Activity type | Small group card game |
Number of students | Minimum of 2. |
Functions: | Restatement, correcting oneself, repairing an offensive remark that you just inadvertently made. |
Lexical area | Things that could offend someone. |
Grammar: | Modals (make polite by stating that something is possible but you are not certain of...even if you are.) |
Syllabus: | Politeness |
Target phrases: | What I mean is... What I meant was... Let me put it another way... What I'm saying is... What I'm trying to say is... Don't get me wrong... Please don't misunderstand... Excuse me, if I said that I didn't really mean to. Let me rephrase what I just said. |
Essential vocabulary: |
You realize that..., A X's place is...., child care center, I can't stand...., a pleasant person, stale, howling, a policeman gave him a ticket, you'd probably be no better at...than..., non-native speaker of English, reduce speed, people walking around, body odor, garlic, go well with |
Sometimes we spontaneously say things that we immediately regret having said because we realize that what we said could be taken as criticism by the person we are talking to. As the idiom says "we put our foot in our mouth" presumably to prevent more of what just came out from coming out.
When you are learning a foreign language you sometimes have to make critical comments and since you probably don't have the experience in the language to make what you're saying polite, you often end up "putting your foot in your mouth."
This activity is meant to give you practice in recovering from comments that you suddenly realize could be taken the wrong way (might have been offensive).
Source This game is based on "Correcting Yourself" in Eric Keller and Sylvia Taba Warner (1976) Gambits 2 pp. 23. See the comments of Yule (Explaining English Grammar, 1998, p.117) on the politeness uses of English modals. Take some impolite (in our case unintentionally) and find ways to rephrase it so that it's more polite.