Peer
Pressure Is Easy - You Aren't
All
experienced group riders know that each individual in the group is
responsible for their own safety. They know that in every group, one
of them has the least experience or skill/control. Generally, they
know that the group should ride to the skills of the least common
denominator - the least experienced, or least skilled/controlled.
But
sometimes you join a group for a ride and many if not all of them are
strangers. Sometimes a new member joins your group and you have no
idea what their skill level or experience might be. This should be a
serious concern to the lead bike (often called the Road Captain -
though not necessarily so.)
Since
it's up to the lead bike to set the pace, how can that be done without
knowing what the least common denominator is? Clearly this is an
argument for a pre-ride meeting and some questions designed to find
out as much as you can about who you are riding with.
But
realities are such that even if you try to find out who has the least
experience or least skill/control, the odds are that you will have
trouble doing so. People have 'face', after all. People are reluctant
to be seen as the weakest of the group. Worse, and we have seen tragic
results of this recently, some people honestly believe they have
better skills/control than they really do and are quite convincing
about it with others.
From a
lead bike point of view, a solution is readily at hand - always place
a new member of the group in the last right-track position (sometimes
called the 'slot') in front of the drag bike and have the drag bike
observe how that person actually rides. Once the drag bike advises the
lead bike that the new person demonstrates adequate skill/control then
that person is freed to ride anywhere they want to in the group. Until
everybody in the group is at least seen to have reasonable
skills/control while riding with the group, the lead bike has no
business pushing any limits.
But the
heading of this message regards peer pressure, and I would like to
talk briefly about group dynamics that are dangerous precisely because
of peer pressure. Even assuming that everyone in a group is well known
to each other, there is still a least experienced, least
skilled/controlled person there. That person usually feels that he/she
has very little choice but to try to 'keep up', to try to not hold the
rest of the group back. If nothing else, they often think that
'stretching' themselves is a learning experience.
And
while it is definitely a learning experience, if you survive it,
'keeping up', or not holding the rest of the group back should NOT be
part of the equation!! A brave person will acknowledge their
weaknesses and not push the envelope aggressively, even if it means
that the rest of the group will recognize those weaknesses. A smart
person believes absolutely that THEY are responsible for their own
ride/safety - and not incidentally, in not being a potential hazard to
anyone else. These people ignore peer pressure to the point that they
might not fit into a particular group - and that's just fine for all
concerned!
But
peer pressure is NOT the real danger - there is always peer pressure
(sometimes thoughtless, sometimes just good natured competition,
sometimes no more than shared courtesy.) It is YOUR OWN PERSONAL
pressure to perform that can be dangerous. I call that your 'head'.
What
I'm getting at is mental 'rightness' - being ready and prepared to do
what you are about to do, and knowing it.
If your
head is not 'right', STOP and get it 'right' before you go another two
feet on your motorcycle!!!!
After
more than 30 years of riding motorcycles there are times when I simply
feel that I cannot safely do something that I have done a thousand
times before - sometimes the most trivial of things. For example, a
few years ago I was on a tour to Tulsa, Oklahoma and our group had
just finished a pit stop and were on our way back onto the road. We
were on a parking lot that had a driveway with a relatively severe dip
in it as it joined the main road where we then had to make a hard
right turn to get underway. All the bikes ahead of me did just fine
with that dip. But when it was my turn to negotiate that driveway I
decided that my head was not 'right' and stopped my bike. I radioed to
the lead bike that I would catch up in a moment, nothing was wrong.
One minute later my head was 'right', confidence restored, and I took
off and joined the group. Trivial embarrassment is nothing compared to
an accident.
There
is no doubt in my mind at all (NOW) that I could have made that exit
from the parking lot without a problem. But this is one experienced
rider that is not ashamed to say that when my head is 'wrong', I stop
and wait until it gets 'right'.
Peer
pressure is easy - you aren't.
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