In the Bedroom is wonderful. You couldn't guess it was directed by an actor (Todd Field -- the piano player in Eyes Wide Shut)or that it's his first feature.
Incredbly moving performances by Sissy Spacek (the crowning moment of her career) and Tom Wilkerson in this delicate drama of grief and loss.
And Marisa Tomei can keep that Oscar!
William Mapother is also quite good as the heavy in the story (Extra Gay Jeopardy points if you can name his brother!)