Kandice - 12/28/99 07:05:26
My Email:kandicekayw@hotmail.com
Degree of happiness: 100%
Thing you learnt with this story: Soul Mates....its not a cliche'
Comments:
In Early November I met a wonderful man in a chat room. His sensitivity took
me so much by surprise that I was convinced that he was a woman. After chatting
a few times I gave him my phone number. We burned up the phone lines talking
for hours on end abou everything imaginable. I had never felt such a strong
connection to anyone before. One night we were on-line chatting and I asked
him to come see me. We were falling in love and we had to find out if this
connection that we felt was real. We had to know f we were truly meant to
be together or if we were going to simply be life-long friends. Well, we met
and the sparks flew. The connection was real. We spent a weekend together
and it was truly the happiest time of my life. I love this man with all of
my h art. 1600 miles separates us, but this love, this connection that we
have is so powerful that I feel him with me every day. I have never really
believed in the notion of a soul mate before this, but really have no other
way to describe what happens when w are together, and oddly enough even when
we are apart. For now I feel drawn to my computer or to my telephone to find
him, and we often navigate there at the same time. We share so much together
that I had to write this and tell him.....Matt, I love you. .soon baby, we
will be together....forever. All my love....Kandice
Brooke - 12/26/99 19:13:07
My Email:Swtniteluv@aol.com
From: Pensacola, Florida
Degree of happiness: 100%
Thing you learnt with this story: Distance is hard to deal with, but
it's worth it in the end
Comments:
OK, well... How can I start?? I was dating this guy and our relationship was
starting to really mess up. We were always fighting over the dumbest things.
Then one day, this guy named Paul IM'ed me and we started to talk all the
time. My feelings for my bo friend at the time started to disappear and I
started to grow feelings for Paul. I broke up with my boyfriend.. I never
told him why though. I just told him we weren't going to work out. Paul was
away at college, but that didn't matter. There was somethin about him I loved.
I guess it was his personality. He always made me laugh and always knew how
to cheer me up. Finally, in September we met in person. Since then we've been
together (whenever he comes home and when I go up to visit him)I dont' know
what 'd do without him today. He's changed me to a better person. I used to
be really really bad, but not anymore. He's taught me so much. He taught me
how to love and be caring. I've never had a boyfriend like him. We've got
our ups and downs, but in the end, I'll always love him. I loved him yesterday,
I love him today, and I'll love him tomorrow and forever. Nothing will ever
get in the way of that either. << Paul I love you with all my heart and soul.
Please never forget that!!!>>
Michelle - 12/22/99 17:03:07
From: Oklahoma
Degree of happiness: VERY HAPPYYYYY!!!!
Comments:
I met this guy online back in June, and we chatted for a month before we decided
to meet. We have been together ever since we met on 7-18-99, and we are getting
married 6-10-00. I couldn't be anymore happier than I am now. He is absolutely
the best thing o ever happen to me. Michelle+Adam =Forever :)
Jason - 12/15/99 23:30:48
From: Michigan
Degree of happiness: 100%
Thing you learnt with this story: People who are patient will find
true love
Comments:
I met this girl in an AOL chat room and she has been the best thing to ever
happen to me. She was a life preserver and she saved me from drowning. I menat
that figuratively in case you people were wondering.
ONE EYED MAN - 12/03/99 05:05:58
My Email:Nunya@hotmail.com
From: ONE EYED MAN
Degree of happiness: 100%
Thing you learnt with this story: That Love Over The Net Can Happen
Comments:
Ok my story is wierd.I love my brother's friend and he says he loves me too.But
problem is i started to talk to him over the net never in person and this
Friday i get to meet him........he better be worth it I JUST WANNA SAY I LOVE
U MATT!
kayla - 11/27/99 20:46:21
My URL:http://kayla.com
My Email:www.kayla30000@aol.com
From: kay
Degree of happiness: loved
Thing you learnt with this story: alot about who cares about you and
who doesnt
Comments:
okay here how it goes i was on the computer one day i met a guy and we have
been talking for 3 or 4 mounths on the phone and internet he is real sweet an
dwhat m,e real happy is when he said that he would go through hell so i wouldn't
have to feel one l ttle drop of pain. it made me feel like i was on top of the
world i love him mor ethan anything in the world. kayla and matt forever
People that know what they want~~~
- 11/16/99 18:32:06
My Email:Jessie44@Freemail.com.au
From: Jessie
Degree of happiness: I am just happy because I am
Thing you learnt with this story: I learned that what ever it takes to
find what you are looking for is worth waiting around for!!!!~~
Comments:
I am trying to tell everyone out there that if you belive in something don't
hesitate to go for it. There should be nothing to worry about out there. There
is a saying that "if you don't learn to love yourself then there is no way
you can find love on y ur own". And that is a fact. Even though maybe I think
that I have found love on the internet, cause of right now he is like a dream
come true well in my dreams. I learned to finally love myself and found of
what I am to become, and I have learned and ucceded. This boy lives in the
same state and I have known him since 11-12-99 and I am truly in love. Just
go for it guys and gals, and your wishes will come true just like mine did,
of learning to love within yourself!!! Thanx
trauma - 11/16/99 13:21:20
My Email:webtrauma@anti-social
From: seattle
Degree of happiness: 95 godamnit, wont be 100 till I can rub his bald
head again.
Thing you learnt with this story: That I AM completely insane, but
in a completely ok way
Comments:
Feb. 03 Bored. I get bored. Alot. Hate computers. I must have been incredibly
bored, (well then, when house sitting a studio apartment, who wouldent?) Between
beers I come across a website. blahblahblah.com we will call it. I think to
myself, ohhhh they have emai ! And with a cool angsty domain name! sweet!
This place with a cool domain name happend to have a bbs. 'What the fuck is
that?', im thinking. So I post, a stupid rediculous thread about punk rock.
Yeah I know, how generic. Get replys. Angry ones. Virtual ights break out.
Over the next few days, Im drawn back to this place in some uncontroled nerd
frenzy. I panic. Was I really THAT bored? Yes, I was. And with the potential
to achive ultimate geekdom. Several weeks later- I post something dumb mentioning
S.H.A.R.P's. I get a reply, and from a skin guy. I think, ohhhh skin boy.
A virtual skin boy at that. He invites me to IRC to exchange pictures. 'IRC?
What the fuck is that? Insane rectal crabs?' im thinking. So my friend shows
me the buz-ness and i get to typing. I see his pic. Damn, hes pretty cute.
I leave the chat, not knowing if I wanted to come back. After all, netchat
is supposed to be for losers. Ha. Next day- I go back. Hes there. We talk
about how clueless I am about computers. I meet the rest of the blahblah gang.
I get stuck there for hours. I wouldent admit it to real life friends at the
time, but i was diggin it. Feb Through whenever- Me and him talk. A lot. Im
really starting to get it for him. (I know, how lame) I snail mail him my
mug and he acts impresed. (All the guys do, so why shouldent he? tee hee.)
We have an insane amount of things in common. Im resisting this geek force,
but to no avail. I plan to greyhound it to chicago. I was freaked. What if
my vast p wers of judgment sucked? He meets me there with another one of our
net buddys. (remeber, this was completely plutonic, at least we thought, or
he thought. I had a BIG thing for him) We end up driving to the east coast
to meet everyone. Fun Fun Fun. I think it was then I realized I could defently
love this guy. I stay an extra week with him in chicago, and we do the couple
thing. Fabulous, but so embarrasing. After- We dont know what to do. 2548
miles is quite a distance. We talk even more. I fiend for his presence. I
hope, he was fiending for mine. We get the titles. Im now officially crazy
for him, and we plan a second trip. 2nd string- I do the 3 day bus ride through
hell once again. It sucked. Lost my luggage in Nebraska. Have nothing but
a satchel, wife beater, thrashed shoes and a dirty sweatshirt. I stink. He
gives me a hug and kiss anyways. Im mean the entire trip, but am drawn dee
er into the magentic geeky skin complex. I dont resist. I love him even more
for putting up with my bitchy attitude. Return- Shit happens. I go through
a late teenage freak out stage. Get a new job, and break under the constant
male attention from the hometown gang. Me and him are at outs. We try to 'just
be friends'. Broke my heart. Of course this short lived arangement did no
work beacause of our tendancy for lenghty long distance phone calls, talks
about sex, and our usual self-glorifying crap. In a split minute disicion
I buy a plane ticket. I love him, and find out he loves me. Joy of joys. He
loves me! So I get my ass dow there in a hurry, and had a completly awesome,
fullfilling visit. I had to come back of course, this isint some dumb fairy
tale with a sappy happy ending, even though I pray that it will be. Ive taken
so much shit over this from family, friends, work, pe s, and everything in
between. Im still getting shit. He is to. Its all worth it. He is the one,
he has to be. Im his nancy to his sid. Im trying hard to not get lonley. Its
so hard though. All I want is my man, and well, a really awesome car. But
my man comes first. Im so crazy insane in love, and stupid to boot, but this
potentaily retarded situation turned out for the very best. I lear ed patience
and the art of getting a point across without being a bitch. Like the song
goes.."the only boy who could ever get through to me was a son of a preacher
man..." Scratch the preacher part and insert a computer, and you got my joe.
We will be together for real in january, when I drive my fire-starter vw bus
through dangerous terrain just to lay with boy. Im finally happy. -Now the
sad irony of it all, Im now a willing slave to a box. I love my computer to
death, and found I have a nack for it! Oh, and im going to die of embarresment
if this sappy shit gets around, so keep it here. please!
Ashley Fabray - 11/16/99 11:05:13
From: I am a citizen of the World...
Degree of happiness: Estatically so
Thing you learnt with this story: Trust
Comments:
I met him in Spring 95 for one week after talking on the computer and writing
emails. I visited him in his country for another week. Two months later, I
moved from one contenent to another for my love. There were no guarentees
except if things didn't work out, he would help me with getting back to my
country and getting back on my feet financially. A year later, I married him
and have been happy ever since. Yes, we have our minor problems, but doesn't
everyone? (eg. who does dishes, laundry etc). He is my sun and moon and stars
all in one. He is my support and my joy. He is my best friend.
Dawn - 11/08/99 08:43:41
My Email:grosedm@hotmail.com
From: Wyoming
Degree of happiness: 110%
Thing you learnt with this story: Love is wonderful
Comments:
Okay.. the first thing I have to say is that those of you who make fun of
this site are dumbasses.. and if that is the case, what is the point of leaving
a message that makes you sound dumb. I mean if you don't feel like there is
love on the net, then do 't look at sites like this for heavens sake and by
all means don't leave messages on them. Now on to my story. Last December,
I met the most wonderful guy on the internet. We talked for three months a
couple times on the phone and then decided to meet, he came here to meet me
and we just fell in love. We didn't really tell each other how we elt until
a couple weeks after that. But then I went to see him, we talked and had a
wonderful time. It was soooo great, then one day we were talking on the net
of course and he almost proposed to me, but backed out because he thought
it was stupid to d it on the internet. I think I cried because I was so happy
for like a hour afterwards. It was then that I knew for sure that he loved
me as much as I loved him. Well then the summer came and I decided I was going
to take a week off of work and go and ee him and meet his parents. So it was
then that he asked me to marry him. I didn't cry that time, but he didn't
know that I cried when he almost asked me on the internet. Well back to the
story, I said yes of course.. We were both soo excited. I just hugged him
and told him how much I loved him. Once again we arranged a meeting in October
to meet in Colorado, we had so much fun, just talking, cuddling, enjoying
the time together. Again as I drove home from that time with him I cried my
eyes out. No here it is November and I am missing him so much. We have decided
that we will get married in August of 2000. And let me tell you both of us
can't wait until that time. Well I tell you I am the happiest, I have ever
been and it is because of this comp ter and the internet and the wonderful
things that we can do these days. I love him so much and he knows I do. And
every day it gets harder to be apart, but all I keep thinking is dang in less
than a year, I will be his and he will be mine. And woo hoo you guys lost
out on the best guy. Well at least in my mind. But he is wonderful. So I wish
you all as good of luck as I have had in this world in finding your one and
only. Travis I love you soooooooo very much.. And I am so lucky to be the
one to be your wife.. Good luck everyone.
sarah - 11/02/99 15:51:37
My Email:Donna_@hotmail.com
Comments:
I dated this guy name Max,we really love each other until he dump me for this
girl on the net. When they had planned to see each other I spied on them.
They were kissing like mad, I went back home feeling like a loser.From that
I didn't think about guys just my family.I was playing basketball with my
older brother Joey when Max came.My brother left us alone for awhile to buy
some drinks. I just said kay and start shooting the ball into the net. Max
came to me and snatch the ball from me. I kept quiet and just stare at the
net. He walk around me like an idiot and came close to me.... I didn't stop
him cause his hand was cold and wet. But then we kisse , I opened my eye and
pushed him away. He told me he was sorry about what he did.but I never forgave
him,until he told me about the girl. He didn't know the girl was his stepsister
until his mom told him. I felt bad and gave him a chance.
dina - 11/02/99 15:40:10
My Email:J_Jina@hotmail.com
Degree of happiness: Happy
Thing you learnt with this story: normal....
