To handle yourself, use your head; To handle others, use your heart. Anger is only one letter short of danger. If someone betrays you once, it's his/her fault; If he/she betrays you twice, it's your fault. Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. God gives every bird it's food, But he does not throw it into it's nest. He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses more; He who loses faith, loses all. Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, But beautiful old people are works of art. Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself. The tongue weighs practically nothing, But so few people can hold it. A FRIEND IS A TREASURE A friend is someone we turn to, When our spirits need a lift. A friend is someone we treasure, For our friendship is a gift. A friend is someone who fills our lives, With beauty, joy, and grace. And makes the world we live in, A better and happier place. A Friend Accepts you as you are Believes in "you" Calls you just to say "hi" Doesn't give up on you Envisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts) Forgives your mistakes Gives unconditionally Helps you Invites into his/her heart Just because Keeps you close at heart Loves you for who you are Makes a difference in your life Never Judges Offers support Picks you up Quiets your fears Raises your spirits Says nice things about you Tells you the truth when you need to hear it Understands you Values you Walks beside you Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Yells at you when you won't listen and Zaps you back to reality May we always be "good buddies" May we always be "good friends" and may our friendship be the kind that will never end. THE ABC'S OF FRIENDSHIP A lways be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you? B e there when they need you, or you may wind up alone. C heer them on, we all need encouragement now and then. D on't look for their faults, even if you have none. E ncourage their dreams, what would we be without them? F orgive them, you just MAY do something wrong sometime. G et together often, misery loves company, so does glee. H ave faith in them, the human animal is remarkable. I nclude them, you may need to be included sometime. J ust be there when they need you. K now when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one? L ove them unconditionally, that is the ONLY condition. M ake them feel special, because aren't we ALL special? N ever forget them, who wants to feel forgotten? O ffer to help, and know when "No thanks" is just politeness. P raise them honestly and openly. Q uietly disagree, noisy NO's make enemies. R eally listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm. S ay you're sorry, don't let them assume it. T alk frequently, communication is important. U se good judgment. V erbalize your feelings! W ish them luck, hopefully good! X amine your motives before you "help" out. Y our words count, use them wisely. Z ip your lips when told a secret. By following these ABC's as often as you are able, you SHOULD live a LONG and friend-filled life. Authors Unknown