THE CRAB


An astrological analysis of my personality/thoughts and behavior further below. I highlighted some true and interesting remarks.




Some Famous Cancerians:

Henry VIII (June 28, 1491)
Princess Diana (July 1, 1961)
Prince William
Camilla Parker Bowles(July 17, 1947)
Mike Tyson
Julius Ceasar
Nelson Mandela (July 18)
Barbara Stanwyk
Pamela Anderson
Kevin Bacon
John Cusack
Tobey Maguire
Forest Whitaker
Cancerians have a retentive memory, particularly for emotionally laden events which they can recall in detail for years afterwards. they are strongly governed by childhood memories and since they live intensely in the past in memory and in the future in imagination, a chance meeting with someone for whom they had an unrequited love, even if they thought they had conquered the feeling, will easily rouse the emotion all over again.

Their abilities fit the Cancerian for a wide range of occupations. As they are interested in what people are thinking and able to judge what they can safely be told, they can be good journalists, writers or politicians, though in this last capacity they are more likely to remain in the background rather than attain prominent positions of power. They may, indeed, change their party affiliations. They can serve in other departments of public affairs, especially those which involve looking after others, for example in any kind of service from welfare and nursing to catering - their own love of comfort and good living makes the Cancerian an excellent chef or housekeeper. They sometimes have a penchant for trade or business and are often successful as a captain of industry. This is because they are excellent organizers with a good sense of value and economy which they may combine with a flair for inventiveness and originality. The romantic side of their natures make them enjoy grubbing about in places where exciting discoveries may be made (old stamp collections in attics, etc.), and if they can do this professionally as a secondhand dealer or specialist in antiques, they will be happy. More common occupations which suit some subjects of Cancer are real estate broker, gardener and sailor.

General Traditional Cancer Traits:


Emotional and loving
Intuitive and imaginative
Shrewd and cautious
Protective and sympathetic

An astrological analysis of my personality in all areas of life

Romantic vision and the gift of imagination

You are one of the world's true romantics, for your intensely active imagination must always inject into ordinary circumstances an aura of meaning, potential and purpose without which you find daily life inconsequential and sometimes suffocating. The great strength of your nature lies in your well-developed relationship to the creative power of the unconscious, which allows you to look into the future and envisage potentials which are not immediately apparent in the present. Because of this, you tend to see opportunities which others miss. You have a habit of living mostly in the future, always looking toward the next project and the next stage of the journey. Yours is a temperament which will never stagnate, because whatever you have accomplished, it is experienced not as a final achievement but as a temporary stage on the way to something bigger, better, more enriching and more meaningful.

Another strength in your character is your ability to appreciate the connections between apparently disparate facts and circumstances, and to see a story or a hidden pattern which others might ignore. You often have an instantaneous grasp of all the important factors in a situation, and can leap with a kind of hunch or "sixth sense" to a conclusion which is usually extremely accurate yet which you may not always be able to explain logically. You may or may not literally gamble with money, but you are probably willing to back your stronger hunches with effort, and therefore often obtain rewarding experiences or material gains through means which others would not dare to try. There is a quality of liveliness and colour about your interpretations of life which makes all your experiences seem like worthwhile lessons. Bad times cannot keep you down for long, for the next opportunity is always just around the corner. Mere security with no future creative possibilities is a kind of death to you, and you will often abandon your efforts just when they are about to bear fruit because it is the challenge and the journey, rather than the goal, which excite you most (which my constant moves across the Atlantic are living proof of!)


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The romantic vision rejects life's limitations