Comments:
When I first start to like guys, my parents freakout.They told me I'm too
yong to like guys. I was 15 by then. So I didn't go out with any guys who
ask me out. When summer came, I got a summer job.I had to babysit two kids
Stacey 7 and Bob 6. So when I babysit them I got lonely and scared after the
kids fell asleep. I watch some tv shows when some guy came in sweating and
limping,I ask who was he.He told me he's the kids brother.And fainted on the
floor.I quickly drag him to hie room and changed his clothes. The next thing
i knew....I was kissing him. When we broke apart he told me he had feelings
for me.But I didn't want him. I left his room and cried in the bathroom till
their parents came back. The next day,I walk down finding my parents talking
to the boy I kissed yesterday.His name is Ryan. My parents left us there to
talk.We talk for half an hour,I noticed everytime I turned to face something
he'll come closer.When we're closed enough we start to kiss. The kissed ended....I
look up and found my parents smilling at us saying we look like them when
they were teens.... And now we're going out for a year and 5 month.He dump
me for a new girl.I cried at night tearing his pictures....my parents didn't
know about it. I got over him in just a month and start having a new life
with my brothers, Max,Samuel and Michael.In just about a few week before Girls
and Boys Out at school start I noticed Ryan watching me closelly. Girls and
Boys Out means about guys giving us things to our love ones.So when it starts
I didn't care about it....and when I opened my locker I found a bouquet of
flowers in my locker. The flowers were from Ryan,he came up to me just as
I took the flowers out form my locker. He told me he was sorry for what he
did,and promised to be there when I need him.I forgave him and kissed him.He
pulled us apart and gave me something.I opened t and found out a locket with
a picture of me and Ryan together. I just smiled and hug him. END
happy chica - 11/01/99 16:32:57
Comments:
I was in love with a farmer. He brought corn to me everyday to my work. I
loved this farmer. He had a good edumacation. He was hot (from the sun) one
day and I went to get him a glass of ice water. When I bent down I farted
(I had diarrhea) and this s ain got all over my white shorts. He gagged and
doesn't bring corn to my work anymore. Anyways I thought it was funny. Okay
that's enough...bye Ellouise
Fiza - 10/19/99 14:41:53
My Email:i-scream@gurlmail.com
Thing you learnt with this story: I don't know
Comments:
I'm just a normal girl with a normal family till when I'm 2. When I was 2
my sister was 8, we had the same birthday and always spent together. But when
my parents got divorced, I cried at night. My sister told me I couldn't see
dad anymore. That made me sad until when I find out I had a brother who was
9 years old. I saw him and never fight with him or anything except giving
him love and caring to him. But one day when we were playing outside this
small boy had kick his ball to the street, my brother got up and chase after
the ball for the boy. he didn't realize a truck coming his way, my mom run
out to save him but too late, my brother got thrown to the other side of the
road. I didn't move to run over him, I remain standing there. By the time
my stepdad got home, they quickly dash to the hospital leaving me with this
babysitter Sam, he told me my brother was going to be okay and I wish I could
believe him. The next day I went to visit him, he had tubes around him, his
head was bandage.... My mom crying on my stepdad shoulder, my sister cried
holding my brother's hand. The look on the doctor's face saying the only word
that could hurt me "He's dead". I run out of the hospital and hide behind
this bushes. I've just lost the person I really love besides my mom. I look
up hoping my brother will be happy at where he would go. For 6 years we grew
together now he's gone. When it was time to say goodbye to him, it was too
late. When I understood my parents got divorced I want them to get together
again but it's too late. It's so unfair, but I knew the world is not always
fair. When we got home, I walk in his room and took out his faveourite shirt
and put it on, it's bigger than my usual clothes. And at night I cry and cry.
Till now I'm 12, my mom and stepdad get use by not havinf him for breakfast
or dinner but only on his birthday. So every time I'll see any girl with their
brothers I'll cry or feel sad. I wish my brother is still alive instead die.
My sister never told their friends what happened to him, she's scared because
they would laugh at her. But I'll told them the truth. Now I'm use for him
not to be with me but I'll always love him and miss him.
Cady - 09/25/99 03:03:36
My URL:http://java
My Email:limpbizkit-babe@gurlmail.com
From: search-
Degree of happiness: all is not well
Thing you learnt with this story: Enjoy every minute while it last!
Comments:
Over the summer,during about June or July.I stayed with my Aunt Maryann for
a weekend,it turned in to staying a whole month and a week.My cousin had a
lot of friends and we would go out and i was always being interduced to new
people,mostly boys,but one o them cleared my head it was him.He came over
alot hanging out with me and my cousin,i grew to be more and more interested
in him with every breath he took.Then my cousin told me that he liked me,being
over welmed with joy,but now i realized it would be h rd to hang out with
him knowing that he likes me,over the days knowing this i triped over things
and studdered when i was with him.Then i finally got up to my breath and told
him that i liked him and would like to go out some time.So we made a date
for th movies,he brought a friend and i brought my cousin,through out the
whole movie my cousin was making kissing nosies and saying 'kiss already u
know u want to'.So he got tired of waiting for me to make the first move so
he reached over for my head,brought t over to his face and gave me the most
fantastic kiss of my life,he kissed me on my upper lip,it was so soft and
perfect but of all it gave me a sensation to scream and jump,it gave a tiggle
all over my body.i sat there with his hand on the side of my fa e looking
at him.Then we went on touching are thick tongues,i never felt so great but
powerless.After the movie it was weird we steped out and the sun was so bright
it blinded me i couldn't see a thing i only heard something as if he had to
go and next thing i knew i was in a car driving back to my aunts house with
my cousin.I didn't see or hear from him for a week then it was time for me
to go back home cause school was starting.When i was packing my cousin walked
in the room telling me he was moving in 5 weeks ,i knew i couldn't stay longer
to say good bye to him.i told my cousin to give him my e-mail,and untill this
day i wait for him to e-mail me and till this day i cry for not saying good
bye,and till this day i will always remember him he was my love of my life.
aymen - 09/17/99 07:11:15
From: pakistan
Degree of happiness: 90%
Thing you learnt with this story: age doesnt matter
Comments:
i met this wonderful guy in nov 98..thru icq.. he lives in my city and is
9 years older..i am 22. we talked about loads of things and ended up meeting
each other. i didnt think i would date him, at least not at first but later
coz we became such good friends ..we started meeting regularly.. now after
several months we are a couple and cherishing every moment of it.. keep looking...u
will meet the love of ur life.. dont let age difference bother u
Raymond.N - 09/10/99 15:29:25
My URL:http://bakaunited.com
My Email:raymond_neo@hotmail.com
From: IRC
Degree of happiness: 1000degrees of happiness that make me dizzy
Thing you learnt with this story: Love exists everywhere. It depends
on whether you have the fate to encounter the most special person that you
want to meet in your life and I have found mine.
Comments:
I met this very special girl from IRC. She is a friend of my sister and we
started introducing ourselves to each other. At first, I had a crush on another
girl who is a friend of my special girl. Later when I started to give up on
that girl whom I got a c ush on, doesn't like me. Then I give up on her. Later,
I adopted my special girl as my god-sister. I was so happy and I don't even
know why. Later I began to start doting her a lot. Even more than I dote on
my sister. But I still did not realise that I like her. I thought it was out
of our brot er-sister relationship. After this went on for a few weeks, we
found that something is going on. But I pushed the idea of likeing her to
the back of my mind until one day, when my sister talked to me about this
matter. About how me and my special girl cou d talk to each other so well
and I dote on her so much. Finally I woke up. I found that I like this girl
a lot. One day, I wrote a letter to her telling her that I love her. I had
a feeling that she will hate me but I have to say my feelings to her.Later
hat night, she wrtoe a letter back to me telling that she loves me back. I
was so happy! I felt like the luckiest person on Earth. I never felt so happy
in my whole life. From that day onwards, I bought her presents every week
and dote on her a lot more. She is the most perfect, wonderful and cutest
person in the whole world. I really love her and I will love her forever.
I LOVE YOU, baby!!
Spilette - 09/02/99 13:02:46
Degree of happiness: The happiest person!!!
Thing you learnt with this story: True love does exist
Comments:
I would like to share my story with you to show you that true love found on
Internet exists... (Some data :))I am from Eastern Europe, he is from the
US - thousand miles apart...I am a year older than him, we both study and
work.) I met MY LOVE on ICQ 8 months ago. I found him on random and his nickname
was so appealing to him that I had to send him a message; I never do send
random chat requests... (Faith???) We started chatting, sending mails to each
other... first as friends bec use I was just "getting out of a relationship"
that did not work for long time so I did not want to become attached to anyone
for long time. He made me laugh, made me think about things I would never
think of before, made me want to be a better person. I sed to go to work an
hour earlier just to check my mails and stay late to be able to chat with
him. I kept thinking of him all the time and then I realized I was completely
head over heals in love with him. We had no secrets, I told him everything...
I ad ired him as a person and when he sent me his picture I just KNEW he is
the one. Well we kept on chatting over ICQ almost every day, sent mails to
each other, sent regular mail, little gifts, talked over the phone and finally
decided to meet! We did and it was the most wonderful time of my life, we
spent several days together and both felt the same way, and after he flew
back home we are now making arrangements for me to go over the ocean to visit
him! I love him deeply and I wish one day we will live together, share every
day's ups and downs together, laugh and cry together... I want to be by his
side and I know I can always count on him. If there is anyone you fall for
over the net, trust your feelings and make that person happy no matter what.
Love is strong and long distance relationship can work out if both people
are in love. Internet is just another way to meet your love (personally, I
think much better than in a bar, ha?) Good luck from Spilette
Venus - 08/09/99 05:18:21
My Email:n/a
From: Canada
Degree of happiness: 600 degrees of happiness
Thing you learnt with this story: That sometimes things turn out different
than you expected
Comments:
Well I guess I should at least tell you I'm 18. My story started in september
of '98, I was seeing this guy who I did very much like. But like every other
couple, we fought lots. I've very sensitive so I usually end of crying and
people try to comfort me but it doesn't work sometimes. Well at that time
i was using my university server to connect to the net so when i wanted my
line to be busy i would go onto the internet and chat with some people. Well
there was this one guy i talked to and he was really n ce but he was also
busy talking to other girls. I guess you can call him a "macker". I rarely
talked to him. He lives 3 hours away from me. But everytime i was down, he
would always send me internet flowers. It's not a big thing or anything but
the guy th t i was seeing at that time didn't care about me much i guess.
So everytime something bothered me, i would turn to my net friend. He's always
found a way to cheer me up. Then one day i stopped hearing from the guy i
was seeing, he was too busy with school and stuff so there was nothing i could
do. But my friend was still there for me. We were like best friends but over
the net. I would help him out with his love life when he asked me for advice.
One day he and his friends, some other guys that talk to also decided to drive
here. But this was about 6 months after i met him on the net. He would always
call me long distance and we would talk till morning. His phone bill would
be about 4 bills a month. But even b4 we met we were just friends. The day
we met i w s pretty much nervous. I'm not sure why but i was. About a month
later and a few more visits, we hooked up as a couple. Everything is great
right now. It's been 3 months now that we've been together and i've seen him
everyday that i have off so far. Pret y soon we're going to be closer together.
And i hope things will be even greater. I think i've found my soulmate. IF
YOU'RE READING THIS BABY, I LOVE YOU!!! See you tomorrow
his sweet heart - 08/08/99 16:19:24
Degree of happiness: 100%
Thing you learnt with this story: that there IS love on net!!!
Comments:
Okay, this is MY story. I met that guy one day in the chat room. He said he
is from India. I live in Bosnia, so we knew we are far away... But that it
happened: we fell in love! Even if I had so many boyfriends before, I could
never love anyone like I lov him... I swear on my life! Even if I'm 15 and
he is just one year older, we know we are made for each other. He works hard
to earn the money for us and our escape. We hope that we will be together
next year - together forever. I will leave everything jus to be with him...
And he will do the same - cause we love each other... That's the way my life
will be......... IF YOU DONT BELIEVE THERE IS REAL LOVE ON INTERNET, THEN
U R VERY WRONG! ATIV AND I KNOW THERE IS... ATIV, IF U R READING THIS, YOU
HAVE TO KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE U... WE WILL BE TOGETHER
chris nguyen - 07/25/99 18:28:52
My URL:http://angelfire.com/ak2/aka4u2nvme/
My Email:nguyete@email.uc.edu
From: Cincinnati, Ohio
Degree of happiness: She's the best thing that ever walked into my
life!
Thing you learnt with this story: There is such thing as fate and true
love!
Comments:
On April 6th, 1999 was the first day that I came in contact with Michelle
and it was the first day that I started talking to her. Ever since that day,
we have been talking about having the perfect relationship, the perfect love
for each other, the things we would do for each other, the things I would
do for her! Slowly but surely, everyday day after that day, we began to talk,
we began to know more about each other, we began to commit to each other.
I didn't expect anything the first time we talked but fter days and a whole
week have gone by and I was still talking to her, that's when I began to get
hooked, I was hooked on her. I realized that everything she said to me, and
everything that she have told me was everything that I ever wanted in a signific
nt other. To begin with, she is beautiful, with the most unique personality,
she's got the most creative mind I've ever seen, the most influential person
that have ever walked into my life, the most caring and loving mindset, and
to top that off, she has the silliest sense of humor. Furthermore, I began
to trust her, and she began to trust me, we began to trust each other. We
started talking for weeks, and it led me to think that she is the ONE PERSON,
THE ONE SPECIAL PERSON THAT I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR VER SINCE MY LIFE EXISTED.
I've learned to trust her with everything in my life, I have told her things
that I wouldn't imagine telling anyone else, in the process, I began to like
her, and that like turn into LOVE, soon enough. I began to fall in LOVE with
the perfect girl, the perfect human being, and the one person that I know
that would make me happy for the rest of my life. I also realized that she
began to trust me with her most internal, most secretive thoughts and feelin
s. She began to trust me with her life, and that's when I realized once again
that I was in love with her. Then on April 20th 1999, the first day that I
actually admitted to her that I loved her, not knowing if she would feel the
same way about me. I had to take that risk! If u love someone and you don't
want to lose them, then u must to tell them how u fee ! This is exactly what
I did. I told her that night after we got off the phone that "I LOVED HER".
At night when I laid in bed and pondered about what I have said, I wondered
to myself. Was that the right thing to say to her? What if she didn't love
me b ck? What would I do if I didn't have her love in return? Thoughts of
rejection rushed through my mind the whole day! The following day we talked
again but when we were ready to get off the phone, for the very first time,
she finally told me that she LOVE E BACK. That was the single most exciting
day in my life, that someone that I knew fate has brought me to, has told
me the one word that meant most to me, the word LOVE. Ever since that day
that she told me she LOVED me, I have been the happiest person n the world.
