjoying the wonderful festival that his personal family created. I extend my deepest sympathies in this time of sorrow.
Posted by SUSAN on Friday, 14 November 1997, at 11:59 p.m.
I did not know Brian personally but all the many years at bluegrass i am sure i ran across him somewhere..We are one BIG family every September memories last forever..Susan Phillips
Posted by Jane Laughlin on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 7:00 a.m.
I've know Brian for 24 of his 38 years. And, like Judy & Ron, watched him grow up and go through many stages of life. For many years my contact with him, although I lived in Winfield, was each September when he and his family caused our "Brigadoon" to appear in the Cowley County Fairgrounds.
It wasn't until the issue of the "West Bank" came up and I attended a meeting of the town council that I saw another side of Brian. Brian presented the Walnut Valley Associations case to the council and fielded a question & answer session. I was totally impressed with Brian. The eloquent way he presented his position and the articulate way he responded to difficult questions.
Brian was such an important part of a very special event in all our lives but yet was quietly in the backgound. Making things happen we all took for granted.
I've gotten to know Brian better as a person since that council meeting and will sorely miss him. I pray that he has found the peace he was looking for.
Posted by Darell & Paula Murray on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 9:53 a.m.
The news of Brian's death was such a shock and made us so very sad. Such a loss, not only for the family, but for the whole community. Gail - our prayers will certainly be with you and the family.
Darell & Paula
Posted by Gary & Joan Hanna on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 10:06 a.m.
We are saddened to hear of the passing of Brian Redford. We enjoyed working with Brian at the Festival. Our hearts reach out to his family in this time of remembering. We resolve to help in any way we can to continue the Festival in Winfield as a tribute to Brian. We feel sure he would want the Festival that he worked so hard to make successful, continue for all the people he loved.
Gary & Joan Hanna
Posted by Charlene Morris on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 10:46 a.m.
Until just recently I was not aware that the Brian I know, was Brian Redford. He was just Brian. The young man who always stopped and chatted when we saw each other on the street or at the courthouse. In 1990/1991 I became acquainted with this very pleasant and excellent electrician when he did work for me at the courthouse for our new computer. Brian always took time to stop and chat for a second or two no matter how busy he was. I would see him at the WVA Festival around the grounds, usually with cables slung over his shoulder, and we would exchange a few words. I had no idea until now, when I saw his picture, that Brian Redford is the Brian I know. I feel so sad for his family and all who knew him as he will be sorely missed. I believe he will be missed by many, and there are many, who didn't know him but benefited from his works and activities. When someone we love and know becomes a memory, that person becomes a Special Treasure. My prayers are with you all.
Charlene Morris
Posted by Everett& Martha Livesay on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 12:58 p.m.
We extend our heartfelt sympathy to the family of Brian Redford. We pray that they may find comfort in knowing that Brian has found peace at last. God Bless You All!
Posted by Veleda & Floid Mccord on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 2:05 p.m.
Peace to you in the arms of the Lord at the end of "The Journey".
Posted by Linda Tilton on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 2:42 p.m.
Ahhhh! What a week it's been, huh? The Redfords are family to me, so I feel like I've lost more than a friend. I've lost a brother. He has been a huge support to me, both in my personal and professional life. When around him, I always knew I was loved and appreciated. Many people have told me they felt the same way. He is loved more than he could ever comprehend. I think if he knew the depth of people's sadness right now, he'd be amazed.
Last summer he fussed at me cuz I kept telling him that he's a babe. "I don't want to be a babe," he said. "I want to be a stud."
So, here's to you, Stud! Thank you for your jokes and creativity. Thanks for the unimaginable amount of work to help make the festival happen smoothly. Thanks for telling me that I'm still part of the family when I needed to hear it. Thanks for putting my brick next to "the boys." Thanks for making time for me this summer, when you really didn't have time. Thanks for having the courage to make your life work, the best you knew how. Thanks for loving Gail and the kids, and for being a cool dad. Thanks for calling me when you were in town last month. You really crack me up!!!! And finally, thanks for appreciating my push-up beaded bustier last December. Sorry I didn't have pictures to record the event : )
You are loved more than you will ever, ever know. Peace be to you, Dear One.
Posted by Chuck and Micki Sawyer,Haysville Ks on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 3:29 p.m.
We were shocked to learn the news of the loss to the Redford family and the Walnut Valley community. As a member of his setup crew for a couple years and as friends afterwards, We will miss his enthusiasm and cheerfulness , repairing the ravages of Murphy's Law, and making things work,to ensure another great Walnut Valley Festival. He has left a greater impact on those who worked for and with him than he now knows,alas too late.
Posted by Jay & Terry Dell on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 3:33 p.m.
This is a loss that is felt by many more than those who knew him ... his very large extended family feels that loss as well. Our sympathy to the entire Redford family. Hopefully they will gain some comfort knowing we are all sharing in their grief.
Posted by Lyle Baker on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 5:15 p.m.
All of our family extend to the family of Brian our deepest sympathy. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Posted by Deambra Stevens on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 5:46 p.m.