However, because of your emphasis on the imaginative and intuitive side of life, you run the risk of forgetting worldly limits. You tend to be on rather poor terms with day-to-day reality and its responsibilities and demands, because these thwart the vision that means so much to you. You may resent the boredom of a routine job, feeling secretly that you are entitled to something more special and glamourous; or you may dislike having to bind yourself to domestic obligations because these stop the flow of the imagination. You may also resist having to select one thing to which you must apply yourself, preferring to feel that you have many potentials open in the future; and this could result in you becoming a "jack of all trades" who dabbles in everything and produces nothing lasting. This is the "one day when I grow up..." syndrome, which may be appropriate in youth but which begins to feel rather uncomfortable with the passing of the years.You tend to neglect your body, or drive it too hard. You may forget at times to rest and eat sensibly; and the world of mechanical objects may seem personally inimical to you because things constantly break down and need attention and fixing. Having your time filled by tasks like servicing the car and doing the monthly accounts can make you extremely irritable. But the more you ignore this side of life the worse it tends to get, and there will not always be someone else there to clean up the mess which you leave behind. Your lack of attention to your body may result in problems with your health, not because you are intrinsically unhealthy - in fact, you are probably blessed with a strong and energetic constitution - but because any living thing, (yes I am!) including the flesh of which you are made, resents neglect and may retaliate with a message of its own. You are inclined to be ill at ease with your body because you have not befriended it, and thus tend toward hypochondria, or an obsession with "mastering" the body through strenuous diets and exercises which might be more punishing than helpful because they are excessive. You will sooner or later need to make better friends with the physical world. This effort can be rewarding and exciting because your sensual nature, although often repressed or neglected, is powerful and capable of great intensity and pleasure, and your uncannily accurate intuition can also be applied to practical matters to ensure your success. Any achievement of a material kind can be enormously rewarding to you, and you possess a rare capacity to respond to nature and to the beauty of the physical world - if you will only stop running away from what you call "lower" or "unimportant". In very personal matters such as sexual expression your unease with the body can also make you shy and awkward, and here too there might be a promise of much greater fulfilment if you can allow yourself to experience the powerful demands of the instincts which you sometimes fear. Your perception of physical reality may be too negative, and it is possible that family attitudes in your early life have contributed to your undervaluing of yourself in this realm of life. If you can learn the art of being an ordinary mortal in a sometimes unromantic world, then your unusual and powerful imaginative gifts will always bring you new adventures as well as earning you concrete rewards.

 

Sensitivity to others combines with a creative imagination

Your imaginative abilities are supported by a deep instinctive insight into human behaviour and motives. You have a profound response to the world of symbols, myths and images, and may excel in one of the arts, such as music, painting, dance or theatre, where your ability to intuit character and mimic it in plastic forms may give you exceptional talents. Or you may combine your imagination and your sensitivity to the handling of others' problems, offering much sympathy and vision to loved ones or to those whom you might choose to counsel or help. Your grasp of the potentials of a situation combines with sensitivity and compassion for the needs and problems of others, and this lends a human touch to the strange and often uncanny abilities of your intuition. Your great gift lies in the sensing of human potential and the deeper and more meaningful lessons to be found in life's dilemmas; and you blend this with gentleness and a sense of timing that can allow you to midwife this potential in yourself and in others. Your imagination never divorces itself from the world of human feelings because your perceptiveness and concern will always keep you related to other people, so that all your creative hunches and inspirations ultimately work to enhance and enrich interpersonal relationships.

Your deepest challenge in life, however, still remains the problem of earthing your vision and sense of human potential within the confines of material reality; and here your dependency upon human contact may make it even more difficult for you to cope with the restrictions and responsibilities that the world imposes upon you. Life sometimes requires a tough survival instinct and a capacity to cope alone if necessary. Your need to express your creative imagination through relationships with others may cause you to fear the cold self-sufficiency that situations sometimes demand of you. Occasionally too empathetic and idealistic for your own good, you have difficulty in drawing boundaries around yourself, and perpetually take on the burden of others' problems - not only because you are compassionate, but also because you do not know how to be firm about your own limits. And because your natural romanticism tends to express itself through faith in the potential of a relationship, you find it hard to face the imperfect reality of another person, preferring to live in a fantasy-image of what he or she could become rather than accepting the person who confronts you in actuality. You need to learn greater detachment and a more objective vision of life, and also could benefit from more overt stating of your ideas and needs to others - rather than hoping to be instantaneously and telepathically understood. Not everyone is as intuitive as you, and being able to be clear and direct about who you are and what you want can help you to a much greater sense of confidence in inhabiting that concrete world which you both fear and yet ultimately must embrace in order to feel real and secure in life.

