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			Loneliness
		Remember a few years ago, I was alone on the bus listening to a "Wu Yin  Liang Pin" cd.The night was silent yet peaceful.At that time,only Guang Liang and Pin Guan's voices accompanied me.In the cd,Guang Liang said "Actually most of the time,there are many things which we have to solve ourselves".How true,that night I finally realised and accepted the fact that I'm actually very scared to be alone. This year,after my "A"s,I found out that many times in my life I'm actually alone.Many occasions,the fear of being alone was hard to bear.In the beginning I broke down but soon I began to get used to being really all by myself.The outside world was not as beautiful as I thought it to be.I met with many problems in all important aspects of life(work,family and friendship).Work was not as smooth as it seems.Again I went and solve everything all by myself.I often wonder how strong I can actually be...Why is it that every difficulties I encounter,I must worry and solve by myself.My godbro told me be4 that actually I'm very lucky because I have many friends to tell my problems to.But what he doesn't understand is some problems that I meet in my life,I rather solve it myself than trouble my friends 'cos I know I understand my problems more than they do... Friendship was actually disastrous.I found it so hard to cope with.Why is it that everytime I try to treat my friends better,they end up using me.I really don't understand.Why is it that friends cannot be perfect?Why is it that everytime you treat somebody well,they can't treat you back the same way.I really give up le...I try telling my friends this but again nobody really understands.Perhaps they are more optimistic about life than I am.Family matters were not going smoothly too.There were constant "wars" in my house.I was really scared so I began to shut myself up in the room,again all by myself.Perhaps Guang Liang was right,many times,we are actually all alone.All friends and family members can do is give u advice but ultimately,all problems have to be solved by u alone.Isn't it?How many times in your life are u not alone?Ask yourself that and you will find that what I say is actually quite true.Frankly speaking,life has not been smooth for me since sec.4...But I have never thought of writing everything out.Perhaps Viv was rite,if u write things out u will feel better.This is just a section I decided to put up after I heard what Guang Liang said. Sounds really pessimistic isn't it...People say I have a happy face.People with happy faces also have their own problems...The difference is whether in the end u give up or continue to fight on.For me,I choose to continue to fight on...
	Background music: All by myself (Meteor Garden II OST)
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