I remember Brian from our school days. He always was kind and quiet. Every once in a while you'd get a grin or a smirk from him. We just had our 20th class reunion in August and I know he will be missed by all his classmates and we will be sorry not to have him physically with us at our 25th. My thoughts and prayers go out to Gail, his children and the rest of his family. Rest in peace Brian.
Deambra Stevens
Posted by Gregory Teachman on Saturday, 22 November 1997, at 3:47 p.m., in response to Classmate, posted by Deambra Stevens on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 5:46 p.m.
I regret not being able to attend my 20 year class reunion even more now as I realise that was the last opportunity I had to see Brian. I'll remember him as a quiet, soft spoken friend of whom I feel blessed to have known.
Greg Teachman
Posted by PEGLEG on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 6:31 p.m.
Precious memories are the only memories of love left to be found....So sorry about Brian..........Pegleg
Posted by Kybor Tylor on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 9:23 p.m.
Please accept my condolences upon your loss of Brian. I am far away and never met him, but I appreciate the kind of contribution he would have made to our musical part of the human family. I believe there are no mistakes, and we all will learn and change through this. My sympathy to his family and friends. My thoughts are with you tonight.
Posted by Rolly Brown on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 9:46 p.m.
Just a note to express my deepest sympathy to the Redford family in this tough time. We've all gotten such joy from the festival as a result of the work of Bob, Kendra, Brian, and the whole Walnut Valley crew, and I'm sure I speak for many in saying that our hearts are with the family at a time when words feel so inadequate. With deepest compassion, Rolly Brown
Posted by Mary C Ayers on Saturday, 15 November 1997, at 10:40 p.m.
Dear Bob, Kindra and all the family of Brian,
I know words alone cannot replace the hurt and loss you must feel at this time. I extend my deepest sympathy on behalf of myself and the Kansas Bluegrass Association.
I only met Brian briefly this past October in Guthrie and it was fun to observe what a great father he was to his children.
Let me close with this scripture. Revelation 21: 3,4 And God Himself will be with them . . . He will wipe away all tears from their eyes.
Sincerely,
Mary Ayers President, Kansas Bluegrass Association
Posted by Stephanie P. Ledgin on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 9:42 a.m.
To the entire Redford family, may you find comfort in knowing that thousands of people have been touched over the years via the festival, with which Brian has worked so faithfully since the beginning. May these friends in music give all of you strength in this sad time. With love and sadness, Stephanie Ledgin
Posted by Tom & Jill Haver & Family on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 10:20 a.m.
We are all terribly saddened by Brian's death. Having lost three close friends and loved ones this year, 1997 is not turning out to ba a banner year for us Havers. Now we must pause again to reflect on the passing of a "family" member.
Brian leaves a family of 15,000 people, whose lives have been enriched by his efforts year after year. I know the pain the Redfords are feeling, and it hurts like hell - deep to the bone. My heart goes out to them, and I hope that Brian's peace will bring peace to THEM as well.
May his spirit live on forever, in the joyful singing of September.
Posted by Sam & Bud Maidt on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 12:04 p.m.
We have tried for three days to find the words to express what is in our hearts. We have read all that has been written here and envy those who have expressed their feelings so well. When I got the call about Brian, my heart hurt for all who loved him and those of us who watched him grow. He will always be remembered for the kind, good things he did. We worked 23 years for the festival and knew Brian in all of the different jobs he did while growing up. Our children went to school with him, I worked at WHS while he was there. We wish we could reach out, touch his arm, and say, as others have done here, rest in peace Brian. To all those who love you, please know we are here for you at anytime, anywhere, whatever is required.
Posted by Gary & Melinda Duggan on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 12:17 p.m.
We are extremely sorry to hear about the death of Brian. My memory of him that I will always remember is of the help he gave to me many years ago. He definately did not know who I was, but a couple of days before the festival offically started, I was in desperate need of help regarding tickets for some friends that were to arrive the next day. They had the wrong type of tickets for camping. I found him hard at work and explained my problem. He quit what he was doing, we got in his truck, and he took me to the front gate, fixed my ticket problem, and took me back to the campground. Not something that happens to you very often in this day and age. I guess that is just the way he was. I sure wish that there was something I could have done to help him when he needed it. Though I did not know him personally, I will certainly miss him. Let God bless him. Gary & Melinda Duggan, Edgerton, KS
Posted by O.B. & Cindy Walker on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 3:20 p.m.
Although we didn't know Brian and his family personally, our prayers and thoughts go out to them at this time of loss. May God grant him peace and love. May his spirit be kept alive each September in tribute.
Our sympathies O.B. & Cindy Walker
Posted by Barbara Smith on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 4:00 p.m.
TO THE MAN BEHIND THE SCENES HELPING TO DUMP TRASH OR GETTING THE LIGHTS TO WORK ON STAGE TO GETTING THE PERFORMERS WHERE THEY NEEDED TO BE. THE QUIET SOILD ROCK OF THE BLUEGRASS.
ALWAYS THERE ALWAYS DOING ALWAYS GOING NEVER SLOWING. RELIABLE NO MATTER THE PROBLEM. THE QUIET SOLID ROCK OF THE BLUEGRASS.