 

III. CHARACTER AND SHADOW

One of the most important insights gained by depth psychology has been the revelation that people are dual in nature, and contain a basic polarity of a conscious and an unconscious self. There is the individual you are familiar with - the "I" that thinks, feels and acts in accustomed ways which you identify as yourself. And there is another, hidden individual - the shadow-side - which contains the less acceptable and less developed aspects of your personality, and which fights for a valued place in your life at the same time that it disrupts the complacency of your self-image. The interplay between the conscious and unconscious sides of you is a constantly shifting dance, changing at different stages of your life and altering according to the pressures and challenges which you encounter. The tension between the primary characters in your inner drama, described in the following paragraphs, is the source of energy which provides your life with movement, purpose, conflict and growth. There are other characters inside you too - supporting players who blend and conflict with the main ones to make you the unique individual you are. Where these are strongly marked in your horoscope, we have included a description of them as well. The story thus portrayed, with its complicated interaction oflight and shadow, represents what is really meant by individual destiny.

A romantic vision of life colours all your experiences "...And they lived happily ever after" is the way you would end all the chapters of your life, given the chance. Your romantic spirit believes in true love, goodness rewarded, evil punished, the essential fairness of life, and the ultimate achievement of all your rosy and glorious dreams. You tend to dwell up in the air a lot, but that is not because you are naive or stupid. It is just that what other people call real life does not agree with your picture of things. In a crisis or emergency you can be practical enough, and somehow your survival instincts inevitably attract to you precisely the right people and situations to help you cope - although you would disclaim any responsibility for this, preferring to believe that it is just another example of the benign workings of the cosmos. You determinedly turn your back on anything ugly, sordid, brutal or unfair as though by ignoring it, it will cease to exist; and often, if you wait long enough, that is exactly what happens, because somebody else deals with the problem. You exude a quality of childlike brightness and charm which disarms even the most manipulative of souls, and without having to say much, you tend to restore even a more disillusioned person's belief in the Never-never-land.


A firm belief in the good, the true and the beautiful Beauty and harmony are essential to you, and you are capable of working very hard and devoting most of your energies to the task of acquiring them. You not only believe that life ought to be fair, pleasant, luxurious and peaceful; you have a firm conviction that you are entitled to happiness, and that if you do not possess it as a permanent fixture then something has gone seriously wrong. It might surprise you to discover how many people do not automatically assume, as you do, that such happiness is their right; but although you might feel sorry for such people because of their negative attitudes and low aims, you are not deterred from your determination to manifest your radiant inner picture of the world in your actual concrete life. Physical beauty also means a great deal to you, and you are neither the world's best budgeter of finances nor are you temperamentally equipped to live for very long around cheap, ugly surroundings. It is not money in itself that matters to you - very likely it has a way of sliding through your fingers as soon as you get it - but style, pleasure, luxury and that indefinable something which is called "good taste". You are also convinced on some profound unconscious level that the universe is fair, and if something unpleasant happens in the world then somebody must have at some time done something to deserve it, or the cosmos has some ulterior motive in mind; and at the end of it all, the good will triumph.

You have a highly idealised picture of what you call love, and the romantic trappings of courtship are a necessary part of relationship to you - flowers, music, candlelight and romantic words and gestures. Without constant demonstrations of affection, you shrivel like a plant without water. Never mind if you are sometimes a little mannered, stylised and not always true to your real and immediate feelings in how you express love; it matters to you that courtesy, charm and kindness are always present. If they are not, you are quite capable of moving elsewhere, not because you are disloyal - at least, you are loyal to your ideal if not in actual practise - but because you cannot bear your romantic dream of love being tarnished by boorish behaviour, cruelty or neglect, no matter how much someone professes to care for you.

  The dilemma of feeling like an eternal child on christmas eve

Some part of you has refused to "grow up" and "face reality", and nothing in the world can convince you that this is a bad thing. As far as you are concerned, growing up means becoming dead inside, and facing reality means selling it out; and you value your innate capacity for joy, spontaneity and childlike wonder too much to sacrifice it for the emptiness, boredom and defeat which others label maturity. You believe in your own unique destiny and in your right to people the world with handsome princes, beautiful princesses, dragons to be fought and treasures to be won; and if the actual people in your life fail to live up to your mythologised image of them, then it is the people who have failed, not your vision. You have certain innate assumptions about your own specialness and your god-given right to love, happiness and the freedom to pursue your pleasures, and although this can sometimes cross over the border from childlike spontaneity to outright narcissism and egocentricity, you offer your romantic vision of life with such charm and wholehearted conviction that others forgive you anyway, even if you have inadvertently been grossly insensitive to their feelings and their own individual natures. (That is me if I am honest)...

