And a youth said, Speak to us of Friend- ship. And he answered saying: Your friend is your needs answered. He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving. And he is your board and your fireside. For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace. When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind, nor do withhold the "ay." And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart; For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed. When you part from your friend, you grieve not; For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is cleared from the plain. And let there be no purpose in friend- ship save the deepening of the spirit. For love thats seeks aught but the dis- closure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught. And let your best be for your friend. If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also. For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill? Seek him always with hours to live. For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness. And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.
The above is copyright 1923 by Kahlil Gibran. The Prophet is my favorite book of all time. If you read only one book in your life, this should be it. Despite some obvious religous cannotations found in the passages, don't assume I'm religous. I'm not. -GW
The world has only two kinds of people: intelligent people without religon, or religous people without Intelligence. -Abul aala Al-Muarry 10th century Syrian philosopher and poet centuryUse the smiley to backup
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