HIS NAME WAS BRIAN AND I KNEW HIM WELL AS A FRIEND AND WORKING WITH HIM MADE THE BLUEGRASS FESTIVAL SOMETHING I LOOKED FORWARD TO EVERY YEAR. EVEN THOUGH MY LIFE HAS MOVED AWAY FROM WINFIELD SEPTEMBER NEVER GOES BY WITHOUT A LONGING TO BE AT HOME AT BLUEGRASS TIME.
BRIAN YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED BY YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR FRIENDS. THIS ONE ESPECIALLY. BARBARA JO SMITH
Posted by Robert and Ellen Haig on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 5:49 p.m.
Our prayers are indeed with Brian's family, freinds and the large extended family that meets each year at a place called Winfield.
Posted by Don Richie on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 7:38 p.m.
I had many opportunities to work with Brian in the early 80's and of the many qualities he had was his willingness to help others. Brian was an inspiration. He will be missed.
Posted by Steve and Tina Bruster on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 9:36 p.m.
We didn't know you well, but your lifes efforts will be missed.
Posted by Brian Baresch on Sunday, 16 November 1997, at 11:55 p.m.
Brian's work brought joy to many thousands. He will be missed.
Rest in peace, friend.
Posted by Mike Phelan, Marley's Ghost on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 2:34 a.m.
The Festival has been a place to meet some of the dearest people we have yet encountered. We are sorry Brian had to leave us so soon and our hearts go out to his wife, children and his folks. Goodbye, Brian. Your work will be remembered.
Posted by Karen Kolavalli on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 2:40 a.m.
I've been following the Walnut Valley Festival this year from afar via Winfield-l and it's been great to be able to experience the spirit of WVA even though I'm on the other side of the world. I am saddened to learn of Brian's death. I know from working on the crew in years past what kind of commitment and effort is put forth by the Redford family to make this thing happen every year. I know Brian now knows how far-reaching his life's work was. Go with God and find your peace.
Posted by Don Shorock on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 7:08 a.m.
Not all readers of this guestbook are aware of what Karen means by the phrases "from afar" and "the other side of the world", so I'll mention that her note was posted from Bangalore, India.
Posted by Steve Snyder on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 7:05 a.m.
Your spirit will always be part of the music.
Posted by Bad Bob & Anita on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 8:16 a.m.
Posted by Emery Josserand on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 8:20 a.m.
I just want to express my deepest sympathies for the family and friends of Brian. At times like this it is most difficult to picture Gods master plan.
Emery
Posted by Heidi McClure and Jerry Woerdeman on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 8:38 a.m.
As we all try to figure out what has happened here, we extend our deepest sympathies to the Redford family. May all of our Winfield memories help to get us through this difficult time.
God bless you, Brian,
-heidi and jerry Colorado Springs, CO
Posted by Paul Honeycutt on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 9:40 a.m.
My heart goes out to friends and family. You will be missed.
Posted by Leo Eilts on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 11:44 a.m.
I so looked forward to knowing you better.
Posted by Larry and Helen Krudwig on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 11:57 a.m.
The life of Brian Redford is a modern day version of a story told in a rather old but very popular movie often shown during the Christmas season. Unfortunately, it does not have the same happy ending at least here on this earth and at this moment. Clarence wasn't there for him this time. The soft and gentle manner in which Brian worked his magic of bringing the Walnut Valley Festival to life, and indeed it does have a life, contributed to the enrichment of the lives of many thousands of people all over the world in much the same way George Bailey enriched the lives of the people of Bedford Falls. There are thousands of stories, including ours, that he could not hear as to how this event that he created each year has made, "It A Wonderful Life" for so many others. There is an old story, also used in the movie, that each time you hear a bell ring, an angel has received his or her wings. Let us all ring a bell in Brian's memory and the one of us will be lucky enough to have created the that sound when Brian gets his. From our family to his, my God's blessings strengthen you and our deepest sympathy.
Posted by Jackie Smith on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 12:46 p.m.
I knew Brian from working with the set-up and tear-down crews in years past. The respect we all had for Brian was well earned. He always had time for a smile and a handshake. We will miss Brian. I pray he has found his peace.
Jackie Smith Oklahoma City, OK
Posted by Randy and Tannah on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 3:34 p.m.
Hi, we really only knew Brian from a far, but have friends who knew him well... we give you our deepest sympathy and want to let you know you are in our prayers.. may god be with you and Brian!
Posted by Bruce and Billie Wells on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 3:59 p.m.
We are sad that Brian will not be able to read all of the tributes written here. Brian was very much loved by his parents, his wife and children, his family, friends in Winfield, and his Walnut Valley Festival family. He fought a long hard battle to live because he knew he was loved. His family did all that they could to help him. The illness was overpowering. May you all find peace. Bruce and Billie Wells
Posted by Linda Tilton on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 9:03 p.m.
Thank you, thank you for your posted message. Any death will raise a flood of emotions and issues. Especially a suicide. I'm sure several people will not understand Brian's decision to end his life. He struggled so hard with his illness, and he fought it the best he knew how. I'm happy to see your thoughtful, loving tribute to him.
Posted by Harry and Sharon Shetlar on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 5:19 p.m.