I have learned to make sacrifices, to show every inch of love I had for Her,
I have learned to trust her with my life, and at that point she was the single
most important person that has ever walked into my life. Then on April 28th,
a Wednesday, that's when we decided that we Would become one, we had become
each other's Ong Xa, BA Xa(husband/wife). On that same day, we decided to
put our past, our relationship and friendship with others behind us, we had
declared it to be official, to this day, that was the most significant d y
in our lives. I am actually in LOVE, and I am an Ong Xa(husband) to the most
beautiful human being that has ever walked on the face of this earth. I fell
in love with the happiness that we had brought to each other! We fell in love
with each other ways On the same day, she told me about our magic carpet ride
(hehehe), us sitting up in heaven having lunch together, telling each other
that we would never let the another one go. And her fantasy about the perfect
wedding, (she wanted to ride a motorcycle t our wedding), Yes, that was her
dream, When we had shared dreams the day after, she amazed me once again with
what she was willing to do for me. Since the very first day I talked to her,
I felt as if I was the luckiest person in the world to be loved by omeone
so special. Someone, who was willing to give up her life for me, she had no
idea how happy or enthusiastic I was that day. And still to this day I am
so thrilled for us. Then one week and an anniversary later, on May 6th, the
one day that I would ever ever forget. Do u know what happened on this Thursday?
Well it began really well when we were telling each other how much we miss
each other. Then all of a sudden she cried because she said she has never
loved anyone as much as she loved me. If she ad one wish, it would be to spend
an eternity of her life with me! But then, a song that was playing on the
radio and it got the best of her so she began to turn away from me. She told
me that she loved me so much that she had to let me go. It took me a hour
and a half and even tears of joy and sadness to persuade her, but it didn't
work. I loved her so much! There was no way that I would let someone that
I love more than anything leave me just because of the fear of us being so
far apart! So I propose to her out of love, I knew it was fate that brought
me to her, and I wanted to keep her in my sight forever! I proposed to her
in marriage, hoping that she would realized how much I love her, and to change
her mind about her decision. No one has ever ma e me so happy, no one have
ever made me feel so special inside, no one have ever took every ounce of
manhood I had and push me to drop tears of joy out of my eyes. May 6th was
the day that I proposed to her. I was so Afraid to lose her that I had to
turn to my faith, I knew that she would make me happy forever, Finally I asked
her, "Michelle would u take my hand in marriage? Will u marry me honey?" I
didn't know what she was going to say! But, from talking to her ye terday
she might say no, it was a risk I had to take because I love her that much,
I had to show her that I love her enough to proposed to her over the phone!
When she said yes, she didn't know the feeling, the rush, and the joy that
ran through my body! realized once again that we had taken another step into
fulfilling our love and happiness for one another. This meant that we would
be together forever and this meant I can't lose her, she would be mine forever.
No turning back! "I LOVE YOU MICHELLE! Slowly but patiently May 12th rolled
by! May 12th was extra special because it was our second week anniversary!
I knew that this day would be extraordinary because, it's just adding another
exceptional day to the MILLION OF OTHER SPECIAL DAYS THAT I WOU D HOPE TO
HAVE WITH HER, TO KNOW THAT WE ARE IN LOVE AND THAT WE ARE SUPERLATIVE FOR
ANOTHER, MAKES IT SO MUCH MORE SPECIAL=)! Now almost 4 months have passed
since we first met, and we're still More in love than ever! WE have been through
a lot of rough times in the last couple of months, but we stood by each other
the whole time! Some may say that love is simple, and it's easy, but in reality,
love hurts, love hurts a lot! You will only know what love is, when you endure
the pain that goes along with love! I can't sit here and just tell everyone
who might read this that our jour ey of love was easy, but we both endure
a lot of pain, stress, and worries about each other being so far away, but
I never stopped loving her and she never stopped loving me! Love is truly
amazing if you really sit down and see what love is all about. O ly true love
will last in my opinion! Many people may think that when u fall in love for
the first time, it will last forever, but it's not like that, both people
have to equally love each other, and both people have to make sacrifices and
that's what we did! Still to this day, we talk to each other everyday, spending
countless hours on the computer chatting and talking on the phone! We still
haven't seen each other in person, but I know that when that day arrives,
I know I will be the happiest person alive o finally get to see my honey!
We talk about it all the time, but we will only know when the time comes!
I will end this love story with this, "patience is the key to my love with
Michelle!" I LOVE YOU MICHELLE!
CHINA HOLLEY SMALLS - 07/21/99
19:26:52
My URL:http://chocalate
From: MISS SMALLS
Degree of happiness: LOVE
Thing you learnt with this story: TRUE LOVE CAN BE FOUND
Comments:
kevin white - 07/18/99 07:10:28
My Email:jeep19ca@aol.com
Comments:
I met this guy in a char room on aol about 2 weeks ago. He is a navy guy that
lives in honolulu.we talked a lot that first night. the second time we talked
we stayed online for a few hours. then we decided we would talk over the phone.
so now we have been having great talk online and over the phone. were starting
to fall in love. i've never been one to believe in internet love eithe . I
always laugh when i hear storys like this on jerry springer. i really believe
in love on the internet now.
Misty - 07/12/99 01:03:42
My Email:misty_weyant@hotmail.com
From: Pennsylvania
Degree of happiness: happy
Thing you learnt with this story: That internet love isn't bad
Comments:
Ok!! i am a 14 yr old girl that fell in love over the net on a chat line.
Ok! when i fell in love with this boy named Clint he was everything to me
we have been going out for 4 months with 1 week in between!! but i love him
and there is nothing wrong with a person loving someone over the net!! Well
anyways he is the sweetest guy that i ever talked to and i care about him..
But sometimes he acts like we aren't even going out i mean we talk on the
phone a lot but i never can see him because he lives to far a ay!! My dream
is to some day meet Clint!! I mean the way he talks to me makes me feel good
about myself and makes me feel good that we are going out!! We both have high
phone bills and we always get yelled at for it but we keep on calling each
other and hen we talk we talk for like 30 minutes most of the time!! well
what i am trying to say is that i love Clint and that is a good thing because
he treats me good even when he acts like we aren't going out and i will always
love Clint and i think i always ha e a piece of me heart that Clint is part
of!!! well i love Clint to much to put into words!! So clint if you read this
I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!!!!!!!!!! LOVE MISSY
Jenni - 07/12/99 00:44:38
My Email:jenni@nittanylink.com
From: pennyslyvaina
Degree of happiness: very happy
Thing you learnt with this story: you can find true love on the net!
Comments:
Love on the internet is just as great as in real life no matter how far the
2 are apart they are close at heart. Ok now i am going to tell you my story.
I was chatting and i met this really sweet guy so we went to a private room
and to my amazement he did t want to talk gross to me so for the next week
or to we became really close friends and then we learned that we were falling
in love slowly but it was happening.we didnt want to move fast because we
wanted it to work out so for a month we just were frien s talking and doing
friendly things. Then one night my best friend was staying with me at my house
and i was talking to him and she just wanted to say hi so i got up and was
talking to my gram and she was talking to him and they were talking about
me and im he told her "i don't know what it is i just feel really great around
her i just can't put it into words" and she asked him if he wanted to go out
with me and of course he did so he asked her to ask me out and of course i
said yes. To this day we talk a d we are still together and in the deepest
and most special love of my life. And i just want him to know that no matter
what i am always gonna be there I love yoU Jason F.
Matthew Acheson - 07/10/99 19:36:17
My URL:http://www.angelfire.com/pq/achy
My Email:achy_is@hotmail.com
Degree of happiness: I'm actually quite pissed off
Thing you learnt with this story: Some people.....!
Comments:
SMKDRGN - 05/17/99 13:13:29 From: planet suck-o Degree of happiness: none
of urdamn bussines Thing you learnt with this story: DONT TRUST ANYBODY Comments:
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS LOVE ON THE NET!! THOSE MOTHA FUCKIN CHATTERS JUST
THINK THAT LOVE IS ON THE NET BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST BUNCH OF DESPERATE LOVELESS
AND LOVETHIRSTY LOSER SCUMBAGS TRYING TO FINDE THEIR PAIRS ON THE NET BECAUSE
THEY COULDNT DO IT IN REAL LIFE. WHY? CAUSE THEY SUCK!! THEY ARE ONE OF THOSE
UGLIEST HUMAN BEINGS WITH THE WORST PERSONALITIES THAT EVER WALKED THE PLANET!
I wish to write a reply to this entry. BOLLOCKS! Just because you have never
experienced love doesn't mean you have to be so disparaging towards the idea.
And why is love on the net such an absurdity in your view? The internet is
just another way to m et people, a great fuckin load of people. And when I
say meet people I mean meet PEOPLE because on the internet you actually meet
real people. You don't fall for someone because they are attractive or they
flirt with you or offer you sex you fall in lov with them because you love
them, the person inside. The net is the perfect medium to meet people as who
they really are and therefore fall in love with them. You also claim that
people who fall in love on the net do so becayse they are losers and cannot
pull in real life. Hmmmmmm. Well I met my girlfriend on the internet. We both
have plenty of options in real life and we are both attractive looking people
Well I'm not so sure about myself but she certainly is and she says I am too!).
The reason we are together is because we are in love with the person inside.
I am sorry to see that some people have such a narrow and naive view of this
world. I feel for ou, whoever you are.
Dawn - 07/09/99 07:07:28
From: WY
Degree of happiness: 100% happy/sad
Thing you learnt with this story: Love is wonderful and sad!
Comments:
Hello Everyone, this is not the first time that I have written on here. But
I did want to say that the love I have have found on the internet is the best
love I think I would have ever found. I met him in December 98 and here it
is July 99 and I love hi even more. Every day I miss him everyday I am excited
when I get the chance to talk to him. He lives in Kansas and I am here in
Wyoming, it is soo hard to be so far away from him. After all we have met,
we know we love one another. He has met my pare ts and in just 3 days I will
get the privledge of meeting his. We both know that we will be together forever.
After all I tell him that I won't let him go, he is just sooo dang good. The
best man I have ever met and the best man that I think I will eve get to meet.
He is so wonderful, knows just want to say to make me want to cry, to love
him even more, and to be happy. He has done soo much for me, making me see
that I actually am a pretty good person and that I can find someone sooo wonderful
as him As it seems I have one year of college left and then I will be there
with him. To see how well we can start a life together, get him through school
so that we both can be what we have both wanted to be. Yet he doesn't know
that I think I have been wai ing for him for my whole life and well that I
am just soo happy being with him. He worries about money, and being able to
provide for me.. what a sweetie. All I can tell him is that well honey we
will figure it all out as long as we are together. I lov him with all of my
heart and he knows that. The sadness comes in due to the fact that we are
just soo far away and that when one of us is sad the other can't be there
to hold our hand and say it will be okay. But that will come. I just wish
you all ha piness whether you find love on the internet or in life, but all
I have to say is that I have found my soulmate and that we will be together...
And that I love you sooo much Travis. Wish you all luck and me luck as I am
going to get my stuff packed so I an go and spend 4 days with him and meet
his parents. Good luck to you all.. Travis I love you and see you soon.. :)
With love to my Travis.
Stephyy - 07/08/99 13:01:38
From: Europe
Degree of happiness: 99%
Thing you learnt with this story: Love is blind!
Comments:
April l999...i had my pc for just about 2months..and i chatted every day on
different chats. Once i decided to go on icq..and there i started chatting
with different people. But then...I started chatting with this guy. I liked
him right away...but after 2 hrs i had to go cause my friend was waiting for
me on another chat..i told him..and he asked me for the other address because
he didnt want to stop chatting with me. So.. i gave it to him..and he came
there. I got to know him better...but i didnt tell him i love you...we only
had met a few hours before. Then he had to go and i asked him if i'll ever
talk to him again.. I gave him my email address and the day after he sent
me an email. I sent him 1 back..and every day we met in the chat room. Our
love developed by time....we've know eachother for 3 months now....and we're
soo great together! I never met him yet cause he's in Canada..and I'm in Europe...but
i called him and i melted just by the sound of his voice! Someday we will
meet....hopfully very soon! (I cant wait). I cant even explain my love for
him...it's so great...I never felt the same way about anyone else..and I really
think that we will meet...and maybe even get married! Let's just hope we keep
our re ationship steady as it is right now! So....for all of you out there
who dont believe in love on the net,....believe me..it happens!
XXX - 07/04/99 20:00:39
My Email:sarajp78@hotmail.com
From: XXX
Degree of happiness: Impossible to describe...But it hurt too!
Thing you learnt with this story: Never search for true love it'll
come to you in time...
Comments:
We met on the net....I know it's f****** weird,but that's how it happened...It
took us one week to "get" together and we both understood we were meant to
be together right away...I went in that chat room and,although he never sent^private
messages to peop e,he started talking to me....The conversation started off
pretty boring and all I did was trying to cheer him up cos he was sick...I
was seriously thinking about stop talking to him cos he was so boring and
such a pain! BUT,suddenly,it became interesting,and I remember feeling this
little flame inside....It felt all warm and I KNEW he felt the same...I completly
freaked out,I couldn't believe I was feeling like this for a guy who was sooo
far away(he lives in the USA and I live in Europe) and who I had never SEEN!But
he understood me so well and I really felt like we had known eachother for
centuries! I tried to fight the feeling and I think he did too but we always
ended up together...This love is impossible for the moment and we had to break
up like 2 month ago(we stayed 7 months "together")..But although we both date
other people our love is still a strong as ever,we kept the contact...I know
this isn't a lie,I know I love him and we are gonna be together one day(he
says it's "written in the stars")I know we're young(16 both)and thinking about
spending the rest of our life together sounds stupid to ost of the adults
but I believe u can't never get enough of true love,even if u give ur entire
lifetime to it....For the moment we try to get satisfied with long phone calls
and long letters...I keep his picture with me all day and he keeps mine near
his ed,there is not one moment when he isn't with me,he's the light of my
life...I've never been hurt this bad,I've never loved somebody this strong
and I never will...Some people might think I'm so lucky I found him now,I
mean some people wait soo long to fi d their true love...(it always seems
too long anyway)I can tell ya! IT HURTS LIKE HELL!!!!But it's the most beautiful
feeling in the world,we are so far away from eachother but yet so close...Our
souls are bound together.. I had to let all this out! I LOVE YOU BIG JOHN!!!!!!!