You are truly a child at heart, and probably relate well to actual children because of your delightful capacity to inhabit their fantasy-world with them. (Yes I do)..Birthdays should have big parties with beautiful cakes, and Christmas should have a marvellously decorated tree and delicious surprises in the morning; and woe to anyone who tries to force a utilitarian and dreary approach to life on you. You would be happiest working in a creative field where your love of colour, drama and excessive emotion can be expressed without constriction - particularly the world of the theatre, of fiction or of poetry. Never mind that half the world has unfinished novels in their desk drawers; you possess enough imagination and believe enough in your own unique destiny to complete one. (Any acting role for me out there??)
 

A sentimental heart adds charm and warmth

There is a quality of softness and gentleness in you which sometimes borders on the sentimental, but which gives your personality enormous delicacy and charm. You are the sort of person who could wear old- fashioned styles with panache, and surround yourself with precious antique furnishings to create a private, enchanted world within the drearier actual one. You have considerable sensitivity to the feelings of others, and your tact and diplomacy are useful gifts in any personal or professional relationship. You are also acutely sensitive yourself, reacting to coldness or criticism by scuttling back into your enchanted private world where no one ever says an unkind word and where lovers are always true to each other. You are moody and melancholy, with a kind of "olde-worlde" touch of sadness like a character from a fin-de-siècle novel; but you are neither naive nor stupid about people, and know very well how to protect your feelings and your security should the occasion warrant. Thus you contain a strange paradox within you - a kind of hard shrewdness and canniness combined with a determination to create around yourself a gentle, slightly out of focus lifestyle which appears extremely vulnerable and easily shattered. But you do not shatter easily. You bruise, but your allegiance to your inner values is firm and unshakeable, and eventually you come out of hiding to try again. You tend to look back at the past a lot, both your own (which you have a tendency to romanticise and view through delicately tinted lenses) and the longer past, in the form of history. Anything from the mists of medieval romance draws you, for the world is full of knights alone and palely loitering and also full of sleeping princesses waiting for the kiss of a lover to awaken. History is also a place where you can inject your own interpretations without threat of someone rising from the dead to contradict you. With all this gossamer dream-spinning, however, you survive better than most, for you mistrust people on principle until you get to know them, and stay as far away from their potential hurtfulness as possible.

Excessive idealism in love can lead to disappointment You do not believe in loneliness, separateness or conflict. That may sound absurd, for these things are part of life; but nevertheless, you do not believe in them, and when you are confronted with them you generally react by first becoming disillusioned with the person or situation who has made you feel bad, and then looking elsewhere for that perfect ideal which continues unstained in your fantasies. You long for a state of oneness - a kind of mystical soul-union with another person, or a spiritual revelation - which will end, once and for all and forever, the awful experience of being lonely and separate, which you are determined to transcend. Plato's fable about the original unity of the sexes which was sundered somewhere in the distant past and which has resulted in all men and women seeking their true other half, is very real to you, for this is your view of love and also your view of life; and life is not worth living without such a love. You are more prone than most people to being disappointed, because your expectations are so high. You have a quality of poignant melancholy which responds readily to certain kinds of music as well as to alcohol, and which makes you seem a little too precious and fragile at times.


Closing thoughts (exact)

Although in reality you are stronger than you seem, for your determination to avoid the bleak, cold world that others call reality is immovable, and nothing can quench your dreams. If they are irrevocably thwarted in the outer world, then you retreat into the inner, and can sometimes seem to be abstracted, aloof and inaccessible. What you sometimes inject into your personal relationships is really a kind of mystical longing - a desire to give up control and responsibility, and merge with a greater, more transcendent whole. If you can pursue this longing through a spiritual or creative rather than a human channel, you may find that people disappoint you less; for they can never provide you with the sense of all-embracing unconditional love that you seek - and believe you are prepared to give, if only you could find a suitable object. Very likely the only really suitable object is God, for if you offer so much of your own self to another person it can become a burden rather than a gift. Your compassion for others is very strong, particularly for the sad, lost part of people which seeks its redemption above and beyond worldly confines; for your perception of a higher and more loving dimension of life is not a false one. But perhaps you need to refrain from expecting it all the time, or demanding it from others quite so often.

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