" Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of  life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, and though they are with you yet they belong not to you ..."  Gibran K. Gibran

I pray hopping this life will be merciful with you...
I pray hopping you will be strong in facing life's storms, holding in high principles, because this will give you all the strength and brave you need to face life's storms. Holding the high principles will keep you head raised and earns you self and people's respect. Not those materialities which come and go in the same speed, nothing will left from it, and nothing will leave from you.. So never let materialities as a goal to your life, but a way on getting to goals…
Let your self confidence be your lamp which lighten your way, and take the best of human being which is his ability to acclimatization with surrounding circumstances what ever it is.
Be sure that matters change, and turns such as hearts of peoples, and nothing keeps on the same situation, not the people nor the things… Past becomes like a film you saw one day, and him dear memory is near and far at the same time.. You will fined the people you loved are not around, you will feel sorrow, but you have nothing to do about that.. and life will go on, So control your sorrow, and never let it controls you no matter how deep it's growth and branch…
Let your mind and mental thinking be the judge in all things, and never take anything as facts if your mind didn't give you this judgment after thinking…
Learn that the mind is the source of science, and the hart is the source of faith, and both of them together are the source of love, so never predominated your mind on your hart and become tough, neither your hart on your mind and become deliquescent, and be with both to live in continuos love..
And know that with love you'll be much near to God…
Be careful not to talk with your beloved while you are angry, anger losses mind it's respect, and leaves the tongue without bridle, which let it goes like a aimless bullets, injuring everything around…
Know that who loves you will forgive you, so forgive your beloved their slips, and know that you have to deal with people in the same way you like them to deal with you, and take the wisdom from the old ones, and from the says of nation's heritage…
Never let a way for spiteful to your hart, it will blind you, and be indulgent, but if you feel evil of anyone in his hart, just be away from him without any noise…
Remember to let a self courage inside you, to say whatever you want, in absence or presence of the concerned person…
Listen to advice, no matter its hurt, and let your mind be your judge. Know that who loved you stays beside you, even though you didn't take an advice from him, and you have to stay beside him even though he didn't take an advice you gave, and never rejoicing at another's misfortune, that's a mold of harts…
Be sure that correcting the wrong is much better than keeping on it, because keeping in wrong is like walking on movable sands, takes to the depth of strangulation… And never think it's too late to do something, the moment which you have, is yours, don't let it go from you…
Never let fear go to your hart from anything, be the frightening not the terrified, bravery is in surmounting fears, which leads to success, exactly as wisdom leads to same.
n stands of truth, become like a sward. Let your hart become as a rock.  Because correctness is correctness…
nd let your hart be as a butterfly in stands of sympathy, because at the beginning and at the end you are a human, and don't mix between these stands in becoming liquescent in stands of manliness, and hard in stands of human…
Plunge into experiences no matter how hard it is when you have to. And keep away from smoking, drugs and prostitutes. Except that do whatever you want, knowing that the wide sea of experiences is the one which will make you the man whom you are…
Know that a man without a belongingness is worse than an animal, because even animals got a belonging, whether to his land or family…
Associate with who ever you want but keep away from the mouthy woman, because her tongue speeds her mind, and you will earn nothing but headache and time loosing from her…
Be away from talkative, they are nothing but mad people…
All I can do now is giving you a leading line, tomorrow you will grow up, and you will learn, all I'm trying to do is not to let you learn by the hard way… Tomorrow when I might be not with you, I want you to be the master of yourself. You will feel many things I want to learn you, but I can't, things about life, death and creation, things you have to learn by experience, not by reading or studying, as soon as you learn it, you will feel the peace of mind I want to you…
All I need for you is to live balanced, nothing affecting your castle, your self confidence… and to be generous, be sure that your love feelings towards the others will return back to you when you at most need of it…
Don't underestimate others, and give trust to trust worthy, but be careful, and never seek the worst… Good is the fundamental in humans…