We are sorry for the loss of Brian. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time. We know Brian will live forever in your hearts. Sharon and Harry Shetlar
Posted by Steve and Debbie Mullins on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 5:40 p.m.
Please know that we are praying and thinking of you during this most difficult time. Take comfort in knowing that Brian touched many lives.
Go with God, Brian.
Steve and Debbie Mullins
Posted by Wayne & Diane Steadham on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 5:56 p.m.
To live a life that effectively changes many people for the better is a noble venture. Brian Redford lived such a life. His life's work touched the lives of many people and his efforts produced a family business like no other in the world, changing all of us for the better. Those of us who participated in the Walnut Valley Festival are aware of his efforts and we owe him and his family a great deal of gratitude for keeping thousands of people in touch with each other through the love of music. I will miss Brian Redford and I will never forget him. I am honored to have been able to call Brian my friend and I will always do whatever is necessary to help his family. Our prayers are for Gail, Kevin, Kayla, Bob, Kendra, Krystal, Keira, and Bart, may God help with the healing. Wayne & Diane Steadham
Posted by Ernie & Bette Jo Jones KC Mo on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 6:57 p.m.
Our Deepest Sympathy
Posted by Michael and CristineFinnell on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 7:00 p.m.
Our deepest sympathy and prayers to Brian's family and friends. We have been so grateful for the time, love , and committment he gave to make the festival possible for all of us. This was a truely loving and healing gift.
Posted by Teresa Howell on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 8:33 p.m.
It was with great sadness that I write this. My heart is full & heavy. My prayers & thoughts are with the Redford Family at this time. I feel apart of the Redford family since I feel like Winfield is home. Brian & all of the Redford's have brought a unknown joy to me with their hard work & dedication. I firmly believe we take those around us for granted & need to be more open & compassionate to those around us. The sad things is, that it takes a loss to realize how our lives have touched those around us. Everyday we come in contact with people both new & old, either we come have a positive impact or a negative. Brian was a positive & made all our lives more comfortable & enjoyable for some many years without a lot of fanfare. I know this is late, but thanks for all the memories & years of service. You will live on in the hearts of all the Walnut Valley Family.
Posted by Ned and Claire Graham on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 8:54 p.m.
From where you are, you can see all five stages. Peace to you.
Posted by Leo on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 12:34 a.m.
> From where you are, you can see all five stages. Peace to you.
> Hey, Brian.
Look a little to your right.
Leo
Posted by Cheryl Haimann on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 6:20 p.m.
If I were an artist, here's the picture I'd draw:
Stage 1 is resting on a cloud. On stage, Bill Monroe, Chubby Wise, Merle Watson, Gamble Rogers, and hundreds more are jamming. And off to the side, an angel with flannel wings and sunglasses is *finally* getting to watch the show.
Posted by Teri Nugen on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 9:32 p.m.
To the Redford Family,
I didn't know Brian personally, but I sure did appreciate all his work at the festival. I've been going to Winfield for the past 19 years and my son has also been all of his eleven years. We call Winfield home for ten days in Sept. every year. I'm sure our paths crossed a few times over the years and I'm sorry to hear about his death. May you find peace in his passing and let the good Lord help your family in this time of sorrow.
Posted by Marvin and Eva Lewis on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 10:16 p.m.
We extend our condolences to Bob, Kendra and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Marvin and Eva Lewis Sunset Texas
Posted by Bob McWilliams on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 10:27 p.m.
One of the evil aspects of the all too often fatal disease, depression, is that its victims cannot see clearly the good in themselves. Even though we could see the dedication, the hard work, the love of family and friends that characterized Brian, I am afraid he wasn't able to see that. Far too often, victims of depression set such high standards for themselves that they can never be met; or are unable to believe others when they are told how worthy, and loved, they are. I wish Brian could have recognized how much joy he brought to people--in his family and friends, and in the HUGE number of people to whom the festival is such a life-affirming and celebratory part of their year, year in and year out. I grieve for Brian and for his fami
Posted by Julie Davis on Monday, 17 November 1997, at 11:23 p.m.
I still remember the first time I met Brian and encountered his smile and gracious heart and talent. Brian gave something extraordinary to thousands of people, he changed lives, and gave all of us a place to gather, to celebrate and sing, a place where we felt at home, a place that could not have existed without Brian's energy and thoughtfulness.
I admired Brian and what he did. I am deeply saddened by the news of his death and genuinely overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and sorrow and concern in these messages from people who are all part of the Winfield family. There are those who didn't know Brian at all and those of us who knew that Brian struggled daily just to keep going. And I am so touched by the fact that even in his own pain Brian gave everything he had to give to us. He will be part of us always.
My deepest love to the family, and to Brian. I hope he has found peace
Posted by Roger Eilts on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 7:00 a.m.
There is not a day of my life that I do not at some time think of Winfield, Walnut Valley, and the Redfords. Since I heard the news last week, there has scarcely been a minute of my waking hours that I have not thought of these things. What a tribute, to know that there are hundreds (thousands?) of people like myself doing the exact same thing. Were that my own life such a contribution to so many.
Posted by Paul and Zoe Doolittle on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 7:43 a.m.
Deepest sympathy to the whole family, we are sorry for your loss and are thinking of you all.