Ur princess.
Erinn - 07/02/99 18:20:46
From: Canada
Degree of happiness: 100%
Thing you learnt with this story: Everything happens for a reason ,
everyone has one person who is their perfect match, their soul mate- I found
mine on the internet
Comments:
It all started for Sean and I in January of 99 when we met on Lycos Random
chat room. Our names were Skagbowl, and BlondeGem. We chatted about music
etc. He spoke about coming to Canada to work (he is from Australia) We wrote
back and foreth, this grew to letters, and phone. I was just finishing up
College I was about to graduate in 2 1 month I was stressing big time, all
the while he had planned on comming to visit for his vacation (He lives in
Australia) then I broke my ankle in April, 3 days before my 2 st birthday,
I found out on my birthday he was coming in May!!! I planned it all out where
we would stay etc. We spent 2 wonderful weeks together we fell straight in
love, I know he is my soul mate, he helped me through my recovery with my
ankle attended y Collge graduation with me and my family! I love sean with
all my heart and soul, It is now July and he is moving up here in Sept! I
think the hardest thing was saying goodbye and letting him go, but I I know
I will never have to live through it again, a we will be together always from
now on, Canada or Australia, no matter where we are as long as we are together!
Rebecca Graham - 06/30/99 05:10:56
My Email:Rebecca_Renae_98@yahoo.com
Degree of happiness: On Cloud Nine!
Thing you learnt with this story: How to find true love.
Comments:
Well it all happened in March of 1999. I was in a chat room on Yahoo, and
this guy came on asking for anyone near Lewisville, TX. Well I lived only
15 minutes away, so I messaged him. We talked for hours. We decided to meet,
and I have to admit I was cared to death. I took a friend of mine along because
I didn't know what would happen. Well as soon as I saw him, I knew that he
was special. We talked and talked, and not about anything special. We made
plans to see each other again shortly. Four mo ths later, we still are together,
hate being away from each other, and still talk for hours about nothing. We
are moving in together in August, and I can't wait. He's the greatest thing
to ever happen to me. I know that he's the one. The one that I wa t to give
my life to. The one to spend the rest of my life with. The one that I want
to continue to fall in love with every day. Things have happened so quickly
in these past months, but it feels like we've known each other for years.
Scott, I just wa t you to know that without you, I would be empty inside.
You are my everything, and I love you.
Danyel - 06/27/99 06:28:04
My URL:http://www.binkyboo.org
My Email:danyel_333@yahoo.com
From: Michigan
Degree of happiness: the happiest girl on chat
Thing you learnt with this story: that you can fall in love over the
internet and make it work,
Comments:
I met my soulmate Armen, in october of 1998. We met through a friend and we
decided to start talking. the more we talked online the closer we got as friends.
One day i decided to call him. After that day we spent hours a day on the
phone. From the time we woke up til the time we went to bed we were on the
phone. I started to fall in love with him. After about a month i finally got
the nerve to tell him how i felt. I got the best reply possible...he had fallen
in love with me too. not only were we best frie ds we were a couple..a happy
couple. We all went through crap from our friends about it not being a real
relationship because we had never met. but we both knew better. Finally in
April of 1999, we met. I Flew from Michigan to Cali for a week to see him.
e were both extremely nervous. I have never been so nervous in my life. That
was also the best week in my life. We knew as soon as we saw each other we
were soul mates. we fell in love all over again. we are still together and
planning our life together. e both have to finish school but next summer we
will live together, get married and be together forever...."and they lived
happily ever after, The End"
KAYLA - 06/16/99 22:02:26
My Email:puddin1299@webtv.net
Degree of happiness: I'm so very happy !!!!!
Thing you learnt with this story: I've learned that there are some
respectful men out there
Comments:
I met Tony in a chat room and we went out on a date to the movies one night
and now we are together. And we are very happy together. We just got back
from a trip to South Padre Island. We had the best time ever. Tony is the
best thing that has come into m life and i want to spend the rest of my life
with him. I LOVE YOU TONY!!!!!!!! YOUR SWEETHEART KAYLA
t E r E s a - 05/22/99 08:00:35
My URL:hTtp://wWw.tErEsa_loVes_aDriAn.cOm
My Email:c0olgal@yahoo.com
From: pLaNet of LoVe
Degree of happiness: WhAt yOu thOugHt woudLn't happEn, will haPpen....
Thing you learnt with this story: mirAcLes dO haPpeN...wHen yOu bElieVe
Comments:
When school started, I was put in a stupid class and the subjects that I didn't
like. I wanted to change but the teacher in charge wouldn't let me do so.
So I logde a complaint but no reply. A few days later, a guy came to my school.
He's a new student fr m somewhere in town. He was still in his old uniform
which is a different uniform from my school. So he was the center of attention
in school. My friends was talking about him all the time because he was good
looking. I didn't take it serious bacause I wa worrying about my studies at
that time. Later I changed to a better class with subject that I loved. That
new guy was in the same class with my friends. They fancied him too. They
found out his name was Adrian. They even found out his birthdate. Adrian b
rthday was quite near at that time and they were planning a party in his house.
They invited me but I din't want to go because I don't really know him. Adrian
was very friendly so those ppl he didn't knew, he'll still invite them. Adrian
himself told me o come. So I went there and it was great. Adrian was a great
guy. He's nice and friendly and very talkative. That's how I knew him. I liked
him very much then. Slowly my friends started to hate him because they say
he was a jerk but I didn't care. I tried to change him because I cared for
him. I always talked to him in person. He didn't have the slightest clue that
I liked him. He showed no response so I stop thinking and seeing him but I
can't. I guess maybe I liked him too much. I cried every night just o forget
about him. I do not want to love someone who is showing no response. A few
months later, my friends came to me and said that Adrian likes me!!! I didn't
believe them because I seldom talked to him but when he asked me to be his
girlfriend, i said yes! We are now a pair of happy couple. Very happy indeed.
I'm doing well in my studies and we keep no secrets between us. We were friends
once and that time, he told me he only like me as a friend (that time I thought
I had no chance with him) but now he said loves me... he bring flowers to
school for me. He's the most romantic guy I ever met and his voice on the
phone is so sweet. Actually a lot of girls envy me because I'm his girfriend.
hhaah . I'm kind of lucky. I thought miracles would never happen o me, but
I guess it did... :)
- 05/20/99 18:42:20
Degree of happiness: Sandra, marry me!
Thing you learnt with this story: ove is BEAUTIFUL!!!
Comments:
Sandra, I know you didn't expect me to propose to you at all, but I know you
visit this website alot, so I'm asking you to marry me. I want to make you
the happiest woman alive. (ps--I have your ring. See me soon!)
Andrea - 05/18/99 15:53:14
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Heartland/Lane/5166
My Email:weezie@netins.net
Degree of happiness: Extremely Happy
Comments:
I met my fiance, Jeff, in December of 1996. We met on the chat program mIRC.
We talked for hours and hours, day after day. I wasn't too sure about this
"net" thing and falling in love with someone that I had never met but the
more we talked and the more t at I found out about him, the more I knew that
I was beginning to feel something for him. I was already in a marriage, that
was not a healthy one for either my husband or myself. One day in January,
I had experienced a very traumatic event in my life; a g od life-long friend
had lost her daughter in a car accident and I was quite shaken up over this.
Jeff was amazing through all of this, talking to me, calling me to see how
I was etc. I knew after this that what I was feeling was definately love.
He had ex ressed his feeling for me before this but I had told him then that
I can't tell him that I loved him or anything like that because at that point
I didn't believe that I did. After the deathof my friend, things started changing
drastically between Jeff and I. We talked more and more and fell deeper and
deeper in love. We had alot of obstacles to overcome during our time of chatting
online but we overcame them all. We eventually ended up meeting each other
physically in May of 1997 and came to the US in June Our love for each other
has only grown since then and in July of 1998, we welcomed our child into
the world, Jared Murray. I used to sit back and envy women who found their
"soulmate" and pray for the day that I would meet mine. I was beginning to
believ that the day would never come but it did and I thank God everyday for
bringing Jeff into my life. Next to my children, he is the greatest gift that
I could of ever received. I feel truly blessed in what I have been given and
I cherish each and everyday t at we spend together. He has taught me what
it means to love and be loved in return. In closing, I just want to say that
not all relationships that are formed on the Net will have happy endings but
then again, meeting a mate the "normal" way doesn't guara tee happiness either.
I took that route once in my life and it never worked out for me. Meeting
Jeff and getting to spend the rest of my life with him has shown me just how
lucky I am. I love this man with all my heart and soul.
Megan - 05/18/99 00:25:35
From: USA
Degree of happiness: a whole bunch
Thing you learnt with this story: Don't give up
Comments:
I was starting to spend a lot of my time in a particular chatroom on IRC,
getting to know the regulars and all that. There was this one guy who I thought
was great from the first time I was there. There was just something that attracted
me to him, and I a ways wanted to be with him. Unfortunately he lived in the
US and I lived in Australia. We got to know each other on a friends basis
because he already had a girlfriend, and after about 6 months we knew each
other pretty well. His girlfriend and him broke p, and one night while we
were chatting he told me that he thought he could fall in love with me. I
told him how I'd felt all along, and from that point on things changed dramatically.
We chatted for hours every chance we had, and after 2 months I moved t the
US. I met him, and we got along great in person. He was everything I imagined
him to be. After 3 months we moved in together and got married. It's been
6 months since then, and we're still really happy. I'm glad he had the courage
to tell me how he felt, and I had the courage to trust a "stranger" like that.
True love is real, and no matter what the circumstances are, if it's meant
to be, things will work themselves out. Never give up on the things you w
nt, because you just might get them.
christina - 05/17/99 23:01:24
My Email:avanover433933s
From: christina
Degree of happiness: 99%
Thing you learnt with this story: love over the net
Comments:
well we met over the net and he is 16 and i am andme and him are going to
meet in 3years bye
Tacy - 05/17/99 21:06:43
Thing you learnt with this story: There ARE some really good guys out
there...
Comments:
One night I was on mIRC chatting and asked if there were any guys from my
area. Right away a few people messaged me back and we started talking. There
was one person in paticular who caught my attention. I didn't know what it
was, but I knew there was som thing different about him. I knew I had to keep
talking to him, and I couldn't let him go. So after chatting for awhile, we
ended up exchanging phone numbers. We talked on the phone for a couple months,
and I felt like I knew him forever. He was different than any other guy that
I knew. We got to know eachother really well, he became my best friend. We
both had feelings for eachother, but were afraid to say anything. One night,
we ended up saying everything. I loved him just as much as I do now. We have
be n together for over a year, and I am happier than I have ever been in my
whole life. He has changed me a lot. We have been through so much together.
Hopefully we will be together for a long time...maybe even our whole lives.
:)
Docker - 05/17/99 19:51:01
Degree of happiness: can`t explain
Comments:
Hi everyone I am really soooooooooo happy right now, I am meeting my girlfriend,
who I met on the net and I am in love with her sooooooooo much, we have met
before and we had soooooooo much fun togeather, and we will meet again this
friday, we are spendin 10 days together and I really can`t think of anything
better than this I love u soooooooooooo much Amy can`t wait to be with you
LOVE DOCKER
Sherri - 05/17/99 18:06:28
My Email:shecaprio@yahoo.com
Degree of happiness: 100%+
Comments:
Over the last year and a half I have been online, I have heard so many stories
of people meeting and finding "True Love" over the internet. I thought it
was all a bunch of baloney. I'm a 25 year old single mom, trying to raise
her daughter on her own. don't go out much. When I do meet people, they are
usually a friend of a friend. I have a hard time trusting men because the
ones I have known have never been able to keep the promises they have made.
My exhusband promised to be a father to my daughte , but when she reached
18 months old, he realized he just wasn't cut out for the 'daddy-thing'. He
wasn't ready to give up his extra spending money for diapers and baby clothes.
That was 2 1/2 years ago. I have been afraid to get involved with anyone b
cause I don't want my daughter to get attached to someone and have them leave
her when they decide the 'daddy-thing' isn't for them. I guess it is sort
of a catch-22. You don't take the risk..you don't get the rewards. Well, I
chat online at work..usually in Yahoo Trivia or Parents. I met this girl in
Trivia and we became good friends. She is about my age and married. I had
just moved back to Arizona from southern Illinois, and she was from Indiana.
(So I was fa iliar with where she lived) After talking to her for about a
month or so, she mentioned her cousin to me. Told me what a great guy he is,
etc etc. She thought we would really hit it off. I said thanks but no thanks.
I don't want to be set up. Especi lly with someone 1800 miles from me. One
night, while we were chatting, her cousin came online. She got us talking
and we both laughed at her because she's been telling him how great I am and
how much I am like him..and she's been tellig me how great he is. We got to
talking and added each other to our friends list. That was around the end
of February. I didn't try to impress him. I was my usual, slightly sarcastic
self. As we talked, I realized that if anything, I had found a good friend.
We agree on everything. Although we are so far apart, I can't believe how
much we think alike. We have the same morals, the same beliefs. Both of us
have been through pretty much the same experiences when it comes to looking
for that special someone. It is rea ly hard to find an honest, simple, thoughtful
person. Over time, we started talking on the phone and sending each other
presents. (He even sent me a Mothers day gift...lol..even my exhusband never
did that!) We exchanged pictures, and we talk every nig t on the phone. It
feels like he is just up the road...not way down the highway. He's 28, and
like I said I am 25. I think we were both a little leery at first, but because
we both know his cousin..that kind of eased our skepticism. I am flying out
to meet him next week. I am a little nervous. The greatest thing about meeting
someone online is this : I have been talking with him almost 3 months now.
