A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the Doctor
walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. Still groggy from
surgery, her husband David held her hand as they braced themselves for
the latest news.
That afternoon of March 10, 1991, complications had forced Diana, only
24-weeks pregnant, to undergo an emergency cesarean to deliver the couple's
new daughter, Danae Lu Blessing.
At 12 inches long and weighing only one pound and nine
ounces, they already knew she was perilously premature. Still, the doctor's
soft words dropped like bombs. "I don't think she's going to make it",
he said, as kindly as he could. "There's only a 10-percent chance she will
live through the night, and even then, if by some slim chance she does
make it, her future could be a very cruel one".
Numb with disbelief, David and Diana listened as the doctor described the
devastating problems Danae would likely face if she survived. She would
never walk, she would never talk, she would probably be blind, and she
would certainly be prone to other catastrophic conditions from cerebral
palsy to complete mental retardation, and on and on.
"No! No!" was all Diana could say. She and David, with their 5-year-old
son Dustin, had long dreamed of the day they would have a daughter to become
a family of four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was slipping
away.
Through the dark hours of morning as Danae held onto life by the thinnest
thread, Diana slipped in and out of sleep, growing more and more determined
that their tiny daughter would live and live to be a healthy, happy, young
girl. But David, fully awake and listening to additional dire details of
their
daughter's chances of ever leaving the hospital alive,
much less healthy, knew he must confront his wife with the inevitable.
David walked in and said that we needed to talk about making funeral arrangements.
Diana remembers, "I felt so bad for him because he was doing everything,
trying to include me in what was going on, but I just wouldn't listen,
I couldn't listen. I said, 'No, that is not going to happen, no way!
I don't care what the doctors say; Danae is not going to die! One day she
will be just fine, and she will be coming home with us!'"
As if willed to live by Diana's determination, Danae clung to life hour
after hour, with the help of every medical machine and marvel her miniature
body could endure. But as those first days
passed, a new agony set in for David and Diana. Because
Danae's under-developed nervous system was
essentially 'raw,' the lightest kiss or caress only intensified
her discomfort, so they couldn't even cradle their tiny baby girl against
their chests to offer the strength of their love.
All they could do, as Danae struggled alone beneath the ultraviolet light
in the tangle of tubes and wires, was to pray that God would stay close
to their precious little girl. There was never a moment when Danae suddenly
grew stronger. But as the weeks went by, she did slowly gain an ounce of
weight here and an ounce of strength there.
At last, when Danae turned two months old, her parents were able to hold
her in their arms for the very first time. And two months later- though
doctors continued to gently but grimly warn that her chances of surviving,
much less living any kind of normal life, were next to zero - Danae went
home from the hospital, just as her mother had predicted.
Today, five years later, Danae is a petite but feisty young girl with glittering
gray eyes and an unquenchable zest for life. She shows no signs, whatsoever,
of any mental or physical
impairment. Simply, she is everything a little girl can
be and more. But that happy ending is far from the end of her story.
One blistering afternoon in the summer of 1996 near her home in Irving,
Texas, Danae was sitting in her mother's lap in the bleachers of a local
ballpark where her brother Dustin's baseball team was practicing. As always,
Danae was chattering non-stop with her mother and several other adults
sitting nearby when she suddenly fell silent. Hugging her arms across her
chest, Danae asked, "Do you smell that?" Smelling the air and detecting
the approach of a thunderstorm, Diana replied, "Yes, it smells like rain."
Danae closed her eyes and again asked, "Do you smell that?" Once again,
her mother replied, "Yes, I think we're about to get wet, it smells like
rain." Still caught in the moment, Danae shook her head, patted her thin
shoulders with her small hands and loudly announced, "No, it smells like
Him.
It smells like God when you lay your head on His chest."
Tears blurred Diana's eyes as Danae then happily hopped down to play with
the other children. Before the rains came, her daughter's words confirmed
what Diana and all the members of the extended Blessing family had known,
at least in their hearts, all along. During those long days and nights
of her first two months of her life, when her nerves
were too sensitive for them to touch her, God was holding Danae on His
chest and it is His loving scent that she remembers so well.