Posted by Gary Gackstatter on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 8:05 a.m.
In memory of the hard work that Brian put into the Winfield Regional Symphony performances at the festival. Long hours, back-breaking work, smiles and the ever-present "What else do you need?". Brian's fountain of new ideas and his work to accomplish them will be sorely missed. On behalf of myself, my family, and the Winfield Regional Symphony- Brian, the eyes of memory never sleep...
Posted by Karie Miller on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 9:04 a.m.
My heartfelt sympathy to the parents, wife, and children of Brian Redford. Twenty five years ago yesterday my husband took his life, leaving me with two young daughters. At the time I wasn't sure I could do all that needed to be done alone. Today my daughters are healthy, loving, caring individuals who keep within their hearts a piece of their father that they will pass along to their own children. I attended the Winfield Festival in 1979 with George Gritzbach. Brian would have been a teenager then. I do remember his parents, especially Bob. Your tragedy has touched me. I do hope you find comfort and strength in those who love you. Karie Miller
Posted by Steve and Carol Gouge on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 10:06 a.m.
Having attended each of the last 15 festivals, we have come to feel that the Winfield family is an extension of our own family. Mere words can not possibly express the sorrow we feel with the passing of one of our own. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go to the entire Redford family. We are so blessed to have known Brian.
I would dearly love to see the City of Winfield place an appropriate memorial to Brian at the fairgrounds...perhaps naming the main thoroughfare Brian Redford Memorial Drive.
Posted by Cheryl Haimann on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 6:07 p.m.
> I would dearly love to see the City of Winfield place an appropriate
> memorial to Brian at the fairgrounds...perhaps naming the main thoroughfare
> Brian Redford Memorial Drive.
That's a wonderful idea! And even if the city won't do it, we can always do it ourselves during the week of the festival.
Posted by Frank -- Birmingham, Alabama on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 10:22 a.m.
Weep not for me though I am gone Into that gentle night. Grieve if you will, but not for long Upon my soul's sweet flight. I am at peace, my soul's at rest There is no need for tears. For with your love I was so blessed For all those many years. There is no pain, I suffer not, The fear now is all gone. Put now these things out of your thoughts, In your memory I live on. Remember not my fight for breath Remember not the strife. Please do not dwell upon my death, But celebrate my life.
Copyright 1992 Constance Jenkins, All Rights Reserved
Posted by Charlie Hall on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 10:33 a.m.
Brian, when you were here, you couldn't see clearly how much you meant to others. Now from your new home, hopefully you can. Our sympathies to Gail, Kevin, Kayla, Bob, Kendra, and the entire Winfield family.
Posted by The Brandt's on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 11:01 a.m.
Amazing grace How sweet the sound That saved a wretch like me I once was lost But now am found Was blind but now I see
At a time like this the familiar sounds of a beloved song can ease the pain. Or sometimes, just make you release it. Let it go.
Posted by Jerry & Cathy Newland on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 11:07 a.m.
From Emporia we send our deepest sympathy to Bob and Kendra, Gail, Kevin and Kayla and the other members of the Redford family. As you celebrate Brian's life on Thursday, we will be there also, in thoughts and prayers. Peace to all!
Posted by A friend on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 12:51 p.m.
To the Family - a Song
I’ve heard life on this earth called a journey I guess I’ll take their word But if it’s so Can I just rest here My feet already hurt
Across my path there winds a chasm And there’s no way around Against my will I take a step The only way across is down
There’s a river flowin’ deep inside the valley Can it wash my grief away? Away on down Away on down The valley to the sea
From somewhere in the darkness voices call my name Voices that I know To my surprise I realize I never was alone
This valley can’t be crossed alone they say The current’s fast and wide Hand in hand We’ll find our way And climb the other side
Chorus: Don’t tell me that you understand Don’t say the pain will fade Just say that you’ll go with me Hand in hand we’ll cross together And climb the other side
-- a Friend
Posted by Bill Graham on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 1:50 p.m.
I only met Brian a few times, he wouldn't know me on the street.
Yet I feel like I knew him from his work, the festival.
People who make Winfield go _and so smoothly_ I feel like they're kin of sorts. They're like relatives I've never really spent quality time with but I'm going to get around to it someday. There never seems to be any hurry because they're always out there, doing good things.
Then someone you know from a distance is gone.
Brian always treated me well the few times we met. I remember him laughing and cheerful.
The best of a person always lives on.
Bill Graham
Posted by Chris King on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 3:39 p.m.
I wish everyone in Brian's family (both the Redford's and the festival) a healing experience. I was shocked and am still thinking it is not really true. Brian will forever be in my thoughts...especially as festival time draws close again and I see him in that crappy old white Chevy we always used for set-up and tear down! He was a worker! Peace to Bob and Kendra and those left behind.
Respectfully, Christopher L. King
Posted by Martin Moon on Tuesday, 18 November 1997, at 3:44 p.m.
It was with deepest regrets and a personal feeling of loss that I learned of Brian's death. We grew up together, and while not always in close touch, The Redford's have always been like family. My family and I extend our friendship and sympathy in your time of great loss. Brian will be remembered as a bright helpful friend - - one whom I took great joy in seeing. I will miss him. . .