I think I know a lot about him..enough about him that I trust him. Talking
online/telephone gave me the chance to get to know his personality without
my daughter having to meet him. If things don't work out...she never knew
who he was. I never tell people online what I look like..am I single..and
I would have never told him had I not known his cousin irst. Because his cousin
and I had talked on the phone, and she seemed like such a great person (honest,
educated funny) I trusted her judgement. She couldnt have been more right.
I have never met anyone like my guy. He's honest, straight forward, funn ,
thoughtful, and he respects my wishes about not meeting my daughter. (Even
though he really wants to) If things go as well as I hope next weekend, he
is flying out here June 10th. And I am going back to Illinois to see family
in July and I will go up and see him..maybe even let him meet my daughter
then.) I don't think everyone can find true love online because you never
know who you are really talking to. If I hadn't know his cousin, I wouldn't
have been so open with him. But I do believe there ar honest, good hearted
people out there. Dating is so hard. Especially if you are a single parent.
My daughter is only 4..and she gets so attached to anyone. She thinks everyone
is her friend. I am thankful that I have had this opportunity to get to k
ow someone without spending too much time away from her. If this works out..I'll
repost a new story. If it doesn't..I'll let ya know too. Good luck to all
those seeking love. An extra pinch of good luck to the single parents.
VM - 05/17/99 16:10:36
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/southbeach/docks/8416
My Email:bonjour_marie@hotmail.com
From: West Virginia
Comments:
I met my boyfriend in December after we'd been together online for 4 months.
It was an interesting trip, complete with me getting lost in Manhattan China
Town and getting my car stolen a week later, but it was definitely worth it.
I had a blast with him and I'm going back in June.
Lost Soul - 05/17/99 14:57:45
Degree of happiness: uncontrollably....
Thing you learnt with this story: never give up....
Comments:
jezz...i dont know how to begin but all i can say is im crazy about this one
particulary stubborn guy...and i call him the THE LEGEND...for me anyway...never
thought we've come this far..after endless days and nights of fighting and
arguments i still want him so bad....its gonna take awhile before i could
have him all to myself..but i know in my heart he is mine to keep forever
i hope he feels the same way too... it was a very difficult beginning for
us...i guess opposite attracts...cant put into words how i feel about him...but
i can sum it up in just three words.....I LOVE HIM ...and will always love
him...
SMKDRGN - 05/17/99 13:13:29
From: planet suck-o
Degree of happiness: none of urdamn bussines
Thing you learnt with this story: DONT TRUST ANYBODY
Comments:
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS LOVE ON THE NET!! THOSE MOTHA FUCKIN CHATTERS JUST
THINK THAT LOVE IS ON THE NET BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST BUNCH OF DESPERATE LOVELESS
AND LOVETHIRSTY LOSER SCUMBAGS TRYING TO FINDE THEIR PAIRS ON THE NET BECAUSE
THEY COULDNT DO IT IN REAL LIFE. WHY? CAUSE THEY SUCK!! THEY ARE ONE OF THOSE
UGLIEST HUMAN BEINGS WITH THE WORST PERSONALITIES THAT EVER WALKED THE PLANET!
xex - 05/16/99 04:50:56
Degree of happiness: up your's
Thing you learnt with this story: Happiness is a mental disorder syndrome
Comments:
You freaks are so ignorant. You bunch of audascious freaks. You maniacs. You
retards should really see what the world is really like, all chaos and atrophy..
You guys can fry in hell. I hate your living guts and I wanna smash your brains
out and break your ugly faces. Happiness is a crime. There is no "God".
michael - 05/12/99 22:54:26
From: nyc
Degree of happiness: my heart overflows
Thing you learnt with this story: never let fear stop you from love
Comments:
oh bye the way i left something out from my story. I want the world to know
that when the time is right i will ask my love (Alex) to marry me
michael - 05/12/99 19:32:43
From: nyc
Degree of happiness: unbelievable
Thing you learnt with this story: when this good dont question why
Comments:
well my love story started in a chat room, dont remember which one but thats
not important. we both traded pictures and dont believe either one of us knew
what was about to happen. I believe it took a day or two to realize what was
happening to the both of us. and before we both knew it we were in love with
each other. Myself never questioned why because that is not important, it
just is. She is the most beautiful woman i have ever had the fortune to fall
in love with. she is sensative beyond belief, honest as the wind, and at times
so child like all i want to do is k ss her to death. we have become the best
of friends and the strength we both need to make it thru our days. so to my
love Alex i love you so much and will do my best to make you very happy. your
are my pisser and i am ur nyc wild man
Pegy BD - 05/09/99 15:42:47
My Email:vai_peg@lovemail.com
From: Australia
Degree of happiness: euphoria!
Thing you learnt with this story: Love like there's no tomorrow!!
Comments:
I used to be quite sceptical about finding love on the internet, often laughing
at those who had claimed they'd found it. I didn't even take the time to wonder
how one could justify attraction through words and promises on a screen rather
than by sight. t all seemed too unrealistic...Until the day Oloan walked into
my world. Yes it is true, I am eating my words, in a big way...You see, I
have found my true love...This virtual love, as they say, now rules my world...I
went into this eyes wide open, no intentions or expectations...and I have
come out feeling something I had nev r ever dreamt of! What I have felt with
him couldn't be expressed with words, in fact many hours have been spent pondering,
trying to explain my feelings for him...Love...adoration...?? yes true, but
it goes much deeper and unfortunately unless you can de ve into my heart and
see it for yourself, you will never know exactly how deep my love for Oloan
goes. Never did I imagine I would meet one who could make me smile merely
with one word...Never did I expect I would meet one who accepted me for me,
and tak with him my silly little insecurities as though he loved them as they
were a part of me! He once said that I made loving so easy, I guess in some
ways this is true, as true love is something that I believe cannot be denied.
Nothing can stand in it's way. .even life's little obstacles and minor setbacks
are no competition for a love this grand, as it rises above all and shines
on those that feel it...so yes it certainly is easy loving him too, it is
the most natural thing I have encountered yet! Whether I met him in the real
world or the way I did, I cannot find any explanation apart from fate. He
belongs in my life. Dive deep, O mind, dive deep in the ocean of God's beauty!
If you descend to the uttermost depths, there you will find the gem of love~Bengali
Hymm Even a modern day romance discovered in the 'real' world isn't always
necessarily true, or pure...but in my heart I know that what we have found,
Oloan and I, is love! Oloan my sweetheart, I used to dream of a fairytale
romance but what I have found with ou is all my dreams and much, much more...Now
the sun shines brighter, the birds chirp louder, the scent of life smells
much much sweeter! oh I have nothing to be afraid of in fact, nothing feels
more right then loving you...Like I say darling, let's lov like there's no
tomorrow!
Daniel - 05/08/99 05:56:28
Degree of happiness: ovewelming
Thing you learnt with this story: love love and more love
Comments:
well it started out by just a simple hello she was geart we stayed up and
talked all night about our dreams are hopes like kids house dog married single
sky diveing i read her some of my poetry it was great and we had converation
with just emotions and th n she left :( right after she left i sad i love
you and she did not get it next day we did the same thing i met her firend
she met some of my old g/f wewere haveing fun and jokeing and i finly asked
her out she said i thought you would never ask and then (just hight lighting
now) i ask her to marrie me see said yes i was happy and over joyed even well
this sounds normal right boy meat girl boy fall in love they get marrie right
wrong well this would be a normal story but she is 14 and i am 14 all so and
she lives in canaida and i ive in texas and so i come up there to see her
all by my self and i for got my passport now i am getting one made and it
will be reddy a june 5 and so i am going meat the woman i love for the first
time soon i hope and i am just tooooooo happy she has sen me a pic she is
the most beatiful creture on this planet she is smart funny sweet the list
goes on and on and she make me sooo happy and she nevre seeace to amaze me
i love her so much and i would give the wourld to her if it was mine to give
well ash - wink- peaches- phycie-kinky-the woman i love much love from daniel
Jen - 05/06/99 17:27:09
Degree of happiness: 1-10 I give a 10!
Thing you learnt with this story: Never give up!!!
Comments:
I answered C's personal ad on the computer. I started writing to him in July
of "98", in August we finally met (Aug 22,98) He lived in Fargo and I lived
in Bismarck. He came to Bismarck every other weekend and got a hotel room
and I stayed with him. We ta ked every day on the phone, and every night before
going to bed. At the end of September he asked me to move in with him because
he hated being away from me and only seeing me for 2 days every other weekend.
So I said yes. I moved to Fargo October 16 of 9 , only knowing him for 4 months.
Things have been going great for us ever since and we plan on getting married
August 19, 2000. Thanks for reading my story.......J in Fargo
Aura - 05/04/99 05:56:01
From: Australia
Degree of happiness: 100% +
Thing you learnt with this story: Corny as it is, fate exists.
Comments:
I saw him a few times in channels on IRC, and he interested me. Over the weeks
I began to talk to him, he was aloof at first, a prior IRC friendship had
turned him off contemplating the idea of meeting a woman online. I persisted,
and after a couple of mo ths, we realized something very special had developed
between us. For nine months we spoke to one another, almost every night, and
all during weekends, we were so right for each other it seemed, though we
both felt hesitant about meeting. We continued to hone each other, e-mail
from work, e-mail from home, and keep our romance alive. In late January,
1999 I flew across the country to meet him, and it was perfect. No awkwardness
existed between us, and we spent a wonderful week together. Two months later
h flew to see me, another wonderful week was had, and he proposed to me. Come
the middle of the year, I am moving in with him, and we both cannot wait!
:D So there's a little more proof that true love can be found in a chat room.
;)
Dawn - 04/28/99 06:48:33
Degree of happiness: 100% in love
Thing you learnt with this story: Love is wonderful!
Comments:
Hello everyone, I am the Dawn before this one too. I just had to say excuse
me because I messed up my days. The date I started talking to the love of
my life is on December 9th rahter than that of the 25th. But I do want to
say that love is the most wo derful feeling ever and that he is my love. And
that I hope he knows I will be here for the rest of our lives. I love him
soo much. And if I can find love on the internet so can everyone else.. I
love you Travis. Thank you for messaging me on December 9th. I love you soo
much.. Hugs and Kisses.
Dawn - 04/27/99 06:53:32
Degree of happiness: 100% in love
Thing you learnt with this story: That there is someone out there for
me. And well I found him on the internet.. And well WOW!!
Comments:
I have been talking to the most wonderful guy named Travis, since December
25, 1998. He is the best person I have ever had the previlege to talk to and
meet. He means so much to me and he helps me in so many ways. He has shown
me that there is a soul m te for me out there, because he is mine. We met
in March and since then everything has been even better, which is hard to
believe because I thought I had it pretty good with him to begin with. He
is the best man I have ever met, the more I talk to him t e more I fall in
love with him. The more I help him and try to make him feel better when he
is down, makes me want to just be with him right now. Our only problem is
that we live so far away from each other. But we have a glimer of hope ahead,
I will b done with school in one more year and he will be done in a year and
a half. And then we both know that we will be together finally. These are
the best feelings I have ever experienced. My heart is sooo in love with him,
he is everything that I have ev r wanted and I am so glad that I have met
him. I know he knows how much I love him and I hope he knows that I have this
feeling that we will be together for the rest of our lives. Trust me people
there is a chance of love out there. And well I just wan you to all know that
I have the best man that I could ever want and I want him to know that I love
him. And I will end this now since I know it is getting long, but before I
go I want to tell the man I love something. Thank you so much Travis, for
mess ging me that first night. Thank you for helping me through my troubles
and being here for me. And I thank you for allowing me to love you with all
of my heart and for you loving me back. It is the best thing that has ever
happened to me, and I know it ill always be the best thing. Because I know
we will be together always to help each other through everything. Love you
millions Travis, hugs and kisses. And to everyone else, good luck and I hope
you find someone as good as Travis. :)
Jen - 04/14/99 01:39:10
My Email:hoodrat24@hotmail.com
From: Missouri
Degree of happiness: Pure Love
Comments:
I just wanted to say is that true love can be found. I never thought that
that I would find anyone after my first love. My first love hurt me physically,and
emotionally. I never thought that Brian and I would have ever been together.
We were friends for some time and then it just seemed to grow into a beautiful
dream. A dream that came true. And now as I look back I'm so happy to have
fallen in love.
Travis - 04/05/99 17:07:38
Degree of happiness: 100% Happy
Thing you learnt with this story: you can find your soul mate on the
computer it doesn't matter how you met them it's that you did
Comments:
I have been depressed ever since I came into college. I never thought I would
find anyone who really would understad me and who I could truly connect with.
I have had my computer since October. One day someone showed me how this wonderful
program calle ICQ. I began to talk to random people but not truly connecting
with them. Then one day I decided to talk to a women who lives in the same
town as my brother. So I looked in the white pages for a women my age who
lived in Casper, Wyoming. Well the fir t person I seen who seemed interesting
was this person with the screen name of Homey. I thought hmmm that is an interesting
name. I knew only a few things about her. That she was a female, 21, and where
she lived. Well the very first time I talked to er she made me feel better.
I had lost a school report that night and was bummed she just made me feel
so much better about it. We started talking and found out that we had so many
things in common . We even had the same major in school and both were s y
and sweet people on top of many other things that we share. That was December
9 and I have been talking to her for an average of 4 hours per day. I decided
to see her for my spring break which was the best time I ever had it felt
like the whole thing as meant to be. She was the exact same way in person
as on the computer. And she also came and visited me for her spring break
to and we got even closer. We continue to talk for hours on end and both feel
that we are our soul mates and will be together for life. She is 650 miles
away but after we both get out of school we will be together for the rest
of our lives. As the saying goes love finds you when you least expect. I have
heard of this going on but you never would imagine it happening to you. ut
I am soooo glad it did.
