Grandma's Hands
Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench.
She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.
When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence
and the longer I sat I wondered if she was OK. Finally, not really
wanting to disturb her but wanting to check on her at the same
time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and looked
at me and smiled. "Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking," she said
in a clear strong voice.
"I didn't mean to disturb you, Grandma,
but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I
wanted
to make sure you were
OK," I explained to her.
"Have you ever looked at your hands?" she asked.
"I mean
really looked at your hands?" I slowly opened my hands and
stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then
palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my
hands as I tried to figure out
the point she was making.
Grandma smiled and related the following story:
"Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have,
how they have served you well
throughout your years.
These hands, though wrinkled, shriveled and weak have
been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab
and embrace life. They braced and caught my fall when
as a toddler I crashed upon the floor. They put food in
my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child my mother
taught me to fold them in prayer. They tied my shoes and
pulled on my boots."
She continued,"They held my husband and wiped my tears
when he went off to war. They have been dirty, scraped
and raw, swollen and bent.
They were uneasy and clumsy
when I tried to hold my newborn son. Decorated with my
wedding band they showed the world that I was married
and loved someone special.
They wrote my letters to him
and trembled and shook when I buried my parents and
spouse. They have held my children and grandchildren,
consoled neighbors, and shook in fists of anger when I
didn't understand. They have covered my face, combed
my hair, and washed and
cleansed the rest of my body."
"They have been sticky", Grandma said, "and
wet, bent
and broken, dried and raw. And to this day when not much
of anything else of me works real well these hands hold
me up, lay me down, and again
continue to fold in prayer.
These hands are the mark of where I've been and the
ruggedness of life. But more importantly it will be these
hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me
home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and
there I will use these hands to touch the face of Christ."
I
will never look at my hands the same again. God reached
out and took my grandma's hands and led her home. When
my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my
children and husband I think of Grandma. I know she has
been held by the hands of God. And I, too, want to touch
the face of God and feel His hands upon my face.
~Unknown~
This gives us a lot to think about. What is the story of your hands?
Why not write a short story about God's blessings in your life and
send it to your children and grandchildren?
Betty
Music: "Take My Hand"
Margi Harrell
Graphic by GranGran