Posted by Barb Firth on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 7:39 a.m.
My heart-felt sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rest peacefully, Brian.
Posted by kim mercer on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 9:03 a.m.
Well, Brian, now you can be everywhere at once! Though at the Festival I always thought there were at least four of you!
Bob and Kendra, Gail, Kevin and Kayla and other family members, you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Posted by George and Janet Menke on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 10:05 a.m.
Our hearts go out to Gail and Family, Bob and Kendra and family
Posted by Shawn & Jennifer Menke on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 10:35 a.m.
In tribute to a great person that provided so many of us with joy and togetherness in his efforts with the W.V.A. You will be missed.
Posted by Dave and Kathleen Gustafson on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 3:31 p.m.
We don't know the Refords personally but feel like a part of their extended "Winfield family". Our hearts and prayers go out to them during this very difficult time. Their family has brought so much joy and pleasure to our lives. All we can offer in return is our heartful sympathy.
Dave and Kathleen
Posted by Diana Hyle on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 4:44 p.m.
From the time I was a little girl and people other than my family began appearing in my Winfield experience, I can never remember Brian Redford without a smile. I'll always remember that.
Posted by David Hyle on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 6:48 p.m.
For the past 26 years Bluegrass and WVA has been part of my life our family's year has always revolved around the festival. Brian has always been apart of this we didn't very often go to Winfield without getting together with Brian and Family, whether it be camping or going out to dinner it seemed we would always end up talking about bluegrass. It seems that Brian always had millions of ideas and made many of them work and my dad and I seemed to be a sounding board for many of these. My whole family from my parents and brother and sister to myself and family will feel a great sense of loss of someone as part of my extended family has left for a better place and peace. With love and respect David Hyle and family. The Security family.
Posted by Rex FLottman on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 7:26 p.m.
There is a little guy that is sort of like the Walnut Valley guardian angel, Anyone that has been involved, or enjoyed the W.V. festival has seen him. It's a little fella in a big cowboy hat, playing a guitar. Lots of people don't reallize that his name as I understand it is "Feisty". Webster defines feisty as 1: "the champion is faced with a feisty challenger" [syn: spunky]. I think if there was ever a person that fit that role, it would have to be Brian. Over the last 10 or 12 years I've watched Brian take on about all challengers, and hold his own with them! In his work at the festival he helped bring together thousands of people, because music does bring people together, It allows us to share the same emotions, and right now, as these notes express, we are all sharing in the lose of a friend, and a family member.
"... death is not an ending, but a symbol of movement along the path upon which we are all traveling. As it may be painful to lose contact with the physical aspect of one we love, the spirit can never be lost. We have been, and always will be a part of each other". Rex, Sandy, & Sheridon Flottman
Posted by Joann Butler on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 8:52 p.m.
I want to share the 91st psalm with Brian's family and extend my deepest sympathy.
Posted by J.K. Carpenter on Thursday, 20 November 1997, at 8:53 a.m.
> I want to share the 91st psalm with Brian's family and extend
> my deepest sympathy.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and loved ones during this time of emotional distraught for all. Rest in peace Brian, and embrace the ever-lasting life and love of the dear Lord.
Posted by Darell Murray on Wednesday, 19 November 1997, at 11:27 p.m.
I've known Brian for quite some time. I've always appreciated his effort to set up and make the WVF run smoothly. This year at the land rush he proved to quite a few of us his ability to deal with people's problems.
On the morning of Land Rush everyone was getting ready as time got close to go. Brian was at the front checking everything on his radio when someone let him know of a problem. An elderly lady had put her club on her steering wheel the night before and had locked it. The morning of Land Rush she got out her key's to unlock the club - and had lost her key. She was stuck and holding up the line right before time for the rush to begin!
When Brian got word he went right to work on it. He called a locksmith, who couldn't pick it. So he had us take loose her camper and then drive her truck out of the the way with the club still on it! Once he got it out of the way he took hs own personal 4x4 and had us hook it up to her camper. He got out, smiled at her and said, "Here you go, drive it in and get your spot!" Needless to say we were all surprised that he chose to handle it in such a simple way and allow a stranger to use his own truck!
This was the Brian that we all knew. We told him that we appreciated the way he handled the problem. We just wish that he could have handled all of life's problems in the same simple way.
Brian will certainly be missed.
Darell & Paula Murray
Posted by Nick, Shari & Joshua Hilton on Thursday, 20 November 1997, at 12:11 a.m.
Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family. Brian was a very special person in the lives of many people. He has now gone on to be a special person in a much better place. The time that we spent with Brian was always a good experience. Whenever you were around him he always had a smile on his face and something funny to tell you!
Brian, you will be greatly missed!
Posted by Styx Creek Association on Thursday, 20 November 1997, at 1:14 a.m.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Jim and Ann Ford President and Secretary Stxy Creek Assocation
Posted by Andy and Lauren May on Thursday, 20 November 1997, at 10:37 a.m.
We join the Redford family and the entire Walnut Valley Festival family at this time to celebrate Brian's life and to mourn our loss.