Lorraine - 04/03/99 00:32:16
Degree of happiness: 95%
Thing you learnt with this story: it can happen to anyone
Comments:
It was almost a year ago to this day that I went into a chat room, my first
week with my new computer. There was only one person there, and we started
to talk. Over the course of a year, we have been slowly getting more and more
involved with one another, telling eachother everything about our lives. I
realised, maybe three months into our very intense discussions, that I was
begining to fall in love with him (Before this, I could not believe that anyone
could find something like this on line). I told him how I felt, and he told
me he felt the same way. My god, if I think about the money I have spent trying
to see him, the phone bills.... it makes me crazy. But he is going to move
to me, he is going to move 3,000 miles to be with me, and I have never been
happier in my life. And one other thing, today he propsed to me. I am still
in great shock. He is my soul mate, and without our computers, we never would
have met. I was never looking for this, I never thought this could happen.
Sometimes love just kinda creeps up on ya. I am with him for the rest of my
life. I wish he were here right now, but I only have a couple months to go
(damn, it's
Kinni - 03/28/99 22:36:48
From: Pennslyvania
Degree of happiness: too happy to explain
Thing you learnt with this story: You can find love on the net
Comments:
Hi, some of you may remember me. I wrote about Ben and myself meeting on the
net and that we were going to meet in person during my spring break. Well,
spring break has been over for about 2 weeks now. And I had such a good time
while I was with him. e met me at the airport. I was so incredibly nervous.
But he reassured me that he was the same person I talked to on the phone.
We drove home and I met his family and what not. They all welcomed me with
open arms. I never felt so much love from peopl I didn't know in my entire
life. We spent the evening talking and all that "couple stuff". It seemed
so natural too. It's like we had known each other for our whole life. The
next day we spent walking around town. I felt to protected by him. He was
ike my knight in shining armor. I spent the entire week with him. We had so
much fun. He showed me things I never had seen before. And what made me the
happiest is that he accepted me for who I was, not for what I looked like.
And I did the same for im. It was great because he turned out to be a hottie
anyway. I had to leave Sunday the 14 to come back home. The entire week he
kept saying that he wanted to marry me. As I was packing the rest of my things
up, he said it again. So in reply, I said All you have to do is say 4 words."
He got on his knee, put a ring on my finger, and said, "Will you marry me?"
Of course I said "YES" And we hugged each other. So, I guess the moral of
the story is, "Not all bad things come about from meeting some one n the net.
There are actually decent people out there. You just have to search in the
right places." We are planning on getting married after I finish college.
moraima vallejo - 03/23/99 20:47:35
My URL:http://vineland@mail.
org. com
My Email:vineland@mail. org.
com
From: vineland, new jersey
Degree of happiness: together forever and never broke up.
Thing you learnt with this story: about romance and hold.
Comments:
hey, hi my name is moraima and i'm 17 years old and i'm in 10 th grade and
i am from vineland, nj. so, i have boyfriend and his name is carlos r. rodriguez
and we together about a month and we love eachother so much and we are no
plm,so, i just wants to know about romance and hold and never broke up, i
just know that all i just asking you a question and you can e-mail from me
in my school and my adress is: VINELAND@MAIL. ORG. COM. I JUST WANTS TO KNOW
THAT ALL ABOUT EVERYTHINGS. so, i have to go now cause i am busy. please write
me back as email, please... thanks you, moraima.
sad eyes - 03/18/99 16:02:53
From: planet earth
Comments:
what about your own story?
Oloan Bienvenido - 03/13/99 08:20:44
My Email:Apollon@thedoghousemail.com
From: Michigan
Degree of happiness: COUNT THE WAVES!!!!
Thing you learnt with this story: unconditional love
Comments:
There was a time when I held my heart in stillness, motionless. I held it
strong and cold. It is the kind of stillness where everything within its environment
does not make a single movement. The kind of stillness where it separates
my feelings into their places. And it was just me cause I had resigned to
living alone and loving only myself. Only God knows what may come into my
path. And on this momentous day, we talked a little through the net. It was
really funny how we got along well when not too long before, we could not
stand each other's sights. Slowly, with her gentleness and assuring ords,
she opened my very soul and my eyes to a whole new life. Oh, I should have
known what was in store for me. God had brought her into my life when it was
clouded in a haze of my past. I thought there would never be a really passionate
love in my life, hope had grown dim, and suddenly, there she was, showing
me what my heart could not see, and I have not been the same since. And now,
those little dreams I manifested are becoming real, every little thing makes
sense for me. A wise man said once "A person is not fit to live if he has
found nothing on this earth worth dying for. As weird our relationship can
be cause we are yet to meet each other, I dare to say that I would do anything
for her. Peggy, if you are reading this, words can't tell you the full dimension
of how I feel. I love all the laughters, the understanding and the fact that
so much about us are touching so closely and perfectly together. I love the
tenderness you give only to m and me alone. And words can't do no justice
to tell you how I've grown to love you more and more. My life could not be
as wonderful without you. And if you ever wonder where you are at in my life,
you are at the center of my very heart that now back in m tion generated by
your love. Hopefully, as I am counting the days, we will meet in May when
she comes here to see me. Till that moment arrives, I can only wish that every
month is May.
Ben - 03/12/99 23:05:22
My Email:bencloutier@hotmail.com
Degree of happiness: Estatic
Thing you learnt with this story: Love comes in different shapes and
forms
Comments:
On March 5th 1999 my life has permantely been changed:) I met the woman of
my dreams and how she has made be a better person personality wise:) When
we first met we hugged each other and from that moment on everything has blossomed
to total Love and equality:) I feel that she is the sweetest person in the
world. She Loves me unconditionally as I Love her the same. We both never
thought that the n t would bring us together but here we are sitting next
to each other i Love her so much that I plan to marry her in two or three
years. We have already made plans for the summer to be together to see what
it will be like if were together for a long time. think it will be a very
lasting relationship and so far out of the three months the biggest problem
(how small it is) is how much I swear. She has made me not swear as much which
is good but i have alos told her that she is very beautiful which took 18
y ars for someone to finally tell her that. She means the world to me and
always will be my fuzzy wuzzy teddy bear. i will always cherish how special
she is to me and I Love her to death.
Bastard - 03/07/99 17:40:26
My Email:beboi@yahoo.com
From: Canada
Degree of happiness: Extreme
Thing you learnt with this story: Knowing each other allows love to
follow
Comments:
Well I had my computer for about a year and a half and had been chatting throughout
that time. I met alot of interesting, weird, sad, people on the net, the whole
spectrum I had even made a few friends online that i enjoyed chatting with
but never had any desire to meet or for the most part even give my email address
too, Well that changed without me even knowing it. I was in a sports chat
on Yahoo one day when I noticed someone chatting to someone else and this
guy was giving her a hard time, she was just being a smartass and so naturally
I was a smart ass back well she called me a Bastard and I knew I liked this
persons sense of humour right away. We ended up talking for hours that first
night just cutting up, The next day I couldnt wait to chat with her gain and
i got online as soon as I got back from work, well that started a great friendship,
it was refreshing to talk to someone who wasnt hitting on me asking me how
I looked, if I was single etc. I really only chatted as a fun thing, not as
a way to me t people. Well we always chatted for hours on end and eventually
we started talking on the phone, Right off we talked on the phone like we
chatted and I was enchanted with her voice. Well we talked for many weeks
finding the things we had in common but be t of all just having a fun time,
and then I realized I was falling for this woman who lived thousands of miles
away, in a different country. We got to the point finally where we were curious
about how we each looked and she sent me her picture first, she as very nervous
as was I. I knew i was in love with her and when I got her picture I fell
more in love with this gorgeous woman who was beautifull inside and out. This
left only meeting in person left to see if we clicked in person or were as
attracted to each other in person as we have been over the computer,phone,
and pictures. Well when she came through the doors at the airport and I saw
her smile in person my insides melted and I knew I was a Goner. Its been hard
being so far apart but we have spent al t of time together and everday I have
known her I have fallen more in love with her, everday I like her more and
we continually learn more about each other and what we mean to each other.
She is my bestfriend, my love, my girl and i do see the other half f my soul
in her when i look into her eyes, see her smile, feel her touch hear her voice.
My Advice to other people dont look for love so hard be patient, take the
time to become friends with someone see if you like them first then follow
your heart it wi l take you to unexpected places.
Christy - 03/07/99 09:17:29
My Email:bunker73_01@yahoo.com
From: U.S.A.
Degree of happiness: Cannot be described in words
Thing you learnt with this story: That I found the other half of my
soul
Comments:
I had just gotten a computer and was a virgin chatter when one day in a sports
chat room in Yahoo! there was someone that caught my attention. I had no idea
if this person was male or female, but was interested because of where I thought
this person live and our common interest in hockey. Once I realized it was
a guy, I flirted a bit in chat, but nothing too extreme. Our conversations
were not your typical ones where we were trying to get intimate with one another.
We didn't ask what the other looked ike or any of that senseless stuff that
people seem so involved with on the internet. Any way we chatted for several
hours and just had a great time joking around. His sense of humor was what
I really liked about him. I thought this guy would be so coo to hang out with,
but he lived in another country 2,000 miles away. (Like we would ever meet!)
Well, I wasn't sure if he would be back online the next night, but I took
a chance and was about to give up on him after I saw that he wasn't online
for some time. Finally, he sent me a PM and we began chatting. For some reason
I was so excited that he had got online. We still weren't interested in the
physical aspects of one another nor any facts other than just things we had
in common. Was very nice not eing asked what my measurements were. We began
chatting on Tuesdays and Thursdays in April when we first met online and we
spoke on the phone...I made the first call. We both have accents so right
we were amused by that. Trying to make a long story sho t...I flew up to see
him for his 30th birthday in August, but had planned the trip for months (was
eternity). He would email me love quotes or song lyrics from love songs every
day...I figured this guy was too good to be true. Much to my surprise I fell
in love with him (although I did not want to) before we met in person. This
man confided things in me, opened up to me, cared about what I had to say,
etc. The list is endless. I feared that even though we had exchanged photographs
we might be a disapp intment to each other. I couldn't have been more wrong.
The night before I flew up to see him, I cried and said this could change
it all after tomorrow and the risk of not having in my life scared the hell
out of me, but I knew that we had to take the n xt step. Fortunately, I worked
up the nerve to get on that plane. I will tell you that we were both careful,
it is scarey to meet someone you meet over the computer (which I almost let
that destroy any relationship with him at one point because of my fe rs).
When I came through the doors at the airport, he was wearing the hockey jersey
that he told me he wanted to give to me because it was his favorite. I couldn't
get to him fast enough. We hugged for about 10 minutes, he just shook, he
was so nervous He once told me in chat that in his philosophy class that someone
like Freud believed that everyone has 1/2 of a soul and it spends it's whole
life searching for the other half and I told him that I believe that the eyes
are the windows to the soul and hen I looked into those beautiful, blue eyes,
I knew that we were both correct. I found the other half. We spent a glorious
4 days together...talking, dining, walking, hiking, dancing, kissing, etc.
It was a romantic 4 days for sure. We have been apar for weeks and together
for periods of days or weeks since then and the time we spend together only
gets better and better. I am with him now physically, but our communication
is on the same level it was on the internet, which we have that to be thankful
for. It gives you nothing but communication and what beautiful thing that
is (thank God for computers and Bill Gates). I love him with all my heart
and soul and this man is like no other man that I have ever known. It's like
I had a dream about a perf ct man for me and one day there he was before me
in a chat room. I am so lucky to have found him. I feel happy, I feel excited,
and I feel loved when I am with him and even when we are apart. Miles cannot
keep your heart from one another...it is shared no matter how far apart we
may be and no border can decrease my feelings for you, My love, My life, My
guy.
Nadya - 03/06/99 02:48:53
My Email:monalisa000@yahoo.com
From: USA
Degree of happiness: very happy
Thing you learnt with this story: love for friends!
Comments:
Well.. i donno how to start this.. but i just felt like telling my story.
I am not a very big believer on net and meeting people in person that i met
on the net. I am very careful, and cautios. Oh.. and i am 15.. soon to be
16.. so a year ago.. in fact a ear and a day ago.. i was on the net.. somewhat
bored.. and i met this guy on the net.. we started to talk.. and then he had
to go.. and we started to mail each other... the e-mails got so long that
it would take me an hour to respond.. to say the least, e learned a lot about
each other. And today.. we are good friends.. and i am loving having Sam (his
name) as a friend. He is absolutely great. I would love to meet him in person,
but he lives in Europe and i live in the US... its too bad.. but we both bel
eve and know that the Atlantic Ocean is not a big obstacle.. :) In any case..
i think its still dangerous to meet people on the net.. there are weirdo's
out there.. but Sam, is just different.. i can completely trust him.. and
i can say that i love him.. in many ways.. but true friendships know no boundaries...
Hope you enjoyed reading.. and if you have quesions or comments mail me at
monalisa000@yahoo.com :) Nadya
Shanna - 03/02/99 21:50:09
My Email:jingrsnapp@aol.com
From: Virginia, USA
Degree of happiness: Very promising!
Thing you learnt with this story: Make it happen...
Comments:
I was new to the area and because of my hectic schedule, putting a personal
ad through Yahoo seemed to be a good way of meeting new friends. Little did
I know I would get that and more. I received a response back from a man that
lives about 3 hours away. lthough I never imagined it would lead to anything
more than an online relationship, I responded. We corresponded through emails
for about a week and then started chatting on line. On Valentine's Day, we
spoke on the phone. He wanted to meet me and I want d to meet him so we made
plans to see each other the next weekend. I knew that we could not have a
"traditional" date so I reserved a room for him at a very nice hotel in the
city. We had planned to meet in the coctail lounge first. The moment I saw
him, was overjoyed. We had a couple hours to converse before we had to leave
for dinner. To make a long story short, we blissfully spent the entire weekend
together. The moment he left to go home, I deleted my personal ad from Yahoo.
The next day, I noticed h deleted his as well. It has been two weeks since
we have seen one another and he will be visiting me again this weekend. So
far, it looks very promising. But I won't lie to you, it is not easy having
a long distance relationship. This is what I have lear ed from my experiences
and if you don't mind, I would like to share my thoughts with you... When
you develop an online relationship, make very sure that the relationship has
the potential to become "life like" if the both of you want that. I know how
e sy it can be to develop feelings with someone you have never met, however,
keep in mind that being away from the one you love hurts and is very difficult.
Complete trust and the absensce of jealousy must be applied to ensure a healthy
long distance relati nship. Sometimes these relationshops can hurt more than
losing the person altogether. If you have the ability to meet then do it immediately.
If you have difficulty making plans for the first meeting, imagine how difficult
it can be to make plans for the econd and the third! My last piece of advice
to you is this...BE CAREFUL. No matter how much you think you know this person,
you must watch out for yourself. Ask many questions and follow up on them
whenever possible. If they are reluctant to give you pe sonal information,
then something is not right. If they tell you are being paranoid or they lay
the guilt trip on you that you don't "trust" them, walk away. If this person
truly cares about you and your well being, they will respect your feelings
and und rstand why you are being so cautious. Call them at home, call them
at work, ask for their home address (maybe one day you would like to send
a nice handwritten letter), question inconsistancies if they happen to appear.
There are alot of people out there or you to meet...don't risk your own safety
at the expense of hurting someone's feelings. I honestly believe that on line
relationships can work. In fact, I feel sorry for the people who don't share
that same belief. Meeting someone on line first gives yo more of an opportunity
to know the person for WHO they really are and not what they LQQK like. When
you do finally meet, you will have a deeper understanding and respect for
one another. I am looking forward to reading more of the happy love stories....t
e sad love stories are very upsetting. Take care, good luck and BE SAFE. <3
Shanna (Can't wait to see you again Charlie!!)
wendy - 02/28/99 07:26:05
From: Singapore
Degree of happiness: truly 100% happy
Thing you learnt with this story: that true love exists on the net
Comments:
It's really fate that has brought us together as i was surfing in the same channel
on irc late one night when i felt bored and he invited me to join his channel...we
started off as cyber steads and were quite lovey-dovey oreadi at that stage...and
i felt hat he could make one lovely and caring boyfriend so i was really curious
as to how he looked like too...as i hope that he can really be my boyfriend
if his looks isnt too way off my expectations (looks does matter abit to me
i admit)So on the night we m t, things turn out quite well and we went steady
abt two weeks later after the 2nd outing.It was then that we realised that we
had tok to each other several months b4 on the net using another set of nicknames
and he even sent me his fotos!Thou 11 months h d past, our love is still goin
veri strong and even getting closer by the day and i feel very very lucky to
have a boyfriend who does not only mind going shopping but even gave me valid
opinions on dressing up, cooks dinner for me, listen to my naggings a d complaints,
and giving in to my girly tantrums all the time...he is truly my friend, lover,
mother, father ..u noe wat i mean..so all that i wanna say to him,Francis Tan,
is that i love him whole-heartedly (100%) and really hopes to be Mrs Tan ..:)
Amy - 02/27/99 07:46:10
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Paris/Cafe/5143/
My Email:beth@borg.com
From: Upstate NY
Degree of happiness: 100% and then some
Thing you learnt with this story: You never find love when you look for
it, it finds you when you are ready
Comments:
There is a funny thing about love. I married a guy I had dated in High School.
I thought we would be happy, we had always been when we were younger, but it
wasn't to be. We married as I said, but were soon there after divorced. I had
moved back home f om Frewsburg, NY where he and I had been living to be with
my family again. My parents had a comp and I used it to chat with. Then my sister,
whom I lived with, bought one and I was addicted from that day to this. While
chatting, I met someone in a rol playing room, and we chatted constantly. Some
times from 11:00pm (EST) until 5:00 or 6:00am (EST). Needless to say, we were
really getting to know one another. There was one problem. He lived in Georgia,
and I in NY. One night however while chatting with him, he told me that he was
there in the army. When I asked him where he was really from, he told me a small
town in NY. He had no idea where I was really from, so I figured he would have
no reason to make that up. Come to find out, he grew up abo t 45 minutes from
me. I had even driven through his hometown every weekend on my trips to and
from visiting my parents. I was amazed. So was he. When he came home to visit
before being shipped off to Korea, I got to meet his family and he mine. Now
w en he gets home in 85 more days, we are going to be married. I can hardly
wait to see him again, let alone be his wife. I love him with all my heart and
soul.
Katherine - 02/27/99 06:14:43
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/Tokyo/Palace/8466
My Email:snuluvdj26@hotmail.com
From: New Jersey
Degree of happiness: words can't explain how i feel
Thing you learnt with this story: to love someone so far, and yet so
close
Comments:
to make this short, i live in new jersey, he (khanda) lives in washington state.
the distance between us doesn't hide our closeness to each other. i only know
him for about 2 months at the max, and yet i feel like i can't live without
him. yes, we are onl friends, but i love him and he loves me. it's one of those
people who come every so often to change ur life forever. and khanda is one
of those. whatever he tells me brings a smile to my face. even when he does
those cute lil smiles makes me laugh. and h can say things like "Aww look at
that. It was rainy, but when you smiled, it's sunny." that makes me happy on
end. it's the little things he does that makes me happy and what makes me love
him. he may not be the cutest person in the world, but meeting people online
lets u show urself to someone for what's on the inside irst. khanda is one of
the sweetest people on the earth and i love him to death. never would i let
go of someone like him. ~katherine "I could love anyone, no one says I cant.
I'm the only one who can say that but then I shouldn't lie to my heart." "No
one can control love." "What cannot hurt you will only make you stronger." "Don't
be afraid to tell him that you love him. He just may love you back." "Romantic
love may not be forever, but true love is."
Josh - 02/27/99 04:15:12
My URL:http://www.angelfire.com/oh/JoshAndAmy
From: Ohio
Degree of happiness: Very Happy
Thing you learnt with this story: On the internet you can learn more
about a person, and I now know what love is, I found it
Comments:
I met "Tommy Girl" (Amy) on Amanda's Table in April of 1998. I sent her a message
just looking to talk to people. We talked for awhile and we liked the conversation
and exchanged emails and planned to meet on the chat room a few days a week.
We exchang d emails back and forth quite a bit. The night of her prom in May
we stayed up until about 6 am just talking. That's the night that I really realized
that I liked this girl alot. I called her around that time and she has the cutest
voice in the world. A few weeks later I asked her to be my net-girlfriend, and
she said yes. We've had our doubts and problems in the first few months of the
relationship and broke up a few times. We've been together for quite some time
now and our relationship is stronger than ever now. We're deeply in love with
eachother. I asked her to marry me in November and she said yes, we're engaged!:)
We're planning to meet in April of 1999, and i'm going to her prom with her.
I can't wait to meet her, it will be the happiest d y of my life. We have so
much in common, we were born on August 24, 1982 she was born 1 hour after I
was. We share so many interests. I think god does exist because he sent an angel
to me. I love you Amy, always and forever.
April - 02/26/99 22:15:48
My URL:http://geocities.datacellar.net/paris/light/9741
My Email:Shygirl89@hotmail.com
From: Minnesota
Degree of happiness: Extreame.
Thing you learnt with this story: I learned what true love is.
Comments:
We met on September,1,1998. It was the day before school started and like most
teens I was not really looking forward to the school part but I was looking
forward to being able to see my friends. I decided to go online to try and pass
the time. It was about 1:00pm here when I got on. I went through my mail, answering
some of it and deleting some. Somewhere around 1:30pm I went into the geocities
chat room. I had not been in them in a while. I had and still have a hard time
finding good decent people to talk to in there but I was bored and did not have
much else to do. It had been about half an hour and I was considering leaving
when someone asked "how is everyone today?" I was about to answer when I say
someone named Cyan say "depressed." Being who I am I sent him a message asking
what was wrong. And like many people in this world Matthew was feeling lonely
and upset. I talked to him for about an hour or two, trying to make him feel
better, giving him some virtual hugs etc. I understood and still do the way
he was feeling so I could sympathize with him very well. From the beginning
he had me a little interested in him, he was sweet, friendly and honest. It
took a little work but I got him to open up to me and it was amazing to find
out how much we have in common. I remember thinking that two people should not
have this much in common, from taste in music, books, food, and friends, to
talents and dislikes. After about two hours I found myself wondering what his
voice sounded like so I asked him if I could call him, I suprised myself by
asking him for I had never talked to someone I had met online so soon. I was
also amazed by how I felt like I could instantly trust him and how I could open
up to him. He gave me his number somewhat reluctantly and I gave him a call.
His voice was very sweet, kind and friendly even if he did sound very nervous.
He told me that he could not really believe that I was shy and I told him that
he was the one that was causing me to be so open. I have never been one to lie,
but he made me open to the point of forwardness that I simply did not understand
in the slightest. Since then we have talked on the phone almost every day as
well as talking online. We have exchanged pictures and he has come out here
to see me twice for a total of about 4-5 days. I personally will be headed out
there between December 26th and January 3rd. I believe that those will be some
of the best days of my life. I have also had thoughts about our relationship
that I never thought that I would have. I have thought about marrying him in
the future, and I think that even if he asked me today I would have a hard time
saying no, though I know that I would have to only being 16 and still with at
least 5 years of school ahead of me. I have found that there is not a single
quality that he does not have that I would want in my husband. He is sweet,
caring, compassionate, understanding, willing to listen to me, there for me
when I need him and will always be there as much as he can when I need him.
He is a wonderful man, I have been so blessed to have him in my life. He is
one of those rare men that every woman is looking for and he proves that they
nice guys Don't always finish last.
Amy - 02/26/99 20:10:16
My Email:amy_f_20@yahoo.com
Comments:
I had always promised myself that I would never fall in love. I felt that all
that could come of love was pain. I built walls around my heart being careful
not to let anyone in. I had just gotten the internet when I met Shawn. I wanted
to see what cha rooms were like. I never would have expected anything more than
a friendship. I thought it was stupid to think anyone online could have anything
other than a friendship. Boy was I wrong. So I guess I let my guard down since
I didnt expect anying ther was nothing to worry about. I met this wonderful
guy named Shawn. We started out talking to everyone in the room but by the end
of the night it was as if we were the only two there. We exchanged email adresses.
We talked online every night. I looked forward to talking to him, I dont know
what it is about him that just makes me fell so good. Maybe its his patitence
or his sweet way of always makeing me feel better when I am sad. I just know
that I didnt think it was possible for someone like him to xist. I think someone
stole my fantises when they made him. We started talking on the phone and I
wanted to talk less and less online I love the sound of his sexy voice. I know
that there are a lot of people that think that this could never work out, b
t they are wrong. I dont think people realize that when you meet online that
you actually get to know the person. So many times people say they love someone
when really they know nothing about them or even what love is. Talking to Shawn
has allowed me o really know him. We had planed to meet over his winter break
but I was to scared. I am ready to meet him now. We are going to meet in march.
The hardest thing is not being able to be there when we need each other. Its
hard to see some one you love urt and not be able to even hold them. I know
that things arent going to get easier after we meet. In fact they will probably
get harder. we will want to be together when its just not possible. But we will
over come it all. I love you Shawn.
Summer - 02/24/99 05:16:40
My URL:http://www.homestead.com/devilluverHellsdoor/Hellsgateway.html
My Email:summer_joy99@hotmail.com
From: Missouri
Degree of happiness: optional
Thing you learnt with this story: too many to list here
Comments:
I met Jeremy in a chat room in Lycos. He was chatting as pot_pawn, and I as
devilluver. My name usually gets attention, but it is mainly negative, so I
was shocked when Jeremy and I hit it off. We shared so many common interests,
and we talked for hour in that damn chat room about nothing. Before we left
our computers, we exchanged email addresses, and ended one long night. The exact
date is a blur, but it was several months ago. We started sending each other
email messages and virtual cards. He sh cked me the first time that he mentioned
that he loved me in a message. I cried for over an hour just looking at that
message. Through email, we exchanged phone numbers and addresses. He had some
really cute ways of finding out more things about me lik sending an information
forward to people, and having them fill it out. We started talking on the phone
after a while, and because he lives in Iowa, and I Missouri, it wasn't too big
of a deal for me, or him. Finally, we decided that it was time to meet face
to face. You have to understand, I am a 17 year old who has been obese since
the day I was born, so I was really happy with Jeremy not knowing who I was
outside, but then after we talked about things, I decided that his love for
me was established i side first. Well, we planned it out so that he could spend
Valentine's weekend with me. He drove for 7 hours to get here, and when I first
saw him, the first thought that I had was "Damn, I'm short." Funny right? His
first thought was something about y hair, because I am really the craziest person
in my small town school, and I had my head covered in beads. I cut school to
introduce him to my parents and family, and risked failing my senior year because
of excessive absenses, but my love was strong e ough that I totally did not
care. Anyways, we did the whole parents kind of thing, and went to Hardee's
(dope smokers hang out) and met up with other friends of mine. I had so much
fun that weekend, and I knew that I didn't want him to leave Monday, but he
had to. That Sunday night, I think we both knew how depressing it was going
to be, because it seemed like we tried to be bitchy to each other to get into
pissy moods. I know that I did, but I realized that I wouldn't see him again
until May, and knew that we would have to say goodbye before then. Monday morning
had to have been one of the most depressing days in my life so far, I just kind
of wandered around trying to avoid the fact that he was preparing to leave.
I couldn't sleep the night before, o I got up and wrote Jeremy a letter, and
stuck my class ring in an envelope with the letter. Somehow, I knew that after
he left me on Monday, things would change, and I didn't want him to forget me.
He wasn't supposed to find the letter til he got home but while I was in the
store, he found it and started reading it. We sat at the school and cried for
what seemed an eternity, but unfortunately, it wasn't long enough for me. We
argued over him keeping my ring, and finally he said that he had to leave. I
am even getting tears in my eyes now just recalling the weekend, but anyways...
Since he went back to Iowa on Monday February 15, 1999 things have seemed different.
