Everyone, at some time in their lives, has to end a relationship.  But what to do
when the person you had to walk away from won't let go?  You loved them at
one time, so you don't want to hurt them (or if you do, like most of us, you
realize that doing so will rebound on you), but you wish that they would just
get a life and move on!  So, give them a life!  How do you go about that, you
ask?  Do a spell for them.  It sure beats doing something against them, that's
for sure!

What you'll need are two image candles - one to represent you and one to
represent him.  (if you don't have access to image candles, one in your favorite
color for you and in his favorite color for him will do just fine).  Also, you'll
need a white candle, a ribbon that you can snip easily, and a surface to do all
of this on ( a cookie sheet is usually a good surface if you can get ahold of one
of the deeper kind).

Now, take the candle that represents you and with the tip of a knife or an iron
nail (previously unused) inscribe your name.  On the one to represent him/her, inscribe his/her name.  On the white candle, inscribe as follows : "That which will make
_____ (his/her name) happier than he/she thinks that I will."  (yes, it's long, but
do the best that you can, and make sure to fit it all)  Then take the candles
and place on the cookie sheet and tie the ribbon around each candle to connect
all three.

Then light the candles that represent the two of you, and let them burn for a
few minutes.  Light the white candle, and say these words: "You feel something
drawing you away from me, and of me you wish to be free."  Cut the ribbon
between the candle that represents you and he/she, and leave the ribbon
between his/her candle and the white candle connected, and take the candle
that represents you and march it further from his/her candle, saying these words:
"You feel something replace the need you have for me, and as I do will so mote
it be!"  Take your candle off the sheet entirely and let his/her candle and the
white candle burn out.  You can either put yours out or let it burn in a holder
across the room.. whatever makes you feel more comfortable.  When both the
other candles have burned out, if there is any candle wax left over, put it in a
brown paper bag and wrapped with anything you might have that has some
connection to the person you are sending away.  If possible, bury it on their
property, or simply dispose of the remains nearby them, but away from you.