1. Be a little more lenient on the 7pm curfew.
2. Don't ask were the other point went when your child comes home with a 99 course grade on his/her report card.
3. Don't "ay-goo" loudly at your kid's dress habits.
4. Don't blatantly hint about the merits of "Hah-bah-deuh"(Harvard), "Yae-Ihll(Yale), or "Ssu-tan-po-deuh"(Stanford).
5. Don't reveal all the intimate details of your kid's life to the entire Korean community.
6. Don't ask your kid, "What are you doing with your life?" if he/she majors in a non-science field.
7. Don't give your son a bowl haircut or your daugter two acres of bangs.
8. Don't try to set your kid up on a date in anticipation of their poor taste or inept social skills.
9. Incorporate other phrases beside, "Did you study yet?" into your daily conversations with your children.
10. Don't ask all your kid's friends over the age of 21 if they have a boyfriend/girlfriend yet.
11. Don't search their room.
12. Don't open your kid's mail.
13. Don't listen in on their phone conversations.
14. Don't keep feeding them after they've said I'm going to burst with one more bite.
15. Allow them to sleep over at a friend's house instead of just letting friends sleep over at your's.
16. Don't tell them to read their Bible everyday instead of wasting their time watching tv.
17. Don't ask them about what they think about every Korean girl/guy you mutually know.
18. Don't compare your kids with those of others.
19. At least let them go to a school dance.
20. Let them develop a real personality instead of molding them into socially challenged individuals.