Posted by Lynne Harkness on Thursday, 20 November 1997, at 12:55 p.m.
To the family and friends of Brian, I am so sorry, I hope it helps to know there are so many who, in a small way, share your sadness. May our strength and prayers help to sustain you in the future.
Posted by James A. Schaid, AIA on Friday, 21 November 1997, at 10:07 a.m.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that your musical family can in a small way lift your hearts and ease your pain. My prayers are with you and Brian.
Posted by Pat Kirtley on Friday, 21 November 1997, at 12:08 p.m.
My deepest condolences to Bob, Kendra, Gail and the families on the loss of their beloved son, husband, brother, and dad, Brian.
With sincerest sympathy,
Pat Kirtley
Posted by Tim Sidebottom on Friday, 21 November 1997, at 10:02 p.m.
Bob and Kendra, fear not for he is in very good hands. With a tear in our eye , we will carry on! It is what Brian would want us to do. With love and sympathy, The Sidebottom clan.
Posted by Virginia & Glenn Reynolds on Sunday, 23 November 1997, at 5:28 p.m.
Although we never met Brian personally, we have received much joy and pleasure because of all the work he did on behalf of the the Walnut Valley Festival. We want to extend our sympathy to Brian's family and pray that the Lord will keep them in the palm of his hand. Virginia & Glenn.
Posted by Heather Cafferty on Sunday, 23 November 1997, at 11:37 p.m.
Dear Bob, Kendra and family, I feel great sorrow for your loss of Brian. My family thinks of you as you work toward dealing with your loss and look at reorganizing your lives without Brians physical presence.
He will always be amongst us as we rememember his presence and contributions, see his pictures and remember him. Brian gave his best available effort at being present and trying to "run" Winfield, unfortunatetly it would appear that his depression was more terminal than his physical health and desires for the future.
As a mental health practitioner I extend my sorrow and apologies that we have not been able to irradicate the sense of despair and depression that Brian experienced..
In his memory , I would be honored to volunteer my services for "counseling" or"therapy" during the festival for participants who may need immediate or emergency intervention or services. I would also be willing to recruit other practitioners who can be be helpful in making their services available. Please contact me and let me know how I can be of assistance..Heather Cafferty-Wilson,LSCSW.
cafferhl@menninger.edu...or..hlcafferty@kspress.com
Posted by Greg Smyer on Tuesday, 25 November 1997, at 5:35 p.m.
November 25, 1997
Brian - We never really got to socialize and know each other except as professionals. That is what I will miss the most - The fact that you were the consummate professional in every thing you did and passed your knowledge on to me to help me run Stage 3 more professionally - and I will miss the fact that we will never have the time to become closer by just getting some spare time to visit during the Festival ( like we were ever going to get a free minute!!) So - see ya when I get to Heaven - I know you will have my Stage 3 ready and then we will get to watch some shows as fans and festival goers!!!
Love - Greg Smyer
Rich Bruhn / John Probst / Scott Simon / Jamie Brothers
Chad Brothers / Tye Smyer / Richard Smyer / Joe Worrel
Kay Perdaris and the SPIRIT of Stage 3
Posted by Lin Strack - HeartStrings on Monday, 8 December 1997, at 4:28 p.m.
Never met Brian in person but benefited greatly from the hard work he put in with his family to make the Festival happen. Some lives are short in terms of years but long in terms of what they have given to others,. . . even to those who have never met them! May God comfort you always.
Posted by Dave & Mary Stever and boys on Tuesday, 23 December 1997, at 8:39 p.m.
We are very sorry to hear of Brian's death. Our heart felt sympathy to his family and friends.
Posted by Kendra Redford on Wednesday, 31 December 1997, at 12:07 p.m.
Ok, let's try this again - I first typed this message in on Tuesday, December 23rd, on Rex Flottman's computer. We posted it and then discovered later that it hadn't gone out over the internet. So, we'll try once more.
To Our Walnut Valley Family:
For the overflowing river of love and support you've given us since Brian's death, we are deeply grateful. We have spent some time trying to learn how to cope with our loss. And although we haven't been in touch for a while, the cards, calls and emails have kept us connected to all of you. We find it very difficult to adequately express how much that has meant to us. Rex Flottman, of Flottman Photography has been printing the messages on Brian's Memorial page and compiling them in a notebook for both Gail, Kevin and Kayla and our family. As I have read over some of the messages I've sat and cried, but it has been a healing kind of crying, shared with all of you. Linda Tilton is right. I think Brian would have been amazed to see the perception of himself that other people had of him. Unfortunately, at times when he was depressed, it was not the perception he had of himself. Thanks, Cheryl Haimann, for the wonderful image you have given us of Brian as "An angel with flannel wings and glasses, finally watching all five stages at once." "Alleluia, The Great Storm is over", (and he is lifting his wings to fly.)
There are so many individual people to thank, Don, Jason, Rex, Linda, Leo etc., etc. that in trying to list them all we'd probably forget someone - but you know who you are and we hope you know that you have our heartfelt love and gratitude for all you have given us. For our contribution to the tribute page we'd like to share something that I found in a newsletter, in the hope that what Brian has touched in our lives can be passed on to others. It seems to say what is in our hearts this Holiday Season. We have truly been blessed and enriched with an abundance of love and friendship from all of our Walnut Valley family. Thank you with all our hearts for your gift of love.
