Donnabel de la Rea wrote this about her parents' 25th wedding anniversary.
When I was younger, I took my parents' marriage for granted. I believed that they would always be together and that they would always be there for me. It never occurred to me how much work is involved to maintain a relationship as committed as theirs is. Now that I am older, I realize that my parents do not exist just for me and my sister and brother (Tricia and Anthony). I see them as individuals who have their own problems, hopes, and dreams that are separate from us.
We wanted to do something really special for our parents for their 25th Wedding Anniversary instead of just treating them out for dinner or buying them a present. It was my Ate's idea that we reserve a church where they could renew their vows and then we would have a reception after with all of our family and friends. We asked our aunt and one of our parents' friends to help make all the arrangements. It was a challenge keeping all this a secret. I think they suspected what was going on, but they weren't sure exactly what it was.
On the day itself, March 4, 1998, we told our parents that we were taking them out for dinner. We blindfolded them and brought them to the church where everyone was waiting. My dad kept guessing where we were headed, trying to ruin the surprise. I know that my dad knew what was happening, and maybe my mom did as well. But that didn't stop them from being overwhelmed when we took off the blindfolds and they were surrounded by friends and family.
I can't describe the feeling of seeing my mom and dad so happy, even though my mom couldn't seem to stop crying. I know that my brother and sister felt it too. The day was filled with love, friendship, laughter, and tears. It was perfect.
To witness the love my parents still have for each other
after all their years together is amazing to see. And now, it comforts
me to know that even though our world is ever changing, their love for
each other has remained constant.
Kilig to the bones naman ako dito! Buti na lang at nai-chismis ito ni Florante noon!