He confessed that I wasn't what he had expected, but he said he still loved
me as a fr end. We have come to an agreement, we are going to remain good friends,
and after May 15th, (my high school graduation) I am going to move that direction,
and we are going to hopefully move on with our relationship. See, you thought
it was going to end ll sad and stuff, but it didn't, or should I say it hasn't
ended sadly since it hasn't ended, and hopefully never will. I LOVE YOU JEREMY
ALAN!!!!!:o}
vinvin - 02/09/99 13:25:15
My Email:vinvin82@yahoo.com
From: vinvin
Degree of happiness: i'm happy with her as my girlfriend
Thing you learnt with this story: i learnt what love is !!
Comments:
hi everyone out there, i'm only 17 here now born in 1982..yet when i was in
the last year of sch, i found what i have been looking for.it's a special girl..we
known each other on the net on 1/3/98 when we had out first chat on irc...i
enjoyed chatting wit this girl..and found that we was keeping chatting from
that day onward....i was actually finding for a friend to chat with that day,
but soon after that it's was *love*...things wasn't goin smoothly as days goes
by..rumours came and gossips hurts me, and i was actually congratulation her
and a guy after hearing rumours about them without knowing any truth...but i
guess we last through the rough days aint't we..: ) we are together now on 1/3/99.
I love her
Dave - 02/07/99 22:50:00
My Email:dmcadam@hotmail.com
From: Ireland
Degree of happiness: extremely happy, but a bit sad too
Thing you learnt with this story: Love can and does happen on the net!!!!
Comments:
Hi!!, well my story involves 2 girls that I met on the net...I started on the
net in January 98 and I met a sweet girl in a chatroom...we really hit it off
and we were planning to meet as soon as we could, within a year or two anyway...BUT
there was one B GBIG problem...I live in Ireland...she lived in Texas!! A return
flight would only have cost about $350 and I was gonna go se her last summer,
but she met some other guy over there in June and now shes pregnant and married*L*...so
that was THAT!! So thats the first part of my story..the sad part..I was heartbroken
when i found out about her and the other guy....please everyone be careful about
who you meet on the net,...make 200% sure they are sincere!....Now for the Happy
part!... Ok so I met an even sweeter gal in Feb 98, she was 16, I was 20...ok
so a lil bit of an age difference there!, but whos counting?..In October 98,
we told each other how we felt about each other, and that we thought that we
were falling for each other. So ever since then, we talk for hours every day
on ICQ, and we arein love so so deeply, both of us. I feel that she is the one
that I want to spend my life with, and she thinks the same about me and that
makes us both verrry happy to know that. BUT she liv s in Canada and I still
live in Ireland, so it is so so so so hard to be away from her...We can't meet
for a few years, its just not possible for us for different reasons, and it
just hurts alot to be apart....ok so this was MEANT to be a happy story, an
it is!, because we love each other and we will always always love each other,
even if it is only as friends,..I am closer to her than any other person in
this world, and I just lpve her to bits! Soo..to all you cynics out there...REAL
LOVE happens on the net!..don't ask me how..it just DOES!
Kinni - 02/03/99 02:17:44
My Email:kinni4@hotmail.com
From: Pennslyvania
Degree of happiness: very happy
Thing you learnt with this story: don't put a price on love
Comments:
we met in yahoo chat. at first i was scared of him because of the first things
he said. but after a while, i got used to him. we exchanged email addresses
and emailed each other once or twice a day. soon it became 4 or 5 times a day,
then on december 5, ben asked me out with an activegram. when i saw it, i cried.
i immediately responded "YES" since then i have known that he is the one. even
though he lives in british columbia canada, and i live in pennslyvania, i am
going up to see him during my s ring break in march. we are both very excited
and can't wait to see each other face to face. and even though it is going to
cost me a lot of money, it is going to be worth it because you can't put a price
on love.
- 02/02/99 04:32:02
Degree of happiness: Total Ecstasy
Thing you learnt with this story: Nothing is impossible when it comes
to love
Comments:
To be honest I hated the internet for a very long time, because my husband of
6 years (who is addicted to the net)kicked me and my 3 boys out on the street
with no place to go. That was in June of 1998. I went through hell and back
(to put it mildly). We inally got a place of our own and I decided to get on
the internet, but only to try to talk to my husband over the net (trying all
attempts to work out our marriage). One day as I was random chatting on ICQ
i met a man by the name of wildchild. We hit it ff instantly. He knew exactly
what I was feeling when I was sad and told me to *smile*. Slowly i began to
give up hope on repairing my marriage and began to get closer to wildchild.
We exchanged phone numbers and talked everyday and all night. He turned m world
around and made every day a brighter place. Even though he was in Texas and
I was in Iowa, we made it work. Two weeks after we began talking, he moved to
Iowa to be with me. I know in my heart that he is my soul-mate and that we are
destined to be ogether. That was in November and here it is February 1999, and
we are still together. We are planning on being married this summer and the
bond that we have is unexplainable. There is something between us that no-one
understands. We have a connection. It isn't ony emotional but it also spiritual,
we believe the same things and we have so much in common that it is scary. We
also know each others thoughts before they are said. He is my love as I know
that I am his love. I have never known or felt a love qui e as strong as this.
He loves my boys as if they were his own and they love him too. We are as one.
Our love will last forever and a day.
Abukartoona - 01/25/99 08:06:06
My URL:http://www.angelfire.com/de/kartoona
My Email:mmaaty@intouch.com
From: Egypt
Degree of happiness: more than i ever imagined
Thing you learnt with this story: Love is love,no matter how it comes
Comments:
To tell u the truth,i never imagined that this may happen to me,my heart was
always closed,this word"love"was something mysterious to me,something"horrible"!!!!!,The
story brgan in the last summer on the icq,when i was searching for certain name,then
i ad ed a name i couldn't imagine that it'd change all my thoughts about love,once
i saw this name online,and when i said"hello",she answered" i'm not....,i'm
her sister....",it was "bolbola" who answered me,we began to talk and talk,and
i was in visible mode but after few days i was putting my self in "invisible
mode"and put her visible to me each time i see her online,we started to be good
friends,she told me about her,the place she lives in(PALESTINE-nablus) ,her
family,her life,almost everything concerning her... one day,i found something
strange!when i was looking inside my heart,and my mind,i saw that each cell
and each part of me is labelled"bolbola..bolbola..bolbola...." ,I found out
that this girl did the impossible and managed to capture my heart,and succeed
d to let me say this words"I love you" for the first time in my life:))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
There was a big problem,that she is in Palestine,and i'm in Cairo,and i wanna
see her,how??i don't know!She was telling me that she's gonna study in Cairo
next year inshaallah,but i was in a fear that she doesn't.. Once we were talking
in Ramadan"our holy month,we r muslims..",and GOD gave me the most precious
gift for the eed i ever dreamed of,my sweetie told me that she's coming after
few day!:))))))))YAWWWWWWW,when she said so,i started jumping and laughing!i
was so happy really really really,and on 20/1/1999 at 2:30 am.i was asleep.then
i had a phone call"hi,momke a7kee ma3 mohamed?",it was her,i thought that i
was dreaming or i still didn't wake up!!and on the next day,i saw her..religious,ZAKEYYA":))))",beautif
l,delicate ,sweet,always smiling,and the most important of all,is that she loves
me:)))When we sat together hand in hand,i felt that i don't need anything else
from this world,enough that i have her now,with me in the same place after it
was just typing a d internet:))she stayed in cairo for 4.5 days,and i was with
her all the time,sometimes with her in the hotel,orr by phone,or thinking of
her...then the group with her traveled to Sinai,and she returned back to Palestine
coz she's gonna start the last ter in the school!:))I guess it's gonna be a
different one....a happy one inshaallah...I thought of caputring her and hiding
her in a secure place so that she can't travel:)))))))))) I really have two
opposite feelings now,sad coz she's not with me now..and happy coz i saw her....i
hope she comes in August to studyb in Cairo,and i really have a great surprise
for her,but it's not time to tell about it!! So,thanx God for giving me this
wonderful flower..thanx redrose coz u were who i searched for when bolbola talked
to be,tahnx Huda coz u were the one who let me saw Bolbola,thanx Nuha coz u
r always with us,and THANXXXXX BOLBOLA FOR BEING IN MY LIFE,SUN T AT NEVER GETS
DOWN...I LOVE YOU .....:))))))))
James - 01/23/99 22:31:21
My URL:http://chat.yahoo.com
From: Texas
Degree of happiness: blissful
Thing you learnt with this story: do it while you have the chance
Comments:
I met her on yahoo chat. I was in no way looking for love, I had just got done
arguing with someone and I followed him into another room. She was dancing on
the table and immediately caught my attention. When she asked if anyone wanted
to talk to a 19 , I responded because I also was 19 even though we were in a
room for people 20 or older. We hit it off right away. We had alot in common,
and I liked the way she seemed aggressive and confident. We exchanged email
addresses, and she left to go to bed. Her email address kept returning an error,
so for weeks I went back to chat and tried to find her. I finally did, and learned
she had accidently given me the wrong email address, and I had given her the
wrong one also, so we had been unable to get in tou h. We talked again for hours,
and I got her real email address. I emailed her several times after that, but
didnt get any response. I got the impression she was ignoring me, and I sent
her an email appologizing for bothering her and saying that if she idnt want
to talk to me I would leave her alone. She surprised me with a long awaited
email, and we began to talk regularly. Soon we were chatting for several hours
a day, and calling on the phone often. We fell in love, and I told her I wanted
to meet her in person to make it real. She lives in Oregon and I live in Texas,
so it was a long trip. I had no money, but somehow I scraped together enough
money and took the two weeks off from work to take a bus for three days and
two nights to meet her on the pacific coast. It was perfect we were perfect
together and completely in love. Since that time she has come to visit me in
Texas, and now I am leaving school to come and be with her in seven months.
I am moving to Oregon. God bless the information age!
Summer - 01/23/99 01:18:38
My Email:summersky15@hotmail.com
From: California
Degree of happiness: Beyond happyiness
Thing you learnt with this story: You can find love no matter where you
are
Comments:
Well, I met Daniel in a Yahoo chat room about 2 days after I got the internet
and it turnes out he had just gotten the internet about 3 days before we met.
Well He was making jokes in a chat room and I knew he was the one so I talked
to him alot and ab ut a week after we met i went into a room and he was talking
to a friend and he said im sorry Can you excuse me ( to the other person ) he
said this is my girlfriend !!! I was sooo amazed and about 2 weeks later I called
him and then I fell in love !!! H fell in love with me as well . We have not
met yet because he lives in Ontario Canada and I live in California But I am
planning to meet him really soon we have been together for almost a year now
Thanks To the internet and thank you god for bring him t me it was fate I love
you Daniel Your Kitten ( he calls me Kitten )
Karen - 01/22/99 21:51:23
From: Georgia
Degree of happiness: there is no measure
Thing you learnt with this story: there is such a thing as true love
Comments:
Chris and I met on a matchmaker system. WE talked for a few months and then
we finally met. it was love at first sight. we met in Memphis and it was so
perfect. we were together a week and the last day when we had to part, it broke
my heart. I knew right then he was the one for me. WE've been happily married
for the past year and a half. It's been the best.
Kristine - 01/21/99 08:10:27
My Email:kristineolson@globaldialog.com
From: Wisconsin
Degree of happiness: happy
Thing you learnt with this story: true friendship
Comments:
Alan and I met in a chat room by him making fun of the name I was using. For
weeks, maybe months we chatted through AOL instant message. All the time, almost
every night, all night. It was amazing all the things we had to talk about.
We went on to phon calls, but after awhile, we kind of drifted apart. I was
crushed didn't really know why. He ended up meeting someone, I couldn't really
blame him, but I was crushed. Anyway, in the three months he was with the girlfriend,
we only sent a few e-mails. ut then one night, he was online and sent me a message.
The girl, who he felt was the One for him, had dumped him. He was crushed. I
felt terrible for him. I knew how he had felt because I felt the same way when
him and I stopped talking. Either way, t's been great the last couple months,
and in October, he came here to visit me. We had a good time, although he says
I don't talk a lot in person. Either way, I consider him to be a very good friend,
and I wouldn't trade his friendship for anything.
Melissa - 01/13/99 13:51:36
From: Australia
Degree of happiness: immeasurable
Thing you learnt with this story: True Love !!
Comments:
I met my cyber-love in November of 96 in a game chat.. We became best of friends
and often spoke on the phone.. being that we were 8,000 miles away from each
other... the calls got a little expensive !!! May 7 1998 I flew to Melbourne
Australia to meet my sweetheart for the first time... :-) It was love at first
sight !!! On September 20th, I married my best friend, cyber sweetheart.. :-)He's
the best man in the world :-)
Sweetie - 01/09/99 22:13:33
My Email:Eryn@fcmail.com
Degree of happiness: I smile every second.
Thing you learnt with this story: There is the right guy out there for
you.
Comments:
Well, I guess that I never expected to be where I am now. I met Jerramie about
6 months ago on a chat room. He was complaining about the weather in Canada
and all, and me thinking it was sooo much colder in Wisconsin I thought I would
let him know that. I got to talking to him and found out that he was a really
cool guy. After that night we met on the chat room every other night. I loved
talking to him because he made me laugh all the time, he had a one of a kind
personality. We got to know eachother a lot better over the next 6 months e-mails,
icq, ect. I knew that I was falling in love. The only thing was all odds were
against us, of this actually turning out into a relationship. I have talk to
him over the phone or on icq every night. He has the cutest augh, a great personality,
and I see everything I have ever wanted in a guy, in him. I like his family
a lot, and he says he likes mine too. He has talked to my sister and a few of
my closer friends. I have talked to his sis and a few of his cousins. I ca 't
wait, he is coming up to see me this summer (first time). We have seen each
other, by photos. Just a few more months I keeps saying, but it feels like eternity.
Everything will go great I know it. There is so much more then this that comes
to my mind w en I think about our relationship now. We are dating and I know
that I have found the right guy for me. The right person is out there for everyone.
I know that I must be happy because a smile never leaves my face.
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