Holiday Greetings!
Christmas is a Wondrous Time
A time to Rejoice and a time to Reminisce - A time for Caring and a time for Sharing - A time for Peace and a time for Goodwill - A time for Fantasy and a time for Dreaming - A time for Reunions and a time for Laughter - A time to feast and a time to Celebrate - And more especially, a time for Love.
May the meaning of the Season be deeper, May your friendships be stronger, May your hopes be brighter as Christmas comes this year.
Gifts You can Give All Year Long (In memory of others)
The Gift of Praise - Appropriate mention - right in front of the person - of superior qualities or of jobs or deeds well done.
The Gift of Consideration - Putting yourself in the other person's shoes, and thus proving your genuine understanding of his side of the case.
The Gift of Concession - Humbly saying at just the right point, "Sorry - you're right and I am wrong."
The Gift of Gratitude - Never forgetting to say "Thank you" - and never failing to mean it.
The Gift of Attention - When the other person speaks, listen attentively. If his words are directed to you personally meet his eye squarely.
The Gift of Inspiration - Plant seeds of courage and action in the other person's heart. Help him to strive for greater accomplishment and lasting satisfaction.
The Gift of your Personal Presence - In sickness, in trouble or in a day of great joy, there is nothing quite equal to your personal expression of sympathy or congratulation.
These are the gifts that all can bestow - throughout the year - and be richer for the giving. (Cheer Magazine) (Taken from Southern Kansas Telephone Newsletter)
With Love from the family of Brian Redford: Bob, Kendra, Keira, Krystal,
Bart Redford
Gail, Kevin and Kayla
Posted by john proffitt on Saturday, 31 January 1998, at 4:13 p.m.
I never knew brian, nor do I know his parents, wife or children. And I have only been to the WVF one time, in 1996 for it's 25th anniversary. But I can tell you, for a festival of that size, I have yet to see one comparable that does as well in organization, talent lineup, security, ambiance or anything else. To me, that is a tribute to the dedication of the managers and the volunteers who have had to spend countless weeks and months in preparation, hours upon hours of actual on-site event time, and post event analysis.
I don't know a lot of the town of Winfield, or its response to the festival from either the perspective of the citizenry or the offices of the local governments. But I will tell you, that in my mind, the festival offers a lot to the town, and in turn, the quaintness of the town offers a lot to the festival. Championship events of this caliber are no longer held in venues like this. And to my way of thinking, that is wrong. This type of music came from small towns and rural America, and it is those areas that continue to support it. You cant find music like this on any radio station in any of the big or even medium markets, they all cater to top 40 country which has strayed a long way from its original roots with a few exceptions.
I want to take this opportunity to thank the Redford's for their steadfastness in holding the festival, even in the face of their family tragedy. I offer my sincere condolences to Brians wife and children, and to his parents in their loss. My words probably won't do much to diminish the pain, but I want them to know that I grieve with them.
Posted by Gail Redford on Sunday, 1 February 1998, at 8:19 p.m.
I would like to thank everyone for your gifts of kindness, thoughtfulness, and generosity during this difficult time. Thank you, Jason, for making this site possible. Kevin, Kayla, and I have enjoyed reading each posting. We have sustained a great loss by his sudden passing. But your outpouring of love and appreciation for Brian is such a blessing to us.
The children enjoy talking about their dad. They have very special memories of him that they will always cherish. Brian would often load up their bikes in the back of the pick-up and take them with him to the warehouse, the West Bank, and the fairgrounds.
I am very proud of Brian's accomplishments that he made with each festival. As one friend mentioned as she spoke of him - she could see a lot of Brian's "touches" throughtout the whole festival. His ideas and accomplishments were an irreplaceable asset to the festival.
Many of you only knew Brian through the festival. He enjoyed motorcycles and boats. He was an excellent eletrican, husband, and father. He was a hard worker and a helpful person to call on in the time of need. He was a great friend to have and was loved by all who knew him. I was fortunate to have been a part of his life and love.
Best wishes and love,
Gail Redford
Posted by Thomas Dorrell on Sunday, 1 February 1998, at 9:45 p.m., in response to To Brian With Love, posted by Gail Redford on Sunday, 1 February 1998, at 8:19 p.m.
Everyone who ever came in contact with Brian were fortunate. I held a great respect for Brian and the way he pulled things together. Every year when I would show up at the blue trailer to work he knew who I was and knew what he wanted me to do. We will all miss him, you and yours are in our prayers and thoughts often. Just this week I lost another dear friend to depresion and it brought you all back to the top of my thoughts...God Bless...Friend, family. crew. Thomas
See Don Shorock's Winfield Memories Archives - Special for pictorial memories of Brian and information about the Kevin and Kayla Redford Educational Endowment Fund and the Winfield Fairground Improvement Fund established in Brian's memory by the Walnut Valley Association
Thanks to Horizon Internet Technologies for permission to reproduce the memorial graphic, and for its creation. And Thank You Brian, for permission to use the WVF logo and your ideas about how